Nowadays, it is not difficult to find an interesting phenomenon: the older generation of people always habitually seek the help of acquaintances or relatives when they encounter problems, while the younger generation seems to be more inclined to face it alone or find answers through the Internet. This difference is like a delicate dividing line between two generations, and this kind of interpersonal relationship is thought-provoking. Some people even say that the free ones are the most expensive, and the ones that are clearly marked are not expensive. Why is that?
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It's like our house in the past, and the acquaintances we found for decoration had a lot of money. Blind work.
My father-in-law too, we went to apply for a marriage certificate, and the age was also complete, but I was pregnant and didn't want to take a marriage test. He asked a big official to call the Civil Affairs Bureau, and when they did it for us, it was a very speechless feeling, you entrusted such a big official because of the marriage inspection, the marriage inspection is voluntary, and it can be concluded without inspection.
This has to say my mother, my mother will say, yes, yes, you only look at the money, you don't contact all the relatives, live by yourself.
Sometimes relatives are really not as good as friends, friends pay attention to courtesy, relatives mainly come to my house and don't take something away, even if you lose it.
I work in a pet store, a good friend of my dad, I know that I work in a pet store but cat food and dog food never buy from me, and then one day my dad called me and said that my uncle still has several bags of dog food at home, and the dog is given away, and there is nothing else to eat for me to help sell I said he bought it from the Internet, let me help sell it? If there is a problem with eating, who will pay? You or I still have to spend time arguing with my uncle when the time comes, and some favors don't have to be given.
Nha Trang travel back to Qingdao to go to Qingdao, the plane transit place needs to stay for one night, Ctrip to buy a ticket directly with the hotel is only a few dozen yuan, but also with a pick-up. I have to live in his relative's house, okay, I brought a thousand things to people, and invited people to eat more than 500 meals, I am already very tired at night people have to finish eating, ten and a half before going back, want to take a big bath people at home with a shower bathroom in the master bedroom suite, it is not convenient... I rushed down quickly and got up early in the morning to catch a plane... I'm speechless too...
We found that the difference between the older generation and the younger generation in their help-seeking behavior is actually a reflection of different interpersonal relationship patterns. The help of the older generation may be a continuation of the traditional "humane society", emphasizing the close connection and mutual support between people. The independence and autonomy of young people is the pursuit of self-ability and value. However, no matter how times change, good relationships are always an integral part of our lives.
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