preface
Recently, a news about a 12-year-old girl Xiaohua who was abused by her father has caused heated discussions in the society. Xiaohua's father was reportedly arrested by the police on suspicion of rape, and before that, Xiaohua had suffered physical and psychological injuries from her father several times, and was even beaten to the point that the bridge of her nose was broken. In the face of such a tragic experience, Xiaohua's grandmother forced Xiaohua to write a letter of understanding many times in order to reduce her son's guilt, which made people have a deep conjecture about family affection and family warmth.
1. The father abused his daughter, and the grandmother forced her granddaughter to write a letter of understanding
1. Xiaohua was abused by her father
Xiaohua's parents divorced when she was very young, and after the divorce, Xiaohua's father did not give her the love and support she deserved, but brutally abused her. In her father's home, Xiaohua was often beaten and abused by her father, and even once hit until the bridge of her nose was broken, and blood flowed. And after suffering such an injury, Xiaohua's father did not feel guilty and remorseful, but also violated her more seriously, this time, he actually sexually assaulted Xiaohua.
2. The father was arrested on suspicion of rape
In the face of her father's ugly behavior, Xiaohua fell into great fear and despair, but she did not choose to be silent and endure, but bravely asked for help from the people around her. It was with the encouragement and help of her PE teacher that Xiaohua reported the case to the police and successfully exposed her father's crime. After police investigation and evidence collection, Xiaohua's father was finally arrested in accordance with the law, and what he did also caused people to be extremely indignant and condemned him, and they demanded that the law severely punish such criminals.
3. Grandma forces Xiaohua to write a letter of understanding
After her father was arrested, Xiaohua thought that she could get rid of her father's harm and live a stable life again, but her grandmother betrayed and hurt her at this time. In order to alleviate her son's guilt, grandma forced Xiaohua to write a letter of understanding many times, and in such a letter of understanding, grandma also asked Xiaohua to say good things about her father, which made people feel extremely indignant and heartache about grandma's actions.
2. The psychological trauma of abused children
1. When parents are divorced, children become the biggest victims
Xiaohua's parents divorced, which should have brought her more love and care, but the reality made her childhood full of pain and suffering. After the divorce of her parents, Xiaohua's love with her mother was ruthlessly severed, and in her father's new family, she did not receive warmth and care, and could only rely on her grandmother for her life, bearing all the hardships and torments in life.
2. The trauma of abused children
In such a family environment, Xiaohua has undoubtedly become the biggest victim, not only suffering from her father's physical abuse, but also facing the divorce of her parents and the indifference of the family, all of which have caused great damage to her growth and soul. After her father's sexual assault, Xiaohua's heart almost collapsed, but fortunately, with the help of teachers and the police, she was able to stand up bravely and expose her father's crimes.
3. Need the care and help of the society
For such abused children, in addition to the severe punishment of the perpetrators by law, they need more care and help from the society, and need someone to give them warmth and encouragement to help them get out of the shadow of their hearts. Each of us should pay attention to the children around us, and if we find that they have been abused and hurt, we must reach out in time, give them timely help and comfort, and let them know that they are not alone and that society is warm.
3. Conjecture
1. Family affection and responsibility
In such an event, people have a deep conjecture about the warmth of family affection and family, what kind of existence is family affection? As family members, how should we understand and treat family affection? Should we give them forgiveness and support when faced with the mistakes and crimes committed by our loved ones, or should we be brave enough to stand up and hold them accountable for what they have done?
2. Facing domestic violence
Such incidents have also made people pay more attention to the issue of domestic violence and abuse, how should family members balance their affection and responsibilities? What should we do in the face of domestic violence and abuse? How can the victim be effectively protected and the perpetrator of the abuse stopped, without harming the rest of the family?
3. Care and help from the community
For such problems, everyone should have their own conjectures and opinions, and in actual life, we can also start from some subtle things, give more care and help to the people around them, so that they will not feel lonely and hopeless in the face of difficulties and setbacks, and believe that with the joint efforts of the society, we can effectively prevent and stop the occurrence of domestic violence, so that every family is full of sunshine and warmth.
epilogue
Xiaohua's experience is extremely heartbroken and indignant, and her brave actions have also given us great shock and inspiration. I hope that in the future, we can pay more attention and care for the children around us, give them more love and encouragement, and at the same time, we should bravely face all kinds of injustice and harm, so that the society is full of positive energy and warmth, and jointly create a harmonious and beautiful living environment.