The world is not a smooth one, and life will not be smooth sailing. No matter what we do, we will always encounter all kinds of setbacks, frustrations, blows, grievances and resentment. If we are pessimistic and disappointed, we will only be unable to extricate ourselves from the quagmire of mediocrity for the rest of our lives.
Really powerful people can survive the trough, hide their hearts, see through the red dust, no matter what misfortune they encounter, they can be optimistic and open-minded, and no matter what hardships they encounter, they can be calm.
Survive the trough
Yang Jiang said: "When you have a stomach in your heart and want to find someone to talk to, you suddenly find that some people don't want to look for it, some people can't find it, and some people want to find it but can't bother."
The world of adults is the aftermath of the catastrophe, everything is suffering, the only way is to cross yourself, forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up to be reborn. can survive the days when no one cares, and only then can he be worthy of poetry and distance. ”
Everyone has such a time: it is very dark, it is very lonely, it is very difficult, no one shushes the cold and asks for warmth, no one cares about greetings, no one accompanies and comforts, and no one helps and sends charcoal in the snow. We must rely on ourselves, grit our teeth, work hard, and survive the snowy days in order to see the surprise of spring blossoms.
The trough is not a desperate situation, but an opportunity to bottom out. Just like if you draw a lot, it is not a misfortune, but a kind of luck, indicating that every step you take in the future is an uphill road. If you fall into a slump, as long as you are positive and optimistic, work hard to move up, every step is a change, and every day will be better.
If winter comes, will spring be far away? If you survive the trough, you will eventually win a better tomorrow.
Keep your mind hidden
A very transparent sentence: "Never have illusions and dependence on anyone or anything during the trough, and don't trust anyone easily." Every salvation you see is actually the next trap. You are impressed by something, and in the end it will become another calamity for you. ”
When you don't have the strength and chips, don't expect anyone to help you. Let go of the fantastical expectations, hide your thoughts, don't confide in anyone, grit your teeth and move forward silently.
The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, and the world is full of joys and sorrows. No one can truly understand how you feel. Your earth-shattering pain, in the eyes of others, is just the dust brushed by your hands, and your complacent achievements are just showing off and showing off in the eyes of others.
The world is its own, and it has nothing to do with other people. There is a chance to make a fortune in a muffled voice. No chance, obscure, down-to-earth. Don't let others know your thoughts and actions, not showing the mountains and not showing the water, is the wisdom that adults should have.
You can see through the red dust
Seeing through the red dust is not to make you disheartened, let alone to escape into the empty door, but to learn to let go and let go of what you can't ask for.
In life, the red stripes come and the stripes go. When you come, you are naked, and when you go, there is a wisp of green smoke. Everything you have, even if you have monstrous power, wealth and wealth, and the ability to turn the sky upside down, will eventually be wiped out in the raging fire of the crematorium. Instead of dwelling on things outside of your body, it is better to let go calmly and live a healthy and happy life.
Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, but they can't forget their fame. Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, only gold and silver can't forget. However, all this will eventually drift away with the wind.
Life is an experience, we can work hard, we can have, we can pursue, but we can't fall into a puzzle and can't extricate ourselves. After hard work, follow the results. After you have it, you have to look away from it. After pursuing, be relieved of failure.