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Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

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In 2019, on the occasion of the 70th anniversary of the founding of our country, there is a film and television actor who won the title of People's Artist, and she is the only actor in the film and television circle to receive this title, she is Qin Yi.

Qin Yi's performance inspired the hearts of many people in that war-torn era, her status in the film and television circle was very high, but her love life was not smooth, the first marriage was ruthlessly abused by her husband, and it took a lot of hardships to get a divorce.

I thought that the second marriage could be stable and happy, but the husband cheated on his own sister, and she and her husband were separated for 30 years, and when she recalled this matter many years later, she said: It is all my fault.

Looking back on her life, she has experienced many ups and downs, but it is also very inspiring.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Qin Yi was born in Shanghai on March 1, 1922.

When she was 16 years old, the flames of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression spread to Shanghai, and Qin Yi, who was baptized with new ideas, also wanted to throw herself into the ranks of the War of Resistance and dedicate her strength.

So she secretly left home and went to Wuhan with a few like-minded classmates to join the ranks of the War of Resistance Against Japan.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

However, the life of the army was not as she imagined, because of her sweet looks, some commanders and soldiers always took advantage of her, and Qin Yi, who could not stand it, fled the army and came to Chongqing.

Here, she met the noble man who changed her life, Ying Yunwei.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

As soon as Ying Yunwei saw Qin Yi, he became deeply interested in her, and when he learned that she currently had no job, he immediately invited her to become an actress and act in dramas.

Qin Yi has been very fond of acting since he was a child, and now that he has the opportunity, he naturally cherishes it very much, and participating in the patriotic theme of the work is also to dedicate his own strength to the War of Resistance Against Japan, Qin Yi did not think much about it and agreed.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Soon after, Qin Yi ushered in her first acting opportunity, starring in "Chinese Drama", Qin Yi, who came on stage for the first time, was very nervous, although she only had one line, but she still practiced repeatedly every day, and some experienced actors saw her serious look and came to teach her.

Under the leadership of the seniors, Qin Yi quickly found the feeling, and the first performance was recognized by everyone.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In 1939, Qin Yi starred in his first film "Good Husband", and since then his acting career has been on the right track.

With excellent performance, qin yi soon got the opportunity to star in the movie "Bao Hometown" female number two, Qin Yi was very excited, which meant that her acting skills were affirmed, and she could also cooperate with Chen Tianguo, the popular big star and the first handsome brother at the time.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

However, what Qin Yi did not expect was that the performance of the movie this time would be the beginning of her life's nightmare.

Chen Tianguo was a popular actor at that time, handsome and handsome, with a good figure, outstanding acting skills, and starred in many wonderful works, and everyone respected him.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In the process of filming, Qin Yi and Chen Tianguo had a lot of contact, Chen Tianguo, as an acting veteran, was not impatient when facing the relatively young Qin Yi, but carefully taught her skills.

Slowly, Qin Yi developed a good feeling for Chen Tianguo, and Chen Tianguo also saw Qin Yi's cute side, and hinted at her in the open and secret.

At that time, Qin Yi was only 17 years old, and she had no love experience, but she only regarded Chen Tianguo as a friend who took care of her, and did not understand Chen Tianguo's hints, let alone respond.

Helpless, Chen Tianguo came up with an idea, and on a Sunday, Chen Tianguo asked Qin Yi to play on nanshan, and lied that everyone had arrived.

The defenseless Qin Yi simply cleaned up and followed Chen Tianguo to the top of the mountain, seeing the overgrown weeds and the scene of the desolate Qin Yi only knew that he had been deceived.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Chen Tianguo said frankly: No one came, and I asked you to come to propose to you.

In the face of the sudden marriage proposal, Qin Yi was overwhelmed, coupled with the fact that he was a little annoyed by being tricked to the top of the mountain, he rejected Chen Tianguo without much thought.

Chen Tianguo, who was rejected, was very excited, and he stood on the edge of the cliff and threatened Qin Yi, saying, "If you don't promise me, I will jump from here." ”

Looking at Chen Tianguo, who was overly emotional, Qin Yi was very scared, so he had to quickly agree to Chen Tianguo.

Chen Tianguo repented in order to prevent Qin Yi from going down the mountain, and violated Qin Yi on the top of the mountain.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Although Qin Yi had been baptized with new ideas, due to the great influence of feudalism in that era on her, she did not dare to tell anyone about this matter after going down the mountain, and could only stay in the room all day and wash her face with tears.

However, Chen Tianguo was very happy and went around telling others about his upcoming marriage to Qin Yi.

