Kan Qingzi's Liu Lian became what most people wanted to be.
Kan Qingzi played Liu Lian in "Sudden Holiday", nicknamed Durian, a thirty-year-old single woman, at the beginning of the plot, Liu Lian's mother died. The subsequent appearances are mainly based on Liu Lian's memories.
In the face of the sudden death of her mother, Liu Lian wanted to take a leave of absence but did not want to ask for a leave of absence for this reason, and it just so happened that the checklist for the intern's pregnancy fell on Liu Lian's desk. And it just so happened that he was seen by the manager passing by, and Liu Lian boldly took a leave of absence under the pretext of this time.
In the face of the manager's questioning, Liu Lian did not play the draft face is not red and does not beat, he wants to take leave, because she is pregnant, and because of the instability of the fetal heart, the doctor minds to start resting from now on. What can the manager do? Employees are pregnant, it is normal to take leave, and Liu Lian is still a single older leftover woman. Only leave can be granted.
And to the back, Liu Lian received a call from the nursing home again, because his grandfather's expenses in the nursing home had to be paid, but Liu Lian itself did not have much savings at this time, in the face of grandpa's huge ninety thousand or discounted pension fees, Liu Lian went to tell the manager that because she was pregnant now, she could not eat and drink casually, and now her salary could not support herself and her children, asking for a salary increase, and the manager compromised again.
In the face of the stalking and harassment of the roommate's husband who rented the house, he bravely stepped forward, went to find the ex-boyfriend and found that the ex-boyfriend had a new girlfriend, the face was not red and the heart was not beating, and the resilience was very strong to bless the two "early birth of Takako".
Seeing here, Liu Lian himself for the workplace leave, and bold deeds, is the most envious of the current people today, everyone is resting, all want to ask for leave, do not want to sit day after day the same work, face the same people, unconditionally accept the criticism of the superior, accept the different eyes of the people around them, everyone wants to live dashing, free, but in the face of life, everyone has to work hard and work harder.
What Liu Lian presents to all of us is the story of a single woman, watching the comedy every day, in fact, she is fighting with the helplessness in life every day.
Just like in the play, Liu Lian fell down, thinking why everyone should get up immediately as soon as they wrestle, and lie down and get up again? Yes, in reality, no matter who we are, everyone must get up immediately after a fall, but everyone must think that they have fallen, and they all want to lie down and get up again, but when they think of so many people, they have to get up immediately and sort out their own image, at the same time, taught to the children, the same is true, falling down to get up.
However, the moment I fell, it was obviously very painful, and I obviously wanted to lie down for a while and get up again, but because I was afraid of the eyes of others, I had to get up immediately and tidy up my image.
This society has given us all too much prejudice and unpopularity, so that we all have to pay attention to our own image, our own words and some of our own actions when we go out.
Because the network is now very developed, a little inattention can attract a lot of unknown scolding and network violence; and today's women are even more difficult, it seems that women live well, especially single women, behind the scenes, more is the unknown heartache, more is the social pointing, family, workplace, children, husbands, parents, one by one responsibility on their own body, do not dare to relax for a moment.
In the face of life has been very difficult, and now more and more life urban dramas in the realistic women's not easy, the family is not easy, married women in the workplace, the society of single mothers are not to see, unfair one by one in the presentation, of course, can be presented to us in the urban life drama is only a part, more is not the original family that is not released, married pregnant women are not easy to not be released.
I hope that society will not have too many prejudices, more warmth, more kindness, and more worthwhile!