I once saw such a sentence and thought it was true:
The people who can cure your temper are the ones you love; The people who can stand your temper are the ones who love you.
Who will get used to you in this world?
Accustomed to your arrogance? Accustomed to your unreasonableness? Accustomed to your temper? Accustomed to your unscrupulousness?
There is no one, only two words: relatives!
Only the closest person will get used to you, tolerate you, and humble you unconditionally.
And a person is often only irritable for no reason only when he is close to his relatives, and he will say hurtful things without thinking, and the reason is very simple.
We lose our temper,
It's just that the other party is "no temper"
In this world, there is no so-called temperless person, only a person who is willing to endure his temper.
In front of our loved ones, we are always irritable, impatient when we say a few words, always go our own way, and even speak hurtfully.
In fact, we know clearly in our hearts that the other party does not care.
But if the other party doesn't care, can he get angry casually?
In this world, there is no good for no reason, all good for no reason is because of the deep affection of the other party. Because he cares, he gives in; Because cherished, so Haihan.
We are always polite to outsiders, knowing that they will not give in to us in the same way that our relatives do.
People are all intelligent animals, but how often are they "clever but mistaken by smart".
In fact, relatives can't be offended the most, because if you offend your relatives, when he leaves you, no one in this world treats you as well as he does.
We lose our temper and only dare to "go in the nest" to those close to us
Who will get used to your temper?
No one!
If you are unscrupulous and impulsive in front of outsiders, you will always be cleaned up; If you get angry in front of outsiders for no reason, no one will back down.
Sometimes, we don't dare to get angry, we are cautious, and even when others lose their temper, we can endure it, in fact, most of the reason is that we need each other.
In front of our bosses, we dare not get angry and need the other party to support our families;
In front of our lovers, we dare not get angry and need each other to satisfy love;
In front of the teacher, we don't dare to get angry, and we need the other party to preach and receive karma.
Many people are accustomed to "lying in the nest" and venting their anger at home to their partners, parents and children. It's not that we don't need each other, it's that we know they won't leave easily.
If you don't leave easily, isn't it worth treating well?
Of course not!
When people are cold and disappointed, they will choose to leave, and when the time comes, no matter how big the anger is, there will be no place to be angry.
If you don't know how to restrain your temper, you will definitely get an unharmonious family, unwarm family affection, and the heaviest loss is not others, but yourself.
Cherish the person around you, who is used to your temper
I once saw such a declaration, and I felt domineering at first, but then I felt particularly reasonable:
I can get used to you, or I can change you!
People are actually independent individuals, especially our partners, who are not a marriage letter, but a lifelong bondage.
Don't always yell at your family, be unreasonable, and don't always lose your temper and don't know how to restrain yourself.
is always angry with his family, but in fact, he hurts a thousand people and hurts himself by 800. When family affection is exhausted and family members are estranged from you, no one in this world wants to get used to you.
Because of love and cherishment, there is a good temper.
Who doesn't have a temper in this world? is not angry, not angry, not because he has no grievances in his heart, but because he has a high level of cultivation and a big pattern.
Treat your family, don't lose your temper at every turn, if you have something wrong in your heart, you can tell it, don't rely on the love of your family to be unscrupulous!
It's instinct to have a temper, and it's the ability to take it back!
Strict self-discipline to maintain a good mood, benefiting others is also self-interested, not fighting for right and wrong, practicing a broad mind, and making the family happy is success!
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