Sanmao said:
Love, if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, sleeping, etc., is not easy to last forever.
Love is the indulgence of lust and the fireworks of real life.
The person who says he loves you may not be true love, but just a selfish possession out of desire.
Only those who can live the worldly life of eating and sleeping can be called true love.
In the hot weather of more than 30 degrees in summer, you can see the sincerity of a man by eating a hot pot.
Someone who loves you will satisfy your preferences
It's been too hot in Jincheng these days, and I'm sweating every day. Eating a meal is like taking a hot bath, and the whole body is wet.
But for someone like me who loves hot pot, there is no distinction between season and weather.
Yesterday, I suddenly wanted to eat hot pot, so I mentioned it to my husband.
My husband said: If you want to eat, you can go, and then you will book a restaurant.
He doesn't like to eat hot pot, especially in such a hot summer, I thought he would refuse, but I didn't expect to agree so readily.
I asked him, "Aren't you too hot?"
He said, "Who told you to eat?"
I guess that's love.
Someone who loves you, is willing to satisfy your preferences, and will accompany you as long as you like.
Even if he doesn't like it, he won't disappoint you.
In love, the person who loves you must be a partner who is not disappointed, no matter what you do, only companionship, will not refuse, will not let you be alone, he just wants you to be happy.
A man who is just lustful for you and is unwilling to accommodate you
Received a private message from a reader:
I love him a lot, but I can feel that he doesn't love me and only comes to me when he needs me.
When we're together, I'm always accommodating him. I can't eat spicy, and I accompany him to eat spicy every time, but he is never willing to give in for me once.
A few days ago, during my aunt's period, I couldn't eat spicy food, and I wanted to eat light food, so he said: If you don't eat spicy, don't eat together, let's eat each other.
At that moment, my heart was really cold.
Do you think I shouldn't have expectations? Expecting him to love me and change for me?
See a sentence:
Love, only selection, don't try to change.
You can't change someone who doesn't love you at all, he doesn't have you in his heart at all, how can he give in to you?
A man who is just lustful to you, he only cares about whether he is happy or not, and he doesn't care about you at all.
With him, you will always be the only one who changes you, accommodates you, and doesn't expect him to take the initiative to adapt to you.
The person who is willing to eat with you is true love
In the TV series "You Are More Beautiful Than Starlight", Ji Xing took Han Ting home to meet his parents, and his parents deliberately served very spicy dishes in order to test his sincerity.
Han Ting couldn't eat spicy at all, but he ate it hard, and was choked by chili peppers.
At that moment, his love for Ji Xing had already been proven.
Many people say: People who can't eat together won't last long at all.
Because he doesn't love you at all.
There are no two people in the world who are naturally suitable, only each other who are willing to accommodate.
If you can't eat spicy, then I'll eat light with you.
Although I have a lighter taste, I am also willing to try the heavy flavor you love.
Whether they can eat together or not, the reaction behind it is whether they are willing to accommodate and change.
If you are not willing to adapt to eating, you will find that there will be a lot of problems when two people are together.
If you can't sleep together, you can't talk about being together, and you can't live together, there will always be friction and inappropriate places, but as long as two people have love in their hearts and are willing to change, then all obstacles can be overcome.
I don't like to eat hot pot, but I'm willing to accompany you to eat it.
It's an attitude of love.
As long as you want to eat and want, I will accompany you.
Everything in the world, mountains, rivers and lakes, I am willing to accompany you to experience, this is the best appearance of love.
Love is companionship, accommodation, change, and adaptation.
People who love you will give up their ego to fit in with you.