Because Chen Tianguo's status was very high at that time, and Qin Yi was just a new actor, everyone could not help but speculate that Qin Yi wanted to rely on Chen Tianguo to become famous in exchange for more acting opportunities.

Qin Yi was even more desperate after she knew it, and she quickly fell ill after being depressed all day. However, Chen Tianguo did not care about her health at all, and forced her to hold a wedding before she recovered.

At that time, Qin Yi still failed to abandon the traditional concept and could only succumb to Chen Tianguo's conspiracy.

In September 1939, the wedding held by the two, Chen Tianguo at the wedding was smiling happily, but Qin Yi could not laugh at all.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

I thought that Chen Tianguo had gone to great lengths to marry Qin Yi because he really liked her and wanted to spend his life with her, but what he did not expect was that he was a hypocrite, not only drunk, but also violent.

The morning after the wedding, Chen Tianguo, who had just woken up from drunkenness, went out again shakily to find someone to drink, and did not come home drunk until the evening.

Seeing Chen Tianguo's shaky and unstable appearance, Qin Yi stepped forward to support him and complained: "Why did you go drinking again?" ”

Unexpectedly, Chen Tianguo hit her hard.

Qin Yi, who originally had a slight illusion about this marriage, completely collapsed, chen Tianguo fell into a deep sleep after beating people, Qin Yi could not sleep, and the next day at dawn she hurriedly packed up her things and returned to the film studio's dormitory.

Qin Yi wanted to divorce Chen Tianguo, but she suddenly found out that she was pregnant, which made her very tormented.

For the sake of the child, Qin Yi found Chen Tianguo and asked her not to beat herself in the future, otherwise she would divorce her.

Chen Tianguo immediately agreed, and promised not to fight Qin Yi again in the future, Qin Yi listened to his words and returned to the two of them again.

However, Chen Tianguo's promise was only lip service, and the behavior of alcoholism and domestic violence did not change at all, and soon after, he was drunk and punched and kicked at the pregnant Qin Yi.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Qin Yi endured again and again for the sake of the child, but Chen Tianguo did not repent at all, and Qin Yi did not accompany him in the moment, still running around filming.

As the war became more and more frequent, qin yi's place of residence was bombed by the Japanese army and turned into a ruin, when Qin Yi, who was in labor, ran to the hospital and gave birth to a healthy baby girl with the help of a nurse.

The war made their lives even more difficult, and even the money for milk powder became a problem.

In order to reduce expenditure, Chen Tianguo even wanted to give his own daughter to someone else to raise.

Qin Yi was very angry after knowing this, and finally made up his mind to leave this irresponsible man.

But she knew that Chen Tianguo, who had suddenly filed for divorce, would definitely not agree, and might even make some radical moves to hurt the safety of her and her children.

After thinking about it again, Qin Yi decided to go out to act and divorce Chen Tianguo when he had saved enough money.

At this time, Qin Yi once again got the help of the nobleman Ying Yunwei and participated in the drama "The Rejuvenation of the Earth", which received great repercussions after the performance, and the role played by Qin Yi was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and was widely praised, and Qin Yi's reputation also spread.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In 1943, the anti-communist wave of the Kuomintang hit Qin Yi's drama troupe, and she did not want to perform a drama praising the Kuomintang, so she left Chongqing.

At this time, Chen Tianguo sent his daughter who had not let Qin Yi meet her to her side, and Qin Yi, who saw her daughter, was very excited, but also very confused, and after understanding it, she learned that Chen Tianguo had found a new girlfriend.

Qin Yi was not angry, but felt relieved that he could finally get a divorce.

In 1945, Qin Yi and Chen Tianguo officially divorced, and Qin Yi returned to Shanghai with her daughter.

In order to have a better development, Qin Yi transformed from drama to film actor, and within two years, she already had a place in the film industry.

In 1947, when Qin Yi was filming the movie "The Sea is Vast", he met Jin Yan, who was known as the "Emperor of Movies", and the two were very close, often playing together for entertainment, and soon sparks were rubbed.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault
Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

On December 5, 1947, the two men, who had been in love for just two months, got married.

At that time, they all thought that the other was the other half of their fit, but the short time together did not allow the two to really understand each other, and more and more problems appeared after marriage.

Soon after the marriage, the couple came together to work in the Shanghai Film Studio, and Qin Yi, who once relied on the drama fire, has also developed greatly in the film industry, and has the reputation of "the first Hua Dan".

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In contrast, Golden Flame, who was once successful in the film circle, could not keep up with the development of the times, and some of them were unable to keep up.

