When the husband and wife encounter conflicts, they should actively solve the problem, instead of doing things that hurt each other's feelings for the sake of anger, which not only does not solve the problem, but will deepen the conflict between each other.
Some couples will deliberately engage in intimate behavior with the opposite sex in order to be angry, so as to stimulate each other, which is obviously very stupid, if the relationship between the husband and wife is broken because of the gas blockage, it is difficult to remedy it.
There is such an emotional story, a man quarreled with his wife, in order to block the air and stimulate his wife, he took the initiative to pick up vegetables for the woman next to him, and his wife also made intimate acts to the man next to him when he saw this, which made him unbearable.
The man and his wife have been in love for many years, and before they know it, both of them have reached the age of marriage, and the wife wants to get married quickly, but he has no plans to get married.
The parents of both sides felt a headache when they saw that the two had reached the marriageable age and did not get married, so they often urged the marriage of the two, and only at the urging of his family did he marry his wife.
After marriage, his wife proposed to keep the wages of the two by himself, but he disagreed, feeling that he was now in the stage of career struggle, and there were many places where he needed money, so he was unwilling to give his salary to his wife.
Seeing that he was unwilling to pay his salary, his wife felt angry and helpless, so she had to keep making things difficult for him in some trivial matters in life, wanting him to retreat and take the initiative to pay his salary.
Usually, when his wife cooks, she will only cook for herself, and he asks his wife why she doesn't cook for two people, and the reason for his wife is that because he doesn't pay his salary, he will do the cooking by himself later.
Not only cooking, but even many housework in the house, his wife only does half of it, and the other half is done by himself, as if he wants to draw a line with him.
He was angry with his wife's actions, and he quarreled with her over many trivial matters in life, and neither of them was willing to give in after the quarrel.
Just after the two quarreled, he and his wife were invited by mutual friends, and they thought that their family ugliness would not be publicized, so the two decided to go to a friend's dinner together.
Although he attended the dinner with his wife, the two were still angry with each other, completely lacking the intimacy when they were in love, and just trying not to lose their dignity in front of their friends.
After sitting down to eat with his friends, he waited for a long time for the waiter to put the dishes together, and looking at the rich meal, he and his wife felt hungry and immediately picked up chopsticks to eat.
But the two didn't forget to block air with each other when they ate, he deliberately picked up vegetables in front of his wife in order to stimulate his wife, and his wife thought that he wanted to pick up vegetables for himself, but he was still a little happy in his heart, and planned to reconcile for the sake of his initiative to show goodwill.
If he wanted to forgive his wife, he picked up the bowl and accepted the food he sandwiched, but he did not serve the food to his wife, but served the food to the woman next to him in front of his wife, and kept talking to the woman around him during the meal, which made his wife feel very angry.
The wife thinks that he is deliberately playing tricks on himself and gambling with himself, and his wife does not intend to do nothing about his actions, but chooses to retaliate.
So his wife also deliberately picked up vegetables in front of him, and also made a look of wanting to pick up vegetables for him, thinking that his wife had lost and showed favor to himself, so he immediately took the bowl and wanted to take the dishes from his wife.
Unexpectedly, his wife didn't want to serve vegetables for him, but for the man next to him, and the man next to his wife felt very face-saving when he saw someone serving vegetables for him, so he accepted it calmly.
The wife felt that this was not enough to stimulate him, so she simply fed the food to the mouth of the man next to her, and made a very intimate appearance with the other party, and after the man ate the food, the wife also took the initiative to pick up a tissue to wipe the other party's mouth.
He saw that his wife not only fed the men around him, but also wiped the other party's mouth, remembering that his wife had not even done it to him in such an intimate act, and he didn't want to continue to endure it, so he immediately stopped his wife's behavior.
His wife was really angry when she saw him, and she was also a little panicked in her heart, but in order to make him take the initiative to show weakness, his wife had to continue to ignore him, hoping that he would realize his mistake and take the initiative to admit his mistake to herself.
But in front of his friends, he didn't want to take the initiative to admit his mistake to his wife, so he had to pretend not to care, and his wife thought that he didn't care about him, and he felt very sad in his heart.
The two had a stalemate until the end of the dinner, but the friends left, and his wife was still unwilling to reconcile with him.
Seeing that he took the initiative to apologize, his wife also understood the truth of accepting it when he saw it, and it was not beneficial for both parties to continue to block air like this, so his wife chose to forgive him, but asked him to pay his salary when he returned home.
In the face of his wife's request, he had no choice but to compromise, and when he returned home, he took out all his salary and handed it to his wife, who was very happy when he got his salary, so he no longer gambled with him, and the two quickly reconciled.
Author's point of view: A man who marries his wife does not want to be kept by his wife, he can discuss this matter with his wife, and if he actively communicates with his wife, maybe the matter will not turn into a quarrel between the two.
And in order to block his breath with his wife, he took the initiative to pick up vegetables for the women around him, and his wife also did things that hurt each other's feelings in order to retaliate, which could not solve the problem, but only accelerated the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
In marriage, there is no rule that the wife must be in charge of the salary, and for the issue of money, the husband and wife can discuss how to keep it through communication, which is also a compulsory course for learning how to manage the marriage.
No matter what kind of conflict they encounter, two people must keep a cool head to solve it, only in this way can there be fewer quarrels in the marriage, and without quarrels, the relationship between husband and wife will get better and better, and the relationship between each other will become stable.