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Text丨Fulu Suxi
Editor丨Fu Lu Suki
Zodiac Dragon: arrogant posture, family affection
The zodiac dragon is born with the spirit of a king, arrogant and confident, and ambitious, just like the dragon standing in the clouds, overlooking the world and looking at all things.
Its ambition is like a raging fire, burning endlessly, and he pursues brilliance and excellence all his life.
However, such arrogance may become the source of family alienation in old age, such as autumn frost and cold nights, cold and lonely, which makes people feel sad.
Middle-aged and elderly people have experienced vicissitudes of life, enjoyed the changes in the world, and know well the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the hot and cold situation.
They are like wise men of time, perceiving the true meaning of life.
Throughout his life, the zodiac dragon regards his career as the supreme pursuit, devotes himself wholeheartedly to it, and is busy and busy, and has no time to take care of the warmth and tranquility of the family.
In the growing years when children need companionship and guidance the most, they are often absent, ignoring the young heart's desire for father's love and mother's love.
The bridge of communication has not been carefully built, and the distance between the hearts and minds has gradually drifted apart unconsciously.
As a result, when their children become adults, they have their own dreams and pursuits, spread their wings, and are far away from the harbor they once had.
The connection between them and their parents is becoming scarcer, and the bonds of affection are fragile and loose.
The former home is no longer a warm home, but a distant memory.
Between husband and wife, because of the strength and arrogance of the zodiac dragon, they lack the gentleness, thoughtfulness, understanding and tolerance they should have.
The trivial affairs in life, the emotional run-in and collision, in the case of lack of patience and tolerance, gradually wear away the once deep emotional foundation.
The years go by, the love is getting thin, and the once strong affection and sweetness have turned into indifference and alienation.
Although the zodiac dragon in his later years is in a gorgeous residence, he has no worries about food and clothing, and is materially rich, but the emptiness of his soul cannot be filled like a black hole.
Alone with the lonely lamp, no one confides in the sorrow and joy in the heart, and the loneliness and loneliness follow me like a shadow, lingering.
If you want to change this predicament, the zodiac dragon should let go of that arrogant posture and get rid of the edge of the past.
With a humble and peaceful heart, take the initiative to get close to your children, warm their hearts with caring words, and listen to their hearts with an understanding mind.
Make up for the lack of companionship and love in the past years, and reweave the bond of family affection, making it tenacious and strong.
At the same time, cherish the love between husband and wife for many years, find traces of true love in ordinary days, support each other, and walk hand in hand through the second half of life.
With a gentle and kind attitude, we can recreate the warmth and harmony of the family, so that we can usher in the joy of family in our later years, dispel the haze of loneliness, and regain peace and satisfaction in our souls.
Zodiac Horse: Running around all your life, it is difficult to find a home
The zodiac horse is a lifelong rush, enthusiastic and unrestrained, just like a horse galloping in the vast wilderness, uninhibited and free, bravely chasing the unknown distance.
However, in his later years, he may be faced with a lonely and helpless situation, like the afterglow of the sunset, although beautiful but gradually dimmed, which makes people feel melancholy.
Middle-aged and elderly people deeply understand that stability and tranquility are the true meaning and ultimate pursuit of life.
Having gone through the storm, they have learned the preciousness of peace and tranquility.
However, the zodiac horse likes freedom all his life, and for the cause and ideals in his heart, he has no hesitation to break through three places, through ups and downs, and never stops.
For them, the family is often a temporary stop, not a long-term shelter.
The days of gathering less and leaving more make family affection as fragile and easy to break as filament.
In the process of growing up, children are extremely eager for the company and care of their parents, but the zodiac horse is often absent.
The nourishment of the soul is seriously insufficient, resulting in the relationship between parents and children as strangers.
After adulthood, the relationship between children and their parents becomes weaker and weaker, and the contact is less and less, and the deep thoughts and concerns are difficult to convey and reach.
In the years when he was out of the house, the zodiac horse pursued dreams and achievements, but neglected the construction and maintenance of the family.
The relationship between husband and wife has also been greatly affected by the passage of time.
The love and sweetness of the past are diluted by time and distance; The mutual understanding that used to be replaced by loneliness and loneliness.
In his later years, although he has accumulated abundant wealth, no worries about food and clothing, and a rich life, he feels extremely empty and lonely in the depths of his soul.
Without the company and care of relatives, it has become a luxury to ask for warmth, and sharing the joy of family is an unattainable dream.
At this time, the zodiac horse should deeply reflect on its past behavior, stop the never-ending footsteps, and return to the family and family affection.
Use your heart to make up for the lack of companionship, warm the hearts of your children with love, and rebuild the relationship between husband and wife with care.
Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the present time, and rebuild the warm fortress of the family, so that you can find a spiritual home in your old age, no longer wandering, no longer lonely.
Zodiac Monkey: Excessive shrewdness, people's hearts are deviated
The zodiac monkey is smart and clever, shrewd and capable, just like the