Jin Yan is very famous, some low-paid movies he is reluctant to star, and over time, fewer and fewer people look for him to shoot, and his fame has also declined.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

The wife's career is booming, but her own career has been declining, which makes the golden flame of machismo very uncomfortable, and the contradictions between the two people are increasing.

After becoming famous, Qin Yi was very busy, often running around and acting in major theaters, and her busy work made her have no time to take care of her husband's emotions.

Once, when Jin Yan was arguing with Qin Yi, he compared Qin Yi with his ex-wife Wang Renmei, and he said: "If I quarreled with Wang Renmei, she would have come to hug me and kiss me a long time ago, but you would not pay attention to me, you really don't have a little femininity." “

Qin Yi did not care about this, she was not family-oriented like a traditional woman, but was more willing to pursue her own career, and what Jin Yan needed was to be considerate of him and take care of her wife.

The two have different concepts of marriage, coupled with lack of timely communication, which ultimately leads to the tragedy of this marriage.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

One day, Qin Yi was filming, but her friend rushed in and told her that Jin Yan had cheated on her, and she couldn't believe it at the time, so she rushed home to question her husband.

Although the husband did not admit it himself, his fragmented performance has said it all.

Later, Qin Yi learned that the object of Jin Yan's cheating was not someone else, but her own sister, she was very angry, and proposed a divorce to Jin Yan, but Jin Yan refused to divorce, in order for the children to have a complete family, healthy and happy to grow up, Qin Yi did not divorce, but insisted on separating from Jin Yan.

After that, Qin Yi and Jin Yan began a thirty-year separation life, and the marriage relationship was nominal.

Years later, when asked about her husband's cheating, Qin Yi said that she blamed herself for being busy with work and ignoring her husband's feelings, resulting in her lonely husband having to find comfort in others.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In 1957, Jin Yan ushered in an opportunity to shoot a scene, but the shooting location was in an extremely cold place in Tibet, and in order to keep out the cold, Jin Yan drank a lot of shochu and suffered from stomach problems.

Later, in order to shoot the scene, Jin Yan went to Germany again, and the long-distance travel and fatigue made Jin Yan's health worse and worse, and when he returned to Beijing, he had a heavy stomach bleeding and was admitted to the hospital.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

In 1962, Jin Yan had a surprise accident during the treatment, and the doctor's mistake cut off his stomach and kidneys, causing him to lie in bed after eating, and he could no longer feel hungry or full.

Since then, Jin Yan's physical condition has plummeted, his weight has been declining, and even daily life has become a problem, let alone filming.

Jin Yan was bedridden for 21 years, during which time Qin Yi was always taking good care of him.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

What made Qin Yi even more sad was that his son suffered from a split personality because he could not withstand the blow of his father's illness, and Qin Yi had to take him everywhere to seek medical treatment.

During this period, Qin Yi herself also suffered from bowel cancer, which was undoubtedly a big blow to her, if she fell ill, then the whole family would have no one to rely on.

Fortunately, after the operation, Qin Yi recovered and once again shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family.

In the early morning of December 27, 1983, Jin Yan suddenly woke up, said a final farewell to Qin Yi with difficulty, and then passed away.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Looking at this husband who had been with him for so many years, Qin Yi felt like a loss, and he did not ease up for a long time.

After the death of her husband, Qin Yi spent all her time taking care of her son, until 2007, when her son also died of illness, which was another heavy blow to Qin Yi.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

Qin Yi, who has no worries, finally returned to the show business circle to act again, and Qin Yi, who was 96 years old in 2018, still starred in the movie "Those Women", and the performance was very impressive.

In the face of the past love life, Qin Yi behaved very calmly, in a show, the host asked her if there was a chance to do it again, would you still choose Golden Flame?

Qin Yi hesitated for a moment and said, "I think it will still be." ”

Now Qin Yi is 99 years old, but her body is still very tough, even if her hair is gray, but the charm is still there.

Qin Yi: The first marriage was domestic violence, the second husband cheated on his sister, but she said: It is all my fault

She was born in the war and chaos years, experienced a lot of hardships, emotional experience is very bumpy, but even after experiencing the hardships of life, she still chooses to love life, treat work, she is conscientious and conscientious, and creates one classic role after another.

Treating her husband, she was unswerving to death, taking care of the bedridden him to the last moment.

In dealing with his children, he devoted himself to leading his son to seek medical treatment.

After all kinds of hardships, but no regrets, the artist Qin Yi showed the tenacity of women of that era, which was admirable.

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