Money can buy many things, but you can't buy sincerity.
If you have money, you can make a woman flatter you and scratch your head and make a gesture to you, but you can't keep her heart.
Women crave a sense of ritual and will judge sincerity from the way men spend money on her, but this does not mean that they value material things more.
What women need in love is never money, but these things. If you let her taste the sweetness, she will not be able to leave you.
Meticulous care
Mo Yan said:
What can tie a woman is not necessarily money, nor love, but care.
What women want is actually care and care in the details.
Rather than spending money on her and giving her gifts, it is more important for you to know her preferences, read her mind, and perceive her joys and sorrows at the first time.
The woman's voice is just a little lower, and you can tell that she has a cold.
When she becomes silent, you know that she has been wronged and is sad.
When I came to my aunt, I bought a glass of brown sugar water and bought new shoes, and you were afraid that her feet would wear out, so you prepared a band-aid in advance.
She's lost and you can always find what she's looking for.
The care of these details can touch her heart even more.
Respect for equality and equality
In the TV series "Growing Up with You", Lin Yunyun is a rich wife who seems to be glamorous.
Her husband gave her a rich and carefree life, and she only needed to be responsible for the children's education with a nanny at home.
But Liu Yunyun lives a very sad life, her husband has no respect for her at all, is very machismo, and is always full of belittling and critical of her.
Liu Yunyun has no right to speak at home, obeys her husband's words, and has to endure her husband's sudden criticism and temper tantrum at any time.
In her husband's eyes, she is a marionette at will, with no autonomy at all.
In the end, Liu Yunyun chose to escape from this marriage.
Women need respect, and only by treating each other as equals can they get her heart.
Lack of respectful relationship, no matter how much money is given, it can't satisfy her heart.
Unreserved canddy
When two people are together, they need to be unreserved and absolutely honest.
The two sides have no secrets, no concealment, there are things to discuss, and everything to say is to be solved together.
Before you do anything, you will ask my opinion in advance, not take it upon yourself and notify you afterwards.
I know everything about you through your mouth, not through anyone else or any other source.
This is the love that a woman desires.
Everyone wants to be trusted, and the foundation of trust must first be honesty.
Don't hide it, don't think you're making decisions for her, and don't take her out of your plans.
Favoritism that does not distinguish between right and wrong
Many things are not black and white, and there is no absolute right or wrong.
In love, a man who is too sober is actually cold, which will make women unable to feel the warmth of love.
Some men, they have to distinguish between right and wrong, adhere to their own principles, and love to be reasonable.
But love, in fact, is unreasonable, and the reason makes sense, but it chills the lover's heart.
What a woman wants is favoritism without distinction between right and wrong, and you are unconditionally biased towards her no matter what happens.
No matter what is right or wrong, you have to stand behind her, face her, and protect her.
If she feels that she is protected, she will feel at ease.
Women are very coaxing and very satisfied.
But it is definitely not to solve everything with money, do not give gifts, directly send red envelopes, do not accompany, and send money to meet her needs.
These are too cold, and what women want is love full of warmth.
Give her respect, give her care, and protect her unreservedly and unconditionally.
These free payments are exactly the kind of love that women need.