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Some time ago, there was an incident on the Internet about "my sister's misappropriation of a piggy bank" that was put on the hot search, and the cruelest truth about the poor was torn apart behind it.
Here's how it happened:
The blogger said that their family was originally eating lunch in harmony, and they planned to go to the market after lunch.
As a result, her father suddenly took out a wooden stick from the room and hit her sister fiercely, and angrily asked:
"Did you secretly spend your pocket money? Is there anything at home that you can't eat? Why are you spending money recklessly? You tell me? Why are you spending this money? ”
The younger sister replied aggrievedly:
"Why can't I use my own piggy bank? It's only cost less than a hundred yuan and you're getting angry, so don't give birth to us! Were we born to suffer with you? ”
It turned out that her sister had a piggy bank, and every time her parents gave her pocket money, her sister rarely took it to spend, but secretly put it in the piggy bank to save it.
Unexpectedly, one time, my mother inadvertently gave my sister's piggy bank while cleaning, and my mother told my father about it.
After Dad learned that his sister had a habit of saving money,.
Therefore, when her father found out that his sister had "misappropriated" the piggy bank, his first reaction was to criticize his sister for being ignorant, instead of asking her what she had bought.
Now, she saw her father angry because of a trivial matter, because of a matter of dozens of dollars, and she was also taken aback.
She wanted to argue with her father for her sister, but she thought back to what she had suffered from before, and arguing would only cause endless quarrels, and she didn't bother to say anything.
In this regard, many netizens ridiculed:
"I heard that this is a person who has been mediocre all his life, and he can finally find a sense of authority in his children, is it true?"
"I just think your sister's gesture is so brave, I couldn't do it back then"
"The characteristics of the older generation: no hard work, no hard work, no sick hard thinking, sick hard to carry"
"In this kind of family, when the children are older, they will not want to go back when they go out to work in the future."
"Because there is no money, even if the children grow up, they still want to control each other. The best way is to stay away from home, regardless of the other person's emotions, everything is fine"
The birth of every child carries the hope and love of parents, and poverty is like an invisible lock that binds those innocent children tightly.
So sometimes, poverty is the original sin, and it is a big deal for someone who has no money to accidentally break a bowl.
For the poor, that can be a long period of wages, and it costs a lot of money to get a new bowl. But rich people don't care, just throw away a bowl and buy it again.
Some people may say that "the poor also have the right to have children", but without money, it is really not recommended to have children, and if you are not happy, the children will not be happy.
As Eileen Chang said:
"If a child is born to inherit his toil, panic, and poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness."
I think so.
The above incident reminds me of another "2-day stick education for children" incident.
We all know that the benefits of Cantonese people are the most practical, and the red envelope is a profit, and the picture is auspicious, and the heart is not gold.
Under normal circumstances, Cantonese people have 1, 2, 10, 20, 50 red envelopes and so on.
Then there was a little boy in Guangdong, and when his relatives came to visit, they sealed several red envelopes for him.
At that time, his mother also asked him to hand over the red envelope on the grounds that she would keep it for him and return it to him when he grew up, but the little boy refused.
After the mother was rejected, she specially told the little boy that the red envelopes could be kept by himself, but not to spend money indiscriminately.
Later, when the little boy went out shopping with his friends, he not only bought himself a cup of milk tea, but also bought a cup of milk tea for his friends.
At the same time, he also bought a little snack, a total of 50 yuan.
As a result, it was this 50 yuan that gave him a taste of stick education.
Because after his mother found out that he spent 50 yuan in 2 days, she directly used a stick to educate him, so that he understood that the family conditions were average, and he could not spend money indiscriminately next time.
Also, I saw such a thing in the comment area:
The boy said that when he was in elementary school, his parents were too lazy to get up to make breakfast for him, and they didn't want to give me money to buy it, so they let him make his own breakfast.
At that time, the morning time was tight, and the boy was not a person who could cook, so he could only cook noodles every morning, and the cooking was very unpalatable.
He ate almost every day, until he vomited, and he was scared.
One morning, he secretly dumped the uneaten noodles into the trash, a large iron bucket filled with garbage and rotten vegetables for his sister's.
He covered it with something, thinking that he would not be discovered by his parents, let alone beaten.
As a result, when he came home from school at noon, his parents made him kneel in front of the garbage can, beat him with a stick and shouted at him:
"Do you think you should fight? Did you do it wrong? Why do you waste food? Do you know how hard it is for parents to make money? How many hours do you need to buy a pack of noodles? You white-eyed wolf! ”
At the same time, his parents also gave two options, one was to eat 20 boards, and the other was to eat the noodles clean.
In the end, in order not to be beaten, he endured pain and nausea to eat the noodles cleanly...
This painful taste will never be forgotten for the rest of his life.
remembered what Luo Xiang said:
"The most terrible thing about a family is not poverty, but having a person who often creates internal friction and constantly creates contradictions and quarrels. Living in such a family, everyone's nerves are tense for fear of making a small mistake. ”
No matter how poor a family is, as long as the family works together and supports each other, even if they live in a dilapidated old house, they will laugh constantly and the atmosphere is very warm.
The rise and fall of a family is focused on management. If relatives are not harmonious, the blessings will be damaged.
Family internal friction is often more terrible than poverty.
There is a hot topic on Zhihu: "Why are children reluctant to go home when they grow up?"
Among them, there was a high praise comment in the comment area:
"Why don't you want to go home? Because they don't have ego when they go home, they will be uncomfortable with everything they do, and anything can cause quarrels.
When you are reading, you are urged to work, and when you are resting, you are urged to read. The results you have worked so hard to achieve are easy for them, not worth mentioning, and a waste of time. In their world, only they work hardest, and everyone else plays every day.
Nagging at some other people's parents, they can't deal with their own emotional problems, and they transfer all their anxiety to their children.
They are stubborn, I don't want to change them at all, I know very well that I can't change it, I just say my opinion, and in the end it will become that I am making trouble, I am all wrong, very suffocating.
Then they don't allow children to have negative energy, but they often pass on all kinds of negative energy to children, the family is poor, you have to be grateful and sensible, and willing to endure hardships.
If you have any problems with him, they will not be able to comfort you and accuse you of being too hypocritical.
Therefore, after working for so many years, I almost never take the initiative to send messages to my parents, and I don't even want to go home for the Chinese New Year. ”
For happy children, home is a safe haven, a harbor of eternal warmth.
And for unhappy children, home is not a haven, but a place of hell.
They would rather choose to stay away from home and go to a paradise alone, than stay at home, let alone return home. Although it is a bit lonely to work alone, it is still free.
As the saying goes, "Happy people use their childhood to heal their whole lives, and unhappy people use their lives to heal their childhood." ”
So children who don't have a haven don't look forward to going home.
In fact, we can't accurately judge, nor can we use money to measure, what kind of parents should have children.
Because this includes a variety of objective and complex factors such as personal will, natural laws, etc.
However, if you are not able enough to give your child a good living condition, it is advisable not to have children.
Life is already difficult, and if you can't treat them well when you give birth to children, it is actually a kind of torture for them to live in this world.
Everyone's reproductive rights are not only a right or choice that belongs to you, it is also a responsibility for another life.
Finally, I hope that the parents here must think carefully before giving birth to a child, and don't let the child be ruined in your hands.
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