In 2006, a "Tale of Wulin Waichuan" was popular all over the country.
Just when the drama was popular, in a girls' dormitory at the Communication University of China, a group of girls were also huddled together, chatting about Guo Furong and Lu Xiucai in the play.
One of the girls, she looked at Lu Xiucai in the play, thought this person was funny and cute, often pointed to this role, and said to the classmates around her: "You see this Lu Xiucai, how is it so funny?" ”
At that time, no one knew that just 9 years later, Lu Xiucai in the play really became her husband.
This girl who was once infatuated with Lu Xiucai is called Shi Linzi, yes, her husband is a famous talent in the entertainment industry: Yu Entai.
Whenever he mentioned the story of himself and his wife, Yu Entai, who has always been low-key, could not help but smile, he said: "I was once a prodigal son, and I always felt that the boy should be ambitious in all directions, until I met my wife Shi Linzi, I didn't know that there was a fate called rainstorm pouring." ”
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You can't hide from a rainstorm, you can't hide from a love
Before the age of 37, Yu Entai never thought about getting married.
He said that his biggest wish at that time was to be a different actor and hope to contribute to the artistic career.
Seeing the people around him getting married and having children one by one, Yu Entai felt that such a life was really not suitable for him.
At this moment, he is like a bird wandering in the sky, and he hopes that in his lifetime, he can study a little more art and walk more roads.
Of course, as an actor, especially after the fire of Lu Xiucai, who played "The Legend of Wulin", there is of course no shortage of beautiful and excellent girls around, but Yu Entai refused.
"Boys should be ambitious, how can they delay a good time because of women", this is the motto he set for himself.
Perhaps the heavens really couldn't see it, and finally began to arrange marriage for him.
That year, Yu Entai took over a program about travel, due to the lack of funds of the program group, it could not meet the requirements of real shooting around the world, and could only ask some travel experts to tell their travel stories.
Yu Entai sat among these travel experts, listening to everyone tell stories until a girl appeared in front of his eyes.
The girl's skin was dark and she looked full of vitality, and Yu Entai was surprised: "I don't dare to look at her at a glance, I have never seen such a girl with such an extraordinary temperament." ”
I didn't dare to look at it, not only because I was shy, but also because Yu Entai at that time still held the concept of the past: "You must not let yourself fall into love." So in order to avoid his own heart, Yu Entai simply did not look at people.
But do not see, does not mean that the girl does not exist, in the process of program communication, Yu Entai found that this girl is not only attractive in appearance, vision and insight is also very human.
After understanding, I learned that this girl is the anchor of tourism satellite TV, Shi Linzi.
Talking about global travel, Shi Linzi talked about it, and for the observations and stories of other countries, Shi Linzi told it, and unconsciously, Yu Entai was attracted.
And Shi Linzi also felt very excited to meet Yu Entai, but the reason for her excitement was very simple, because Yu Entai had played Lu Xiucai in "The Legend of Wulin", and for Shi Linzi, it was a success in chasing stars at close range.
At the end of the festival, Shi Linzi took the initiative to come over and gave Yu Entai a souvenir, which was a bracelet she had bought during her trip, and Yu Entai accepted it despite her inner fluctuations.
At the end, Shi Linzi also said to Yu Entai, "Since you also like to travel so much, why not add a microblog?" If you have nothing to do, you can check out my Weibo, which is full of travel news. ”
Yu Entai looked embarrassed and said, "I'm sorry, I don't have Weibo. ”
Shi Linzi listened, and was not too disappointed, but smiled generously: "This way, it doesn't matter when you have Weibo, I can add it again." ”
As a result, just when the girl was about to walk out of the recording room, Yu Entai stopped the people and said, "I don't have Weibo, so let's leave a phone." ”
Finally, the festival catalog was finished, and the people in the studio did not know that at this moment, it was already raining heavily outside.
At that time, only Yu Entai had a car, or a commercial car, so Yu Entai decided to send the big guys back to the hotel.
He shouted this, he shouted that, but he didn't call out to Shi Linzi.
