Sources: All of the information stated in this article is based on reliable sources, and is detailed at the end of the article
preface
"Breakups should be decent, no one needs to say sorry".
There is a lyric in the song "Decent" that is sung like this, but when it comes to breaking up, how many couples can be decent? It's just not decent, and even many people "meet each other".
For example, Wang Xiaofei and Da S in the entertainment industry, as former lovers of each other, after the divorce and breakup, not only did they forget the previous case and eyebrows, but they also did not miss the old relationship "hurt each other", in fact, there are many people who do not get along with each other after the breakup.
However, in this complex world, anything can exist, and in the face of her husband's "cheating", not only did she have no regrets after the divorce, but she even became friends with her husband and started a company in partnership.
"Exploded" Chen Sicheng
The entertainment industry, as a "resort" for the audience to eat melons after they have eaten enough, will bring some ungodly gossip news to the audience from time to time, especially some love-hate feelings and hatreds between celebrities are talked about by netizens.
Any disturbance between couples in the entertainment industry will make fans "grass and trees", and there is no privacy that can be picked up by the paparazzi from love to marriage.
Therefore, many celebrities will choose to be cautious in their words and deeds in order to provide themselves and their families with a relatively safe environment, but some people do not believe in evil and have a super high "IQ" brain, but they do things without emotional intelligence.
As a well-known actor and director in China, Chen Sicheng can be said to have made remarkable achievements in the entertainment industry, especially since he became a director, he has left many popular works for fans.
Excellent works also helped him become China's first director with a box office of over 100 million, it is not an exaggeration to say that he has a bright future, but at such a critical juncture, Chen Sicheng not only made a mistake of principle, but even said endlessly.
What exactly did he do? And what did you say?
As early as after marrying Tong Liya before, Chen Sicheng was exposed to cheating in marriage, and in the face of overwhelming negative news on the Internet, Chen Sicheng seemed to have an attitude of "watching the excitement is not a big deal", and forced himself into the tiger's mouth.
In an interview, Chen Sicheng was suspicious of the current marriage system, not only suspected of denying monogamy, but also believed that the ancient polygamy system would bring more motivation to boys.
As soon as this point of view came out, Chen Sicheng undoubtedly pushed himself to the forefront, as a public figure, after he was exposed to his bad deeds, not only did not make any excuses for himself, but said such things in public.
Is it really too real and upright, or is the emotional intelligence too low? The reason why Chen Sicheng can act so "unscrupulously" outside is because his wife Tong Liya behind him is really too "humble".
The "humble" Tong Liya
As Chen Sicheng's wife, Tong Liya really can't say what she is suffering for! She has the shackles of family feudal thinking on the outside, and the "domestic violence" of a man's husband on the inside.
Tong Liya's original family is very happy, and she has grown up under the care of her parents since she was a child, but the seemingly perfect family environment hides a huge "killer" - feudal tradition.
As early as when Tong Liya's father participated in the show before, Tong's father made jaw-dropping remarks, when other people's fathers were "threatening" their sons-in-law to be good to their daughters, Tong's father went the other way.
For his daughter and Chen Sicheng's married life, instead of hoping that his daughter could live a little easier, he asked his daughter to work more and cook more after arriving at Chen's house.
Although this kind of thinking was very common in ancient times, with the progress of the times, this kind of thinking has long become a disadvantage, even if Tong's father wants to create an image of a good wife and mother for his daughter.
But is it inappropriate to say this in the show, you must know that this is a marriage and not a woman, it may be that under the influence of her father's ideology, Tong Liya's treatment of marriage is also very deformed.
When other celebrities couldn't tolerate cheating at all, Tong Liya said in an interview: It's good to be able to go home, I don't know if it's Tong Liya's humility or her great love for her husband.
It may be inevitable for foreign ideas to affect herself, but Tong Liya does not dare to make her own choice internally, whenever Chen Sicheng has a conflict with herself in daily life, it is always Tong Liya who apologizes first.
Even Chen Sicheng has a sense of superiority at this point, so much so that he said in an interview that as long as there is a small conflict between the two of us, what I can do is to find a quiet place and wait for him to resolve it.
In addition, Chen Sicheng also did some very special things to Tong Liya, according to Chen Sicheng himself, he had burned a cigarette scar on Tong Liya with a cigarette butt before, and this cigarette scar was kept for a long time.
I don't know why Tong Liya made such a choice, she always chooses to wronged herself in marriage, even if she has been very hurt.
Tong Liya loves Chen Sicheng very much, but it may be precisely because of her "inferiority" in marriage that the relationship between them was unbalanced, so that they finally divorced.
Divorce should also be decent
The relationship between the two of them, after all, has not escaped the seven-year itch, from 14 years of marriage to 21 years of divorce, they have experienced too much, there is no doubt that they have loved each other deeply.
Otherwise, who would be on May 20, a memorable day for countless couples to confess, make official announcements, and receive certificates, but they chose to officially announce their divorce.
After the divorce, Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya did not die of old age, on the contrary, they also interacted frequently, and in the year of the divorce, Chen Sicheng also posted on Weibo to celebrate Tong Liya's birthday.
Two years after the divorce, Tong Liya also took a stake in Chen Sicheng's company last year, every operation between the two of them is really unexpected, and it is estimated that few people in the entertainment industry can achieve such a relationship with them after the breakup.
After the divorce, in addition to taking care of the children, they both focused on their careers, Chen Sicheng has been working in the field of directing, and in a few days on August 3, his latest film "Decryption" will be released in China.
And Tong Liya's latest work "If, I am the person who loves you the most in the world" will also meet you at the end of August, and both of them are shining in their own fields.
epilogue
Of course, netizens have different opinions on the marriage between Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya, although many people are scolding Chen Sicheng for this scumbag behavior, but life is for the two of them.
What do you think, judges?
Sources of information in this article:
1. "Chen Sicheng was exposed to being in a room with two women late at night and felt sorry for Tong Liya", overseas network, published on January 9, 2017
2. "Tong Liya's Shareholding in Chen Sicheng's Company, Changing the Business Situation of "Clean" Departure", Beiqing.com, published on December 18, 2023
3. "Chen Sicheng appeared again to support Tong Liya's new film, calling her nickname and praising his ex-wife's beauty: I am happy that the beautiful girl in Yiri dares to abandon her beauty now", Jiupai News, published on August 16, 2023
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