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Educating children is like fighting monsters and upgrading, and you must do it in every detail of your life.
And some of the content should not be sloppy, especially in terms of sex education, but it is very important, and it must not be taken seriously.
Many parents think that their children will understand it slowly, so they don't pay much attention to sex education, but often this attitude causes children to have a wrong understanding of sexuality, which also greatly affects their children's psychological growth.
Appropriate sex education can help children grow up healthier, but when carrying out this education, many parents will react, and when they talk about it, they are inexplicably shy and have a strange tone, as if the person who said it has become an adult.
At this time, it is necessary to have a mother with high emotional intelligence to deal with it, so what did this mother with high emotional intelligence do to transform herself into such a mother, who also has her own children?
What kind of strange noises did these little girls make in this small room of the house?
The voice came from the daughter's room.
Ms. Gao is also running around for a livelihood and to support her family, but Ms. Gao was about to go home from work that day, and at this time she also cared about her daughter Mary and her husband Jack, and missed them very much.
Because there was some dispute between the two a few days ago, the two of them each thought calmly for a few days, and now Ms. Gao wants to go to see how Mary and her husband Jack are doing after work.
But since the last time Mary and Jack fell out, not only did she no longer care about her father, but she also didn't want to talk to her mother, and even if they met, they would only be silent and sullen, which made Ms. Gao sad.
In order to let Mary get out of her sad mood quickly, Ms. Gao also specially bought some snacks and food that she likes to eat......
However, when I arrived at the door of the first floor, I found that the room was unusually quiet, so I was even more worried.
So, she gently pushed open the door, but something strange happened-
At this time, the daughter Mary was in her room, sitting up straight with a nervous face, and looked at her mother, she didn't know if Ms. Gao heard it, but the voice she made...... It is emitted by one thing...... I wonder if my mother heard it?
But the moment she saw Ms. Gao, she was so frightened that she got up from the sofa, picked up the pillow on the sofa to cover her face, and whimpered and cried.
After hearing the noise, he opened the door and saw that his daughter happened to bump into him, so he hurriedly locked the door, and his expression became very panicked, like a child who had done something wrong, he was caught and did not dare to look up.
Ms. Gao's acting skills.
If this scene were someone else's parents, they would not treat this kind of shameful thing like a little cabbage with their heads down and waiting for interrogation, and most of them would treat the girl in a rough, tough, or irritable and punitive way, instead of calmly waiting for interrogation.
So even if other families do this to girls, as parents, don't learn to use it on their own children.
Exactly what happened, you need to be patient and wait for explanations.
Generally speaking, the sovereignty of the home is the mother, and this scene belongs to the "cat and mouse" part of the cat and mouse game fable, which is an important round of inclination, and if you do not pass this level, it will affect whether the cat and mouse can be successful.
But success means that life is happy to complete the task, and failure means that you are trapped in a dangerous cycle, not only unable to complete the task, but also losing your most important thing, so for SpongeBob SquarePants, this level is worth grasping carefully.
And Ms. Gao is undoubtedly the one who has received an excellent score and passed this link, and this course is called "sex knowledge education class".
In the face of this kind of thing, every parent is in a state of confusion, but as a person with rich experience and deep understanding, it is not unusual, but they have gone through this stage and understand the development process of things, so it is especially easy to deal with these small things.
However, as people in the adolescent growth stage, it is normal for little girls to be very shy and overwhelmed in the face of this situation, because everyone has such a stage, but not all experiences are representative and can explain the problem, because different stages and different environments are actually very simple and understandable, but sometimes they are like a fog in the clouds.
So many people think that touching the baby is the characteristics of rich adults, so they hide and hesitate, for such a general direction, we must pay attention to the way of speaking, to have guidance, as far as possible to remind children to be aware of the importance of the situation, and to guide them to cultivate consciousness, and make changes.
Looking at this from this point of view, I think the emotional intelligence that Ms. Gao showed is very important, because at this time, both men and women, they will be full of curiosity about some strange feelings.
In fact, it is enough for parents to ask a question directly to understand the effective guidance:
"Xiaoyue, what are you doing here?"
The next step up is the behavioral evaluation part, and these two functions can be used together to have a good effect, because you can't guide someone to the future, but you can give them what to do now.
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