In our careers, we will always encounter such a phenomenon, which makes people puzzled: there are always 1 or 2 colleagues in the company who say that the company is not good every day, and I can hear their complaints from the first day of work, but after 1 or 2 years of work, I find that I have resigned, and these people are still there.
I used to work in the planning department of a company, and a young man worked with me at that time, and when I went, I heard him say that he had been working in this company for 2 years, and he had not learned Mao and his salary was small, and he planned to quit after a while.
I listened to him for almost 1 year, and the company's personnel changed by more than half, but this kid still sat firmly in Diaoyutai. What remains unchanged is that his mouth still complains every day.
In a design company that cooperates with our company, there is a little girl who usually doesn't talk much, but because of frequent business contacts, she gets acquainted with each other after coming and going, and slowly talks more to me.
Every time I finished chatting about work, she told me that the company was short of manpower, and she had to do a lot of things such as receiving customers, designing patterns, and hosting meetings, and she was busy like a nanny every day. After finishing speaking, he said that if there is a job with high pay and little work, remember to introduce her.
As a result, after 2 or 3 years of cooperation, the employees of that company changed again and again, but this little girl is still there, but her position has not changed, she is still an ordinary employee.
There are a lot of similar things around me, so I wondered, so I found a friend who is HR and asked them to help explain this strange phenomenon.
1. This kind of person generally has limited ability and low eyes, can not do difficult work, and feels that it is boring to do low-difficulty work, sometimes let me help do something, just like suffering some great grievances, but the grievances are not only suffered, and I may not be able to find a job if I resign.
2. They generally lack self-confidence and don't believe that they can find a better job by leaving their current position.
3. These people always blame others for their mistakes, and never find fault with themselves, neither know nor reflect, and do nothing but complain.
4. They are also very good at justifying themselves, you ask him why he doesn't leave, but he can always find high-sounding reasons, such as: "Who told me to work here for so many years, I have feelings for this place~"
5. They often lack perseverance, always give up halfway in doing things, and can't even insist on the idea of quitting!
After listening to it, do you think this is the truth?