Although there are a hundred voices in his heart that want to shout at others, his "sanity" still tells himself: "You can't shout, you can't fall in love, don't forget your dreams, boys should be in all directions." ”
After hesitating to the end, Yu Entai still did not shout people, he was in the car looking at Shi Linzi who was hiding in the rain at the door, the girl held a book above her head, as if she was blocking the rain, until the car called by others also came, Yu Entai drove his own car.
After that, neither of them contacted anyone, Yu Entai later returned to God and felt that he was quite powerful, and he also told himself proudly: "You see, this is not surviving, it was really almost planted at the beginning." ”
But people are not as good as heaven, and the fate arranged by God cannot be stopped even if you want to.
A year later, Yu Entai was going to leave from Beijing Airport to Guangzhou, and on the way to the airport, it was still sunny and full of good weather.
As a result, when Yu Entai came to the airport, there was a sudden rainstorm, and the airport notified the flight of delay, waiting for the take-off or not to wait for the notification.
Just when he was stranded at the airport, as soon as he turned around, he saw Shi Linzi, who was also going to take this flight to Guangzhou.
A year later, the two met again, which was really a rare fate, this time, Yu Entai did not have the idea of "can't fall in love, men should be in the four directions", but sat down with Shi Linzi to chat.
In the process of conversation, Yu Entai felt that this girl was really too close to herself, she liked to travel, she liked to read, and looking at this free and cheerful girl in front of her, Yu Entai unconsciously fell in love.
Later, yu Entai said about his encounter with his wife: "I escaped that rainstorm a year ago, but I didn't expect that a year later I still didn't escape this love. ”
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One is a talented person, and the other is a beautiful woman
Less than a few months after the two met again at the airport, the two had entered the wedding hall.
Someone also asked Shi Linzi if it was too soon to decide to marry Yu Entai.
Shi Linzi sweetly replied: "People will meet about 29.2 million people in their lifetime, and the probability of two people falling in love is 0.000049, I think since God let us meet, this is a rare fate." ”
In 2015, Yu Entai and Shi Linzi held a wedding in Beijing, at which Yu Entai and Shi Linzi confessed affectionately: "I used to go to many places to wander, like a flying bird, now I have to go home wherever I go, because my wife is my forest." 」 ”
The people in the audience saw a pair of Bi people embracing each other deeply, and they all felt that these two people were really a match.
As we all know, Yu Entai is one of the few academic bullies in the entertainment industry with a high education.
Playing Xiao Yu Entai was a bully, and later was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater with the first place.
After entering the university campus, Yu Entai felt that he did not understand acting, and his English was too different from that of his local classmates in Shanghai, so he once again carried forward the spirit of learning hegemony and was bound to sit on the "cold bench".
In order to learn more professional knowledge, he read the professional books in the library, one by one, and wrote notes for research;
In order to improve his English, he memorized the Oxford Dictionary and read the original Shakespeare;
Yu Entai's "learning bully" spirit is often jokingly called "old pedantic" by his classmates, and sometimes the classmates tell him: "Don't always look at the theory here, find an opportunity to go out and take over the drama, and earn some extra money." ”
Yu Entai listened, smiled, and then read the book in his hand, for the students to go out to take over the drama, he is not at all red-eyed, not in a hurry, because he does not rely on the drama and has money, is the lord who gets the scholarship every year.
After graduating from undergraduate, Yu Entai lived up to his expectations and was admitted to graduate school with the first place in the school.
It was not until 2005 that this "old scholar" held the idea of "putting theory into practice" and went to shoot "The Tale of Wulin".
When he received the script, the screenwriter told him that Lu Xiu was a cultural person, learned to be rich in five cars, and was familiar with the Analects, and asked him to prepare well.
When Yu Entai heard it, he immediately found the Analects, memorized a rotten melon, and after memorizing a copy of the Analects, he was afraid that it was not enough, so he immediately bought a thick annotated copy of the Analects and memorized the annotations.
When he went to play this role with confidence, he learned that Lu Xiucai, who had originally learned to be rich in five cars, used the most lines in the Analects: "Son, once knew." ”
Later, when he mentioned the matter of memorizing the "Analects", he said: "Although I memorized a thick copy of the "Analects", I used only one sentence, it is exactly like this, I think the screenwriter is too cattle, Lu Xiucai's feeling of not meeting the talent, I immediately felt, moreover, I am a professional and responsible actor, no matter how much preparation for the role is deserved. ”
After the fire of "The Tale of Wulin", Yu Entai became a hit, and there was an endless stream of scripts looking for him, but they were all rejected by him, and even good scripts such as "Breaking into Kanto" he pushed.
Why push it?
It turned out that he decided to continue his studies and go to the doctoral student of drama.
Later, on "Happy Base Camp", He Jiong asked him: "Do you feel a little lost when you see that many of the actors of "Wulin Waichuan" who were with you at that time were mixed up with big names, and you went to study when you needed to hit iron the most? ”
Yu Entai said naturally: "Of course not, I think everyone wants something different, I don't think of myself as an actor or a star, I prefer to say that I study art and drama." ”
Perhaps, it is Yu Entai, who does not pursue fame and fortune and wants to improve in academic research, who has the opportunity to go to Oxford University as an exchange student, in order to calm down and learn Shakespeare's plays that ordinary people find useless.
And a woman who can be worthy of such a big talent is naturally also a beautiful woman.
Although Shi Linzi does not have Yu Entai's high education, she is a high-achieving student at the Communication University of China and the anchor of Tourism TV.
At its most popular, she hosted the travel show "How Far to Go," which attracted countless fans.
She loves to travel, almost all over the world, she not only has knowledge and experience, but also in the journey, let herself be more cheerful and free, but also let Yu Entai look at him, because this woman always gives him endless surprises.
One year, the two went to the plateau together, Yu Entai was suffering from altitude sickness, inhaling oxygen looked weak, and Shi Linzi next to him, but he took the book and read it with relish, and finally pulled Yu Entai's head to his shoulder, so that Yu Entai had a "dependence".
When he came back, Yu Entai said: "I think my wife is really amazing, she seems to be able to adapt quickly no matter where she is, and she shines in nature." ”
Some people say that the real long-term couple must be because there is a trait in the other party that is deeply attracted to themselves.
And Yu Entai and Shi Linzi, as if they were destined to be a natural pair, complementing each other.
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She was the most beautiful in the world, and he was a gentle gentleman
Today's Yu Entai and Shi Linzi have long since changed from a pair of Bi people at that time to today's family of four, a son and a daughter, and a good word.
Although they have been married for many years, the two still get along as they used to be.
Yu Entai often wrote poems to Shi Linzi, using verses to express his feelings for his wife.
When Shi Linzi went out to work and Yu Entai expressed his thoughts, he wrote:
"When I think of you, I also want to write poetry, write a deep blue, write a bright morning, write a swamp, let the vehicles we pass by fall, and watch time fly by in the sinking from then on";
"You drape yourself in the coat of sunset, embed the clouds in the night, and make the moon the heart of a crab, and the eyes of a whale";
"In your hand, a sun spins, and places a world in the palm of your hand if there is nothing";
"When the clouds bloom out of the heart, it must be the person who looks up and falls in love."
When both were at home, they even sometimes read poems together:
"I want to waste time with you, such as looking down at the fish, such as leaving the teacup on the table and leaving, and I want to waste it with the sunset, such as walking";
When not writing poetry, the two will read books together, practice calligraphy, one person has a cup of tea, do not have to say too much, and the eyes are full of tacit understanding and love;
More often, the two would continue to travel as before, only this time it would become four people, bringing their son and daughter with them, and they introduced the scenery they had seen and the roads they had traveled to the children.
Even if she has been married for many years and has already had children, when it comes to her wife, Yu Entai still has that sentence: "She is the most beautiful in the world." ”
And when Shi Linzi mentioned his husband, he also praised and admired him as always: "I think he is not an actor, but a gentle and elegant gentleman, a scholar who is dedicated and serious, a man who can live and love to travel." ”
Perhaps, a couple like Yu Entai and Shi Linzi is the most rare love and marriage in this era: like-minded, mutual appreciation, mutual support, and mutual achievement.
Their marriage may not be as vigorous, but it is a long stream of water day after day.
As they had once met, the rainstorm had passed, and it would be sunny for the rest of the day.