Husband is addicted to an extramarital affair and can't extricate himself? How did the original partner make the cheating man see the mistress clearly?
A man is addicted to extramarital affairs, which is nothing more than an extramarital affair that allows him to "profit",
By having an extramarital affair, he can get physical and psychological satisfaction.
If we want him to be bored with extramarital affairs, we just need to break his profit model.
Let the cheating man lose in an extramarital affair far more than the benefits he gains,
Let Xiao San's contribution in the extramarital affair be much higher than her income,
There will always be a quarrel between one party because they can't take advantage, and this is the entry point to solve the extramarital affair.
In an extramarital affair case that Jiaxin had come into contact with before, the cheating man showed that he was obsessed with an extramarital affair.
Because the economic conditions of the mistress are good, there is no need for the cheating man to spend any money.
Cheating men only need to pay time and money to be able to reap the excitement and freshness of extramarital affairs.
So the cheating man is discovered, as long as the wife doesn't divorce and doesn't make too much trouble,
He just won't end an affair easily, that's human nature.
Because the cheating man gets a lot more than he gives,
Wives don't divorce or make trouble, and cheating men don't have anything to lose.
When you do one thing and get more, men will be greedy and want to continue.
In addition, the junior is younger and more beautiful than his wife, and he will coax a cheating man, so he is naturally more addicted.
This original partner asked Jiaxin what to do?
An extramarital affair may be a win-win model, but this marriage is not.
The junior doesn't want money, does he just need feelings? The conditions of the junior are not bad, why only the feelings of married men?
Many of the original partners will ignore the analysis of the mistress because they want to redeem mainly cheating men.
Jiaxin suggested that this original partner should not understand the purpose of the junior from the mouth of the cheating man.
It's to learn more about the junior yourself, see what the real situation of the junior is, and analyze the real purpose.
The economic conditions of the junior are not so good, he makes his own money and spends it,
is thirty years old and unmarried, and the junior introduced by the family is not satisfied.
It's not that she doesn't want to get married, she wants to find a marriage that she is satisfied with.
So this married cheating man is the target of the mistress who wants to get married.
The picture of the mistress is marriage, is the cheating man willing to give the mistress marriage?
It is obvious that the cheating man is reluctant to divorce, and he is obsessed with the mistress who doesn't want anything.
How to solve an extramarital affair like this?
First of all, it arouses the suspicion between the mistress and the cheating man.
The original partner can't directly tell the cheating man, and the little three pictures are marriage.
The cheating man won't believe it because he doesn't think so himself, and he doesn't want to accept this reality.
People will habitually avoid the reality that is unfavorable to them, unless they really discover it themselves.
Otherwise, what others say, they will only question the purpose of others, and they will not believe it at all.
So the original partner can't say that the original partner has to hint at the cheating man a little bit.
Let the cheating man be suspicious, test the mistress, and come to this conclusion by himself.
And the original partner also has to make Xiao San think that the cheating man will not divorce for him, and Xiao San will show his heart to be on top.
If two people doubt each other, the other party will not satisfy themselves, and there will be contradictions.
Secondly, the separation of extramarital relations caused conflicts between cheating men and mistresses.
There must be a gap between the cheating man and the mistress, and the original partner can do the discord plan.
If two people fight hotly, the original partner will be separated, and the two will be jointly targeted.
So the original partner made two people doubt each other, and then there was a gap, and then there was a discord.
You let the cheating man go home more, the mistress is looking for you, and you learn to use the cheating man to fight back.
can make the quarrels and contradictions between the cheating man and the mistress become more.
In the end, stimulate the mistress to make the mistress make trouble, and let the cheating man and the mistress turn against each other.
By the time the contradictions between the two people accumulate to a certain extent, the relationship has been shaky.
The mentality of the junior is unstable, and the wives can directly attack their wives.
Stimulate the mistress to get into trouble with the cheating man, so that the cheating man can see the mistress's greed.
He doesn't think about what he got from the junior before, he only thinks about what he will give and lose in the future.
The mistress is still making trouble, and the cheating man will choose to give up the mistress in order to stop the loss.
Xiao San refuses to let go, and the two of them will end up in the opposite direction.
In fact, it is not difficult to break a seemingly stable extramarital affair, just find a starting point.
Greed is human nature,
It's just that some people can control it well, while some people often have a hard time controlling themselves in the face of huge benefits.
Therefore, what men are most afraid of is the "lover" outside of marriage,
will endlessly threaten and entangle themselves because of the issue of interests.
So wives sometimes, not only can you not help the cheating man get rid of the mistress.
You also have to stimulate the mistress, entangle more, and threaten the cheating man.
You just want the cheating man to experience the feeling of being forced into a desperate situation by the mistress and not being able to get out.
Only in this way can the cheating man have a long memory and know the terrible things about the mistress.
A cheating man will not easily cheat again, and he will no longer mistake an extramarital affair for his true feelings to redeem him.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.