"After the divorce, is the man miserable or the woman miserable? Netizens replied in a table-flopping manner, too real! 》
Divorce, a phenomenon that is not uncommon in modern society, is always accompanied by countless emotional entanglements, family conflicts and life changes. And an enduring topic is: After the divorce, is it the man who is miserable or the woman who is miserable?
Netizens had a heated discussion about this, and the answers were varied. Some people say that it is usually the woman who is miserable, because women often put more emotion and energy into marriage, and divorce is not only an emotional blow to them, but also may face financial difficulties. In married life, women often give up their career development opportunities in order to take care of the family, and devote most of their time and energy to firewood, rice, oil, salt, husband and children. Once the marriage breaks down, the lack of financial stability becomes the first problem they face.
After divorce, women may have to take care of their children alone, whether it is the children's daily life, education and training, or psychological counseling, all fall on the shoulders of the mother alone. This responsibility is heavy and arduous, and it requires not only a lot of time and energy, but also sufficient financial support. In addition, there is also a certain prejudice and discrimination against divorced women in society, and they may encounter more obstacles and challenges on the road to finding love and building a new family.
However, there are also netizens who hold the opposite view. They think that the man's life is not easy after the divorce. Traditionally, men are the breadwinners of the family and are responsible for providing for them. After the divorce, the husband may have to pay high alimony and child support, and the financial pressure increases suddenly. If the divorce is caused by the fault of the man, they may also be condemned by public opinion and blamed by relatives and friends, and they will be under great psychological pressure.
Moreover, the long-term married life has made the man accustomed to the warmth and care of the family, and after the divorce, they have lost the companionship and care of their wives, and their lives have become a mess. They may not be good at housework, taking care of their own daily life, and spending every day in loneliness and loneliness. For those men who put their careers first and ignore the feelings of their families and wives, the importance of family is realized after divorce, but by this time it is already too late, leaving only endless regret and pain.
Of course, there are also rational netizens who pointed out that the living situation after the divorce is miserable and cannot be simply divided by gender. The end of a marriage is a loss and a loss for both parties, and the consequences depend on the individual's state of mind.