Speaking of Sang Tianer in "Sauvignon Blanc", many people will think that she is sober and brave:
marrying a skewer to get rid of the status of a prostitute; Prostrate to learn the medical skills of self-reliance; After being seriously injured by a string in middle age, he chose to forgive, and he achieved a full house of children and grandchildren.
In particular, Sang Tianer's words of admonishing Xiao Yao on a snowy day are called "sober in the world".
At first, I also thought that Sang Tianer was a rare open-minded and sober woman in the group portrait of the women in "Sauvignon Blanc".
It wasn't until later, when I saw Xiao Yao holding a bow and arrows crying bitterly for Feng Shao, that I was shocked to realize that Sang Tian'er's sobriety was just a self-deception.
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Sang Tian'er is indeed very powerful, and with her lonely bravery, she changed her life for herself.
She was originally a prostitute who was looked down upon, and she was driven by money to seduce skewers. After being discovered by Lao Mu and Xiao Yao, even if they don't love skewers in their hearts, they have to give it a go and marry him.
After marriage, Sang Tianer fulfilled her wife's duties: taking care of the skewers, serving Lao Mu, respecting Xiaoyao, and doing everything very satisfactorily.
In the end, with his humble and studious progress, he was favored by Xiaoyao, learned medical skills, supported a large family, and gained the ability to live in peace.
From this point of view, she is indeed very successful, and even when she meets Xiaoyao again in her twilight years, she can't help but show off her past.
But in my opinion, all this is just a moon in the water, and it looks good and is not easy to take.
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That time, after being robbed of marriage, Xiao Yao was confused and at a loss.
Sang Tian'er, who is full of children and grandchildren and has gone through vicissitudes, told her:
"After I gave birth to two sons, I almost broke up from the skewers. But I couldn't help begging for mercy and admitting my mistakes, and finally I made do with it, and when I turned my head and thought about it, I was glad that I didn't bet that breath at that time. ”
She also persuaded Xiao Yao to think about it, saying:
"Isn't this life like walking on a barren mountain? No one knows what's ahead, maybe it's calm, maybe the road is bumpy, stumbling, stumbling, and it's been like this for a lifetime. ”
After listening to these words, Xiao Yao seemed to be lit up as a beacon of life, and immediately found the way forward, and ran towards Tu Shanjing with a blazing heart.
Seeing this scene, many people on the barrage praised Sang Tianer for being sober and thorough, being a life mentor, and being transparent and open-minded that embarrassed everyone.
However, brushing away the dust of life and picking up the layers of falling snow, the ground is muddy, and the heart is a blur of flesh and blood.
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Fade away from God's perspective, travel through time, and go back to the year when Sang Tianer wanted to break up with Skewers, and you will find that Sang Tianer's days are bitter or bitter.
As a former prostitute, as a woman who gave birth to two sons, what else can Sang Tianer do except make do with skewers?
Even if he knows how to heal, Xiao Yao relied on his medical skills and some spiritual power of the Protoss back then, but he was able to keep the food and drink of four people.
Sang Tian'er, as a powerless civilian, with two children, where can she go? How should she live?
If you live with a skewer, you can still live; Without the skewers, it is really uncertain whether it is life or death.
Sang Tian'er just chose a less painful path in the face of painful options.
She used the illusion that tomorrow would be better to survive difficult nights; She bets with God with the faint hope in her heart, betting on a possible better tomorrow.
Fortunately, she won, and so, decades later, she was called by everyone: wise and sober.
But what if she loses? If the skewers didn't change their minds in the end, and they were still inferior and difficult to change, would Sang Tianer's original insistence become a joke?
Just like Xiao Yao's unforgettable pain when she heard the news of Feng Shao's death, it was just an illusion of hers.
Too often, we always laugh at the stupidity after failure; and will always beautify the original choice after success.
It is undeniable that Sang Tianer is very wise in life, but a reality that is even clearer is that under every sober mask, there are many embarrassments and humiliations in life.
Sometimes, others are better off than you, but others are better than you.
suddenly remembered the passage in "Three Lives, Three Worlds and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", after Bai Qian jumped off Zhuxiantai:
"My aunt often says that I have a good life, I was born a fairy fetus, and I don't need to practice to be a goddess. But how can there be such a cheap thing in the world, how can you fly to the gods without experiencing a catastrophe? ”
The gods still have to go through the heavenly tribulation before they can ascend, how can ordinary you and I have an epiphany casually.
So, don't look up and envy those glamorous people, they just have experienced more than us, hurt more, persevered longer, and that's it.
Encourage you!
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