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With a history of 5,000 years, China has given birth to many excellent traditional cultures, honesty and trustworthiness, dedication, respect for the old and love for the young is the foundation of our life, and it is also the direction that our ancestors have been striving for for for generations.
The rapid growth of China's economy has made people no longer worry about hunger and poverty, and rich entertainment activities have decorated people's spiritual world and made life more colorful.
With the abundance of life, some excellent traditional culture is leaving us, and I don't know when money and desire have become the whole of life.
With the progress of the times, there have also been many "surprising" incidents, and it seems that more and more people have become more indifferent and ruthless under the blow of reality.
In 2013, on the streets of Dazhou, Sichuan, after an old lady fell, a 9-year-old child and his classmates saw it and stepped forward to help her up.
I didn't expect to be blackmailed by the old lady and asked for 1 million compensation!
This story has a very wide range of influence, and once attracted the attention of audiences across the country, and on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala that year, it was also adapted into a sketch "Help or Not".
This sketch makes people laugh at the same time, and at the same time, people can't help but ponder.
From respecting the elderly, caring for the young, being helpful to not helping people, it reflects the changes in people's hearts in the past few decades of China's development.
At the same time, it can't help but make people feel sad, an old man over 70 years old relies on his identity to blackmail a child who has just started school, which is undoubtedly bad.
Since then, when the old man falls, people will not want to go up to help at the first time, but ask themselves in their hearts if they want to help? Let the society, which is already full of utilitarianism, have a little less warmth.
What are the details of what happened? What was the final decision of the court? What kind of impact does this have on society?
1. Disasters from heaven are unwarranted
June 15, 2013 was an extremely gloomy day for Xiaoyun, who had just entered elementary school.
He will feel the malice from adults, and he will also open the "help or not? "Social reflection.
On this day, after Xiaoyun got out of school, he walked home with his two friends, the three of them talked and laughed, they had walked this familiar road hundreds of times, but today was a little different.
When he was about to arrive at the door, Xiaoyun suddenly saw an old lady slumped on the side of the road, still muttering something in her mouth, which seemed to be a little wrong.
Seeing that the old man was obviously unwell, Xiaoyun immediately ran forward to help the old man, and when he came to the old man's side, he asked the old man if he needed help?
But due to his advanced age, the old man was a little unconscious at that time, so he shouted "pain" to himself, and saw that the old man fell and couldn't get up, so the kind Xiaoyun wanted to go up to help.
Unexpectedly, as soon as she stretched out her hand, the old lady grabbed his hand and shouted, "You hit me!" ”
Such a sudden change made Xiaoyun panic, he didn't expect why he had done good deeds, but it would evolve into the current situation.
The three children were stunned by this incident, and could only stand in place, at this time there was already a circle of people around the scene, and the whispers of the surrounding people made the immature little face a little more uneasy.
Despite this, many people around were still incredulous, what can three children do to the old man?
Seeing this, the old lady shouted: "They did it, I lied to death of the whole family!" ”
Soon Xiaoyun's father Jiang Pidong arrived at the scene, and after Jiang Pidong came to the scene, he was immediately angry and gave Xiaoyun two slaps, in his opinion, this is a good thing his son did.
As a father, he knows his son very well, he is kind but impulsive, so he has a preconceived conclusion about the coffin, and he does not understand the situation carefully, so he makes a judgment on Wuding.
Later, in order to solve the problem as soon as possible, Jiang Pidong immediately sent the old lady to the hospital, and paid all the medical expenses in advance, Jiang Pidong sincerely apologized to the old lady's family.
originally thought that the medical expenses had been paid and everything had been done, Jiang Pidong thought that this matter was about to turn the page, but what he didn't expect was that this was just the beginning.
Jiang Pidong's good attitude did not calm down the matter, but made the old lady's family even more inch-inch, scolding Jiang Pidong, and the foul language was extremely ugly.
The other party's insults, Jiang Pidong could only endure silently, in his heart his own son made such a mistake, as the family of the old man, it is normal to scold two sentences, and when they are angry, the matter will be over.
blindly tolerated it, which made the greedy Mrs. Jiang's family even more arrogant, and directly said with a lion mouth, "What's the use of just apologizing?" We must be compensated for 1 million mental damages, otherwise we will wait for a lawsuit! ”
Hearing this, Jiang Pidong was immediately stunned, isn't this just blackmail? After seeing the other side have such a tough attitude, he knows that this matter is not so easy to solve.
The arrogant face and attitude made this honest father angry, if he was not reasonable, he would simply say it himself, and in the face of the threat of going to court, Jiang Pidong ignored it, turned around and left to go home.
2. The difficult road to proof
When the impulse passed, reason returned to Jiang Pidong, and the more he pondered it, the more he felt that something was wrong, was he too arbitrary, maybe this matter really had nothing to do with his son?
When I got home, my wife found out about it.
When Jiang Pidong expressed his doubts, he asked his son again and again, and after getting a reply that had nothing to do with his son, his wife also felt that this matter might really be a misunderstanding.
Jiang Pidong thought to himself that according to today's situation, Mrs. Jiang and her family were preparing to blackmail themselves, and they would go to the roadside tomorrow to find witnesses and give justice to their son.
But what he didn't expect was that Mrs. Jiang came faster.
She and her family had already gone to Jiang Pidong's house to block the door, and after opening the door the next morning, Jiang Pidong was startled, and there were several people in Wuyang.
originally thought that the other party was here to negotiate with him, but it was winter, considering the cold weather, Jiang Pidong did not hesitate and invited them to his home.
It's just that people didn't expect that as soon as they entered the door, the old lady began to sprinkle, crying that she was injured, and if she didn't come up with satisfactory compensation, she would live here and not leave, and then find a place to sit down and not move.
The Jiang family on the side also began to accuse, and it was an accident that if they didn't come up with a million, they would want Mrs. Jiang to live here all the time, and this matter was not over.
As soon as Jiang Pidong saw it, he knew that the family was here to find trouble, and he was even more sure that his son was innocent, otherwise how could the other party come over in such a hurry to ask for an explanation?
Seeing that things are getting bigger and bigger, it has affected my daily life.
Jiang Pidong could only call 110 to solve the problem, and after the police arrived at the scene, because there was no clear evidence on both sides, they finally invited Mrs. Jiang's family out and let them solve their problems in court.
This matter was imminent, and Jiang Pidong immediately came to the accident site, hoping to find a few witnesses to prove his son's innocence.
In fact, many people saw Mrs. Jiang fall at that time, and it had nothing to do with her son.
But many people are high in the face of such a situation, unwilling to get involved in this matter, in order to find someone who is willing to help him, Jiang Pidong hand-wrote a letter to find witnesses.
When Jiang Pidong was still having a headache looking for evidence, a lawsuit came to him, and he and the parents of the other two children at that time were sued in court.
This made them feel extremely angry, Jiang Pidong would go there to look for evidence as long as he had time, and his efforts paid off, and finally an aunt was willing to testify for him.
When Jiang Pidong thought that this matter was over, an accident appeared, the court is a place to talk about evidence, and the testimony of the aunt needs to be studied, and this time Jiang Pidong failed to get what he wanted.
This incident has aroused heated discussions and widespread attention in the local area at that time, and such a thing happened all over the country back then, and many people are concerned about the outcome of this matter.
After learning of the outcome of the first trial, many people in the know were outraged.
Justice may be late, but it will never be absent, and finally a well-wisher who was present at the time intervened, and he recorded a video to film the situation from beginning to end.
After the well-wisher forwarded the video to Jiang Pidong, he breathed a sigh of relief, with this evidence, the matter would be settled, and Mrs. Jiang's porcelain touching behavior would be confirmed.
After seeing this video evidence, the originally arrogant Mrs. Jiang and her family members were speechless.
They know that if they are defined as extortion, they will not be able to eat and walk around.
In the end, Mrs. Jiang was sentenced to 7 days of administrative detention, but because of her advanced age, she could not carry it out, and her grandson Gong Chunhong was fined 500 yuan for 10 days of detention.
The comparison between before and after can't help but remind people of a sentence that Mrs. Jiang said, "If I lie, the whole family will not die well!" What a shameless person can say such a thing.
3. The epitome of social impetuousness
This incident was only one of the insignificant social problems of the year, and there were many large and small cases that kept happening, and there were occasional cases like this for old people blackmailing children.
This confirms one thing, it is not the old man who has become bad, but the bad person who has become old, as a false accuser, he can have no fear, and even maintain a high profile to exert pressure on the innocent.
Some people will say that good people need to do their best to prove that they are good people, but for those innocents, is it too harsh? Actually, this is a good thing.
This proves that the law will never wronged a good person, and it is the need for strong evidence to ensure fairness and justice, so that the whole thing can be revealed.
In fact, in those years, the matter of whether to help or not has become a major problem in society.
Behind it is a reflection of the more indifferent relationship between people, and when kindness becomes a flaw, people will abandon it.
In the ever-changing modern society, we must focus on strengthening psychological construction, and the country needs to do a good job in vigorously publicizing righteousness and courage, and set a good example for the new generation of flowers, so that these morally corrupt things will gradually disappear into invisibility!
Resources:
Xi'an Evening News: 2015-08-26 3 children won the 5,000 yuan "grievance award" to help the elderly was falsely accused of being the prototype of the Spring Festival Gala
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