Many people say that marriage is the graveyard of love, and marriage means burying love. Although this sentence is not necessarily all right, it certainly has its own unique meaning in it, and even if it is placed in the entertainment industry, there are still people who practice this statement.
Recently, when Hong Kong actress He Qiyun was interviewed by the media, she generously expressed her attitude of non-marriage, and she has been in contact with her boyfriend for 28 years, and she has shared her unique concept of love with the outside world.
According to 47-year-old He Qiyun, she and her boyfriend have been in private for 28 years, although they have not yet received a marriage license, but the relationship between the two is like an "old husband and wife", living under the same roof, intimate like family.
As for the reason for not getting married, He Qiyun said that he had not considered having children, and his boyfriend was willing to accept it, plus both parents were enlightened old people, so even if they were just in love, they could still be very compatible.
But in the same way, even if they are not married, together for so many years, He Qiyun and her boyfriend inevitably had quarrels, and she also revealed that the feelings of the two have also cracked, separated for two or three years in the middle, but finally found that each other is still suitable for each other before they are reunited.
In this regard, He Qiyun is also generous to share his own concept of love, bluntly saying that if the boyfriend has a request to get married, he will not maintain the status quo, but the first person to open his mouth must not be himself: "If you don't want to go together, you don't care about a lifetime."
I have to say that He Qiyun is indeed an independent woman who is extremely free and has her own subjective views, and she is not attached to men, and she is far more comfortable than more women.
Of course, being able to develop such a character is also related to her own experience for many years.
It is reported that He Qiyun debuted late, because of the size of 170cm, in the early years, he was discovered by star scouts to be a model, at that time, He Qiyun worked hard, the monthly model income was as high as 30,000 or 40,000 Hong Kong dollars, in 1997, He Qiyun also filmed TV commercials with 15-year-old Xu Ziqi.
In 2003, 30-year-old He Qiyun was enrolled in the 17th ARTIST TRAINING CLASS of TVB because the company had cooperation requirements with TVB, and thus signed TVB to become a professional actor.
Over the years, He Qiyun has also played supporting roles in TVB's self-made TV series, including "Walking with the Enemy" and "Cooking Woman in the Camp", all of which she is familiar with.
In 2006, He Qiyun was nominated for best supporting actress at the Wan Qian Xinghui Awards for her outstanding performance as Gao Yilan in "Lovers Under the Curtain".
Including in the 2012 broadcast of "Love Home Happy Express", He Qiyun was also nicknamed "TVB's royal secretary" by many viewers with the role of "Ma Sister".
However, because of the entry into TVB, He Qiyun's career and family were once affected.
According to He Qiyun, after becoming an actress, advertisers rarely cooperate with her, on the one hand, after being photogenic, many bosses feel that she is not like a professional model, on the other hand, the announcement of the itinerary is always conflicting, and over time, the modeling profession is completely abandoned.
But although he became a professional actor, the salary was far less than when he was a model, and the most important thing was that the family also misunderstood that He Qiyun's change of career was greedy and vain, and there was a gap after constant quarrels, and later, He Qiyun and his family had no contact for up to 10 years.
On the other hand, coupled with the fact that He Qiyun himself is completely unsociable, and he is not even bothered to rely on relationships to develop a career, he naturally does not get attention, over the years, He Qiyun's career is not up and down, even if he only relies on the role of secretary and other roles to get the audience's recognition of his acting skills, but he is still unpopular in TVB.
After nearly 20 years of supporting roles, He Qiyun has long since complained, coupled with the stability of her relationship with her boyfriend, there is no unnecessary factor to drag her back, and her life has more directions for development.
A few years ago, after saving enough money, He Qiyun also opened a small jewelry store of her own in Hong Kong, and with TVB's announcements becoming less and less, she simply faded out of the entertainment circle to concentrate on being a boss lady.
Or maybe the pressure has decreased a lot, and now He Qiyun is getting younger and younger at the age of 47, if there are any regrets, He Qiyun said that there may only be a heart that wants to be a starring actor.