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In the circle of friends, Xiaoli posted her "perfect" life again: exquisite makeup, delicious, and luxury bags that she just bought, and there were many likes and comments at the bottom, all praising her for living exquisitely and being a winner in life, but Xiaoli, who turned off her mobile phone and was about to start working overtime, couldn't help but sigh
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Is this scene familiar? In the age of social media, we seem to be wrapped up in an invisible pressure, the pursuit of perfect persona, showing the glamorous side, exquisite food, expensive travel, glamorous work, as if it has become the standard for success, no one wants to expose their "imperfections" in the circle of friends
"Circle of Friends" is like a large-scale "perfect" exhibition, everyone is carefully crafting their own image, but behind this pursuit of perfection, how much anxiety and pressure are hidden, and how many people live in the envy of others but forget to please themselves?
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Some time ago, a friend suddenly called me, her tone was full of exhaustion and confusion, she said that she resigned, the reason is "too tired", it turned out that she has been working in a well-known company, with a good income, and the position is also enviable, in the eyes of outsiders, she is a proper winner in life, and the circle of friends is also positive content
However, behind the glamorous and glamorous, she worked overtime day and night, the anxiety of not meeting KPIs, and the pressure from leaders and customers
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"I try to play a 'perfect role' every day, but I'm really tired," said a friend's words that touched me deeply, and on the way to perfection, we always habitually ignore our own feelings and live to meet the expectations of others
We are afraid of making mistakes, afraid of being denied, afraid of being left behind, so we work hard to become the "perfect" character in the eyes of others, but is such "perfection" really meaningful?
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I saw a topic on the Internet, "Would you like to live in the circle of friends?" The comments at the bottom are very interesting, some people say they are willing, because the circle of friends is beautiful, and they can temporarily escape the pressure of reality; Some people also said that they were unwilling, because the circle of friends was too fake and they were too tired to live
In fact, whether it is the circle of friends or real life, it is just a part of our life, and we don't need to live like we don't like in order to cater to others
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Only by accepting one's imperfections and allowing oneself to have shortcomings and vulnerabilities can we live more authentically and comfortably
A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend who works as a counselor in college, and she said that many college students are anxious now, and one of the important reasons is "perfectionism"
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They have been "other people's children" since they were young, with excellent grades, versatile, and are used to being praised and recognized, but after entering the university, they also begin to be confused and begin to doubt themselves in the face of a new environment and challenges
"Am I not good enough?" "Am I not doing well?" These questions, like lingering shadows, hang over their hearts and leave them breathless
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Friends said that many students come to her for counseling because of some seemingly small things, such as failing to do well in exams, not organizing club activities, or even just having quarrels with roommates, they will magnify these things infinitely, blame themselves, feel guilty, and feel like a failure
"Actually, everyone makes mistakes and encounters setbacks, which is the normal state of life," said a friend, "The important thing is that we learn to accept our imperfections, allow ourselves to make mistakes, and allow ourselves to fail"
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When I saw a sentence on the Internet, I was deeply touched: "True perfection is not the pursuit of flawlessness, but the acceptance of one's own imperfections and living one's true self"
Yes, life is like a marathon, we can't keep sprinting all the time, and we can't always stand on the podium
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Allow yourself to stop and rest once in a while, and allow yourself to fall behind once in a while, so that you can go further and more steadily
Let go of the obsession with "perfection" and accept your imperfections, so that you can live more easily and more comfortably
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I saw a topic online, "Do you think you're perfect?" The comments at the bottom are very interesting, some people say that they are not perfect at all and have many shortcomings; It is also said that everyone is unique, and it doesn't matter if it's perfect or not, it's important to live your true self
In fact, everyone has their own shining points and their own shortcomings
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Instead of striving for perfection, try to accept your imperfections and discover what makes you unique
Just like a diamond, even if there are some flaws, it can't hide its brilliance
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Accepting our imperfections is not about letting us go and not wanting to make progress, but about facing life's challenges with a more peaceful mind
When we are no longer bound by the shackles of "perfection", we can truly unleash our potential and live a wonderful life
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Accepting one's own imperfections also means accepting the imperfections of others
Everyone has their own pace of growth, everyone has their own way of life, we don't need to use our own standards to demand others, and there is no need to be disappointed because others don't meet our expectations
Learning to understand and tolerate can build more harmonious interpersonal relationships
Accepting imperfection is a kind of wisdom in life, but also a kind of attitude towards life
When we can face our own imperfections and tolerate the imperfections of others, we can truly live in the present moment and enjoy the beauty of life
Life is not a beauty contest, and we don't need to live as "perfect" in the eyes of others
Accepting one's imperfections and living one's true self is the most beautiful posture in life
What about you, are you ready to accept your imperfect self? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area to share your views
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