Recently, an employer shared with us the changes she made after inviting her aunt, and she hopes to share her experience with more people.
When people reach middle age, they slowly understand one thing: don't die to hold on, learn to bow to life and housework. Because you always have to understand that there are limits to what people are capable of. When you have to work and do housework, your body will not agree.
Although I am a boss, in the eyes of everyone, I work freely, I don't need to work, and I don't necessarily have so much resentment, but I feel that all the housework consumes most of my energy.
Sometimes, when I turn on the computer after doing all the housework, I just want to sigh what kind of life this is. After all, from childhood to adulthood, before starting a family, my parents did all the housework, and even the opportunity to cook was very rare.
A lot of housework is not learned until after marriage. Sometimes, I would ask my mother, "Why didn't you give me more housework skills when I was a child?" My mom's answer was, "It's not a bad thing to be able to do less housework." Whoever worries about housework is old. ”
It turns out that yes. After getting married, in the half a year that I matched with my teammates, I found that the other party was not a good hand at housework. I love cleanliness, but I don't have enough time to do housework. Sometimes mopping the whole ground, looking back, there is still some garbage, obviously I didn't see it when I just mopped the floor.
My teammates also love to be clean, but he can't stretch his feet anymore, so he gets up to do housework, but he always likes to do it while nagging, which makes the relationship between the two of us decline rapidly. Sometimes when I lie in bed, the first thing I say is, what kind of life is this?
Why did we suddenly think of asking a housekeeper to help us?
Probably, the teammates suddenly realized that the two of us had been dragged to the point of almost collapse because of housework; Probably, I suddenly realized that a few thousand dollars a month, if it can be exchanged for comfort, it is actually enough to make me happy to pay.
Presumably, I asked around and many friends told me, "Frankly, we asked the housekeeper to clean up very early." Whether in terms of professionalism or comfort, it will be much higher. ”
I asked 5 people and at least 4 people said the same thing to me. Today's office workers really don't want to spend their time doing housework. Spend money to buy happiness, spend money to buy clean, why not? When I heard it, I couldn't find a reason to refuse.
So I immediately made a decision to hire a suitable housekeeping aunt, and on the morning of my aunt's arrival, my teammates and I had an unprecedented Sunday off.
After the cleaning, I took the initiative to buy a lunch for my aunt. Later, every time my aunt finished cleaning, I would pay for a lunch at my own expense, after all, we had a harmonious relationship, and she would be more attentive to her work. After my aunt cleaned it, the house became clean, and the happiness of my teammates and I was self-evident.
"Professional things, for professional people." Sometimes I think that if I am not happy in the moment, I can find happiness in a different way of thinking. If you can spend money to buy some happiness, it's not impossible. Within the scope of your ability, spending money to loosen yourself and change yourself to ease is better than self-torture day by day.
Since its establishment, it has been focusing on maternal and infant, childcare, housework, elderly care and other fields, and has received praise from countless families and employers. In the past 17 years, it has brought reassuring services to 300,000 families. In order to meet the needs of the majority of employers for housekeeping services, the aunt comes to hold an employer meeting every Saturday at 14:00, and the employer and the aunt have a one-on-one interview, so that both parties can get a comprehensive and in-depth understanding, so that the employer can choose with confidence, and the aunt can do it with confidence.
If you need to invite an aunt in front of the screen, you can go to the meeting site to select an aunt according to the time and place in the poster below, or you can scan the QR code in the picture to make a live appointment for the employer meeting, and choose an aunt without leaving home.
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