Huang Chunmei, as the mother of Big S and Little S, has always been very active in the marriage of her daughters. Recently, she publicly complained about the misbehavior of her ex-son-in-law Wang Xiaofei and warned her ex-mother-in-law Zhang Lan. However, when faced with the problems in the current marriage of Xiao S and Big S, Huang Chunmei chose to remain silent. This phenomenon has sparked widespread discussion and questioning among the public.
Big S and Wang Xiaofei's marriage disputes
The marriage between Da S and Wang Xiaofei has always attracted much attention, and after the two divorced, Huang Chunmei expressed her dissatisfaction with her ex-son-in-law many times. She believes that Wang Xiaofei should not remarry, but should continue to take on the responsibility of supporting Big S. Huang Chunmei's view has caused a lot of controversy, some people think that she interferes too much in her daughter's life, and some people support her point of view, thinking that Wang Xiaofei should indeed be more responsible for Big S.
At the same time, Huang Chunmei also severely criticized Wang Xiaofei's mother, Zhang Lan. She accused Zhang Lan of colluding with outsiders and reversing black and white, just to gain traffic. This kind of remarks has attracted a lot of attention and discussion, especially Zhang Lan's fans and supporters, who believe that Huang Chunmei's accusations are unfounded and just to attract attention.
The dilemma in Xiao S's marriage
Compared with Big S's marital problems, Little S's marital status seems to be more complicated. According to reports, Xiao S's husband Xu Yajun already has a four-year-old illegitimate child and often commits domestic violence against Xiao S. However, in the face of these problems, Huang Chunmei chose to remain silent. This attitude has left many people feeling puzzled and angry, and they believe that Huang Chunmei should stand up for her daughter, not just target her ex-son-in-law and ex-mother-in-law.
In addition, Big S's current mother-in-law is not friendly to her. During a recent trip to Korea, Big S couldn't even enter the door of his mother-in-law's house, and only received alimony. Despite this, Huang Chunmei still did not express any opinion on the current mother-in-law's behavior, which has led many to question her motives and positions.
In the face of Huang Chunmei's behavior, netizens expressed their opinions one after another. Some netizens believe that Huang Chunmei's behavior is obviously "persimmon picking soft pinch", only targeting the ex-son-in-law and ex-mother-in-law, and not daring to make any criticism of the current son-in-law and mother-in-law. They believe that Huang Chunmei should speak up for the rights and interests of her two daughters without discrimination, rather than just selectively expressing her opinions.
Another part of netizens expressed their understanding, thinking that Huang Chunmei may be out of protection for her daughters and does not want to publicly criticize her current son-in-law and mother-in-law, so as not to cause greater family conflicts. In any case, they hope that Huang Chunmei can treat the marriage of their two daughters more fairly.
Experts also commented on this. Professor Zhang, an expert on marriage and family, pointed out that Huang Chunmei's behavior may be motivated by a mother's desire to protect her daughter, but this protection method is inappropriate. She suggested that Huang Chunmei should resolve the issue through legal channels instead of making controversial remarks in public. In addition, Professor Zhang also pointed out that the resolution of family conflicts requires the joint efforts of both parties, and unilateral accusations will only exacerbate the conflicts.
To sum up, Huang Chunmei's attitude towards the marriage of her daughters has sparked extensive discussion and questioning. Whether it is the accusations against the former son-in-law and ex-mother-in-law, or the silence against the current son-in-law and mother-in-law, it raises questions about her position and motives.
I hope that she can handle family issues more fairly and rationally in the future, and fight for more rights and interests for her two daughters.
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