Today, I will take stock of the emotional experience of a well-known CCTV host, Ni Ping. As an eldest sister who has been active on the screen for many years, Ni Ping's career is obvious to all, but her love life can be described as ups and downs. Not long ago, she talked about her emotional journey in an interview, revealing regret and self-blame in her words.
The warmth in an old photo After breaking up, Ni Ping called "lose yourself"
When it comes to Ni Ping's emotional experience, the first thing that comes to many people's minds is her relationship with the famous director Chen Kaige. In 1991, 32-year-old Ni Ping fell in love with Chen Kaige, who was already famous at the time, and there was a 24-year age gap between the two. This relationship was hailed as a "match made in heaven" at the beginning, after all, Ni Ping, with her outstanding appearance and free and easy personality, can be completely matched with Chen Kaige, a talented and beautiful woman. It was once widely rumored in the outside world that Ni Ping would soon marry into a wealthy family as the director's wife.
But who would have thought that 6 years later, in 1997, Chen Kaige and Chen Hong got married, and they broke up with Ni Ping in the rapids. In this regard, Ni Ping wrote in her autobiography: "In those 6 years, I lost all my dignity, and spiritually and emotionally, I lost myself." It seems that this relationship has caused her a lot of trauma. In an old photo, Chen Kaige is holding Ni Ping in his arms, and the two look very affectionate. The warm picture in the photo is in stark contrast, which is embarrassing.
After experiencing the heavy blow of this relationship, Ni Ping did not give up looking for true love. In 1997, she married a journalist named Wang Wenlan, and the two had a son and a daughter. However, the good times did not last long, and after the birth of his son, he was found to have a congenital eye disease, which made the already unsatisfactory marriage even worse. In 2005, Wang Wenlan announced his divorce from Ni Ping, and the marriage lasted only 8 years before ending without a problem.
It is rumored that due to Ni Ping's long-term work outside the home and the heavy blow of her son's illness, the two gradually drifted apart and finally chose to break up. Ni Ping, who was a mother at the time, was naturally filled with endless guilt and self-blame.
"The relationship is too failed to be shared" frankly said that the two gentlemen have good morals
In an interview this year, when 45-year-old Ni Ping was asked about her relationship journey, her first reaction was that "the relationship is too failed to be shared." There is no doubt that she has long regarded this past as a big regret and knot in her life. However, although the relationship has not been ideal, it is commendable that Ni Ping did not have any belittling and slanderous words about her two husbands. On the contrary, she highly praised both as "extraordinarily nice people".
Ni Ping admitted frankly that she has always "longed for love and happiness", but the final results were "unsuccessful and unsatisfactory". In this regard, she also has her own analysis of reasons: "The biggest reason for the failure of the two marriages was that I was a bad person at the time, and I hated it very much." Ni Ping boasted that she was beautiful, talented, and assertive when she was young, but she also admitted that she was too straight and lacked communication and understanding skills. "I only like myself, I'm not considerate enough of others, I only focus on my own feelings." This monopolizes all the blame, and makes people sigh at her humble character.
Can this marriage with director Yang Yaya repair the inner wounds? Fortunately, during the trough in 2005, Ni Ping finally met her current husband Yang Yaya. The two gradually developed feelings in the process of cooperating many times, and finally achieved positive results. It is worth mentioning that Yang Yaya once directed the classic drama "Romantic Affair" starring Ni Ping and helped her win the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress. A song of oranges is inseparable from people planting trees, and Yang Yaya is undoubtedly Ni Ping's best partner.
After officially becoming husband and wife in 2005, Yang Yaya also regarded Ni Ping's son as his own and took very good care of him. It seems that with his company, the wounds in Ni Ping's heart are slowly healing. Over the years, the love life of Yang Yaya and Ni Ping has also remained low-key and has not been exposed too much. Perhaps, it is this kind of low-key introverted that is the key to maintaining a good marriage. What is gratifying is that Ni Ping's son's congenital disease has finally been completely cured after 10 years of treatment.
"No matter what the marriage is, life has to go on." In an interview, Ni Ping said. It seems that after years of experience, she has been relieved of her feelings and has a deeper understanding of life. Ni Ping also shared her views on marriage: "The important thing is to find a balance, communication and trust, and love is a very luxurious thing, cherish it, and you should not force it if you don't have it." This rationality and calmness make people feel that she has finally come out of the haze of the past.
Ni Ping's emotional journey has been full of ups and downs, and it has not been smooth sailing. Two failed marriages have brought her great pain and blow. But it is worth affirming that she never slandered her ex-husband, but instead blamed the fault on her own character flaws back then. This high level of introspection and humility is admirable.
As she said, life goes on no matter what the marriage is. After meeting the right Yang Yaya, perhaps Ni Ping can completely heal her inner wounds and usher in a new beginning in life. Love is important, but it is more important to find a balance in life, calmly face the impermanence and tribulations of life, and maintain a positive attitude towards life.
I look forward to Ni Ping's success in her career, but also to embrace her true happiness. After all, happiness is what struggle is all about.
Ni Ping's reflections on past marital failures are insightful
In the interview, Ni Ping repeatedly emphasized her flaws and shortcomings in her past marriage, and these self-analyses are impressive. She admitted that she was "too selfish, too willful, and too stubborn" in the past, which was the main reason for the collapse of her two marriages. "I lacked the ability to tolerate, understand and communicate, only focused on my own feelings, and ignored the other party", Ni Ping truthfully pointed out the serious problems in her marriage attitude back then. This simple practice of blaming herself for her mistakes shows her noble moral cultivation.
In her view, a healthy and stable marriage must be based on mutual respect, understanding and understanding. The lack of this awareness often leads to huge disagreements and estrangements between couples and couples. "I was too focused on my career and neglected my family responsibilities", Ni Ping also has a clear understanding of her shortcomings as a wife and mother. Indeed, she put most of her energy into work back then, neglecting to take care of the family, which led to a rift in the marriage.
Faced with the blow of her son's illness, Ni Ping blamed herself for neglecting her family for the sake of her career, "This is the biggest guilt in my life." It can be seen that when there is a conflict between the mother's sense of responsibility and career choices, it often causes painful regrets. However, Ni Ping did not let this shake her career, but learned valuable lessons from it - to learn to find a work-life balance. "Life should not only be about career, marriage and family are equally important."
In addition, Ni Ping also has a clear understanding of the shortcomings such as arrogance and stubbornness in her past personality. She humbly admits that the lack of communication and compromise that led to a rift in her marriage. "Too focused on self-pursuit and ignoring the fundamental value of marriage", Ni Ping keenly pointed out the importance of "compromise" in marriage relationships. She felt that on some issues, we should not be too complacent, but should learn to be considerate and compromise.
From these inner monologues, we can deeply feel that a mature woman has a deeper reflection and reflection on the past marriage road. This kind of reflection not only comes from the precipitation of emotions, but also from the accumulation of experience and life experience. Perhaps it is precisely because of these heavy lessons and understandings that Ni Ping can now face life with a broader mind and better devote herself to the existing marriage. Although the taste of marriage is hard, the life insights obtained through reflection are a person's precious spiritual wealth.
Ni Ping sincerely hopes that young people can learn from her experience, learn to cherish the people in front of them, and use tolerance and understanding to warm the boat of marriage. Only in this way can love and marriage be stable and long-lasting.