In an interview, Liu Yan said: I like children very much, I like my little nephews and nieces, but I don't want children, and this idea has not changed from 18 to 38 years old.
She continued: However, I still listened to my good friend's advice and went to freeze my eggs, which is regret medicine. Even if you don't want a child at the age of 40, if you want it at the age of 41, you can't go wrong with some preparation.
Liu Yan is an understanding person, she knows that every age will have different ideas, everything is afraid of what happens, in case she wants to have children, it is right to take precautions.
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At the earliest, I heard about Xu Jinglei's egg freezing, she said: There is a spare hand here, I don't need to think about this at all, if I don't do this, I will think, what if I can't give birth in the future, now, it's a matter of decision, no need to consider age.
Cai Zhuoyan, Li Bingbing, Ye Xuan and others, they thought of it, they cared, and they prepared.
They are all avant-garde people who have enough confidence to support them.
However, there is also a practical question, maybe when you want it, will you regret that you gave birth to the child too late, and the time left in your life to spend with the child is too short.
Celebrities don't have children, and there are many people who want to fight for their careers, not necessarily because they don't like children.
I forgot which female artist said that her work is slowly getting better after the age of 30, and she doesn't want to restrict her career because of her children for the time being.
I want to say that the more single women think about it and think clearly, the more difficult it is for them to get married and have children.
When Sun Li got married and had a baby, the people around her persuaded her that if she did this, her career would be greatly affected.
She didn't care, she knew she could arrange everything.
After that, everyone found that no one was left behind, the family was happy, and the career had been going uphill.
So, everyone thinks differently, some people value the quality of family life more, and some people just want to have their own world.
It's the first time for everyone to walk the road of life, and no one has any experience.
As public figures, many people will hesitate in this regard, because there is a golden period in their careers, which causes them to postpone or give up.
Charmaine Sheh said that if she had chosen again, she might have gotten married and had children earlier.
She is also as prepared as the above women, just talking about egg freezing, in order not to regret it in the future, leave a backup option.
However, as a person who has come before, I always feel that I don't feel it anymore if I want to give birth or decide not to give birth, or I decided earlier, so forget it.
is too old, even if you have a baby, at the age when others are grandmothers, you are a mother, and there are some fluctuations in the hearts of adults, but for children, they will suffer more psychologically.
They will feel that their parents are too old to accompany them for a long time, and their children will have low self-esteem.
What do you think about this?
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