Today's topic: Have you ever encountered a situation where when chatting with relatives, always calling "cousin" "cousin" and "cousin" "cousin"? It's a real headache, why?
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In traditional Chinese culture, family relationships are intricate, but the distinction between "tang" and "table" is actually clearly defined. To put it simply, the children of Dad's brother are called "cousins"; The children of the siblings on the mother's side, or the children of the father's sisters, are called "cousins".
With the changes in the family structure in modern society, there are more and more small families, and there are fewer cases of large families living together, which makes it easier for the younger generation to contact and distinguish the names of these relatives in real life, which is naturally easy to confuse.
But interestingly, when we dig deeper, we will find that not only the younger generation, but also some middle-aged and elderly people, in the rapidly changing social environment, in the face of complex and changeable family networks, sometimes confused. For example, with the increase in cross-regional marriages and family members spread all over the world, the traditional title system has encountered challenges in practical application.
Netizens have also started to fry the pot
That's true, I think that although my knowledge is a little broader, and I know a little more miscellaneous knowledge, it is not very much. But when I was in junior high school, I was a well-known jack-of-all-trades in my class, and I could answer anything the teacher asked
Plausible? It doesn't matter if the cousins don't know each other for three generations, and they can even be married. Cousin, you try
The trend of modernization is the fragmentation of households, and only the backward areas attach so much importance to the ethnic groups, after all, the cost of maintaining the lives of the ethnic groups is too high in the developed areas.
Sometimes I really agree with the curse of knowledge, a lot of common sense is really a lot of people really don't know, such as the moon is the reflection of the sun's light, I asked my friend, in her twenties, she really doesn't know, even a few of her friends don't know, she is really messed up with other common sense issues, but this one is the deepest... It just feels outrageous
Your family told you that it was wrong, and your aunt's family is also cousins, and the way to divide it is to see if you have the same surname, provided that each family follows your father's surname!
Useless knowledge is not needed, just like the fennel of fennel beans There are several ways to write it, if you are interested, you can study it, but it is useless if you don't need it.
The children of the aunt and uncle are cousins of each other, and the children of the two aunts are cousins of each other. The children of blood uncles with the same surname are cousins of each other. If the child of an uncle with the same surname is a woman, the child born to the mother and brother is each other's cousins.
You are still from Shandong, and these traditional etiquettes in Shandong are the best. The main reason why you don't add "Tang" to the title of the same surname in your village is because "Tang XX" is generally used as a third-person title, for example, if you tell your friend about your cousin, you will say "my cousin", but you will not call your cousin "cousin" in person, but will call it "brother", which seems to be closer.
It doesn't matter because there are too many only children in previous years, and there is no need. It will still be useful to have more brothers and sisters in the future, that is blood relationship.
I didn't figure it out at first, but then I figured it out, and the people with the same surname as me were my cousins
Regardless of how many generations apart the relationship between the halls, as long as the typesetting can be matched, there is a sense of intimacy in the future, and whether it is good or not is another matter. If the relationship between the table is not more than two generations, it basically doesn't matter. Only in this way can there be roots and veins, so that there will be no chaos, and only then can there be cohesion for the country and the nation
In the final analysis, the inability to distinguish between "hall" and "table" is not only a small misunderstanding of language, but also a kind of neglect of family culture and family connection. In this era of rapid change, let's slow down, listen more to the elders, and participate more in family activities, so that the family affection connected by blood is deeper and warmer in the clear definition of "hall" and "table". Remember, every accurate salutation is a gentle awakening of family feelings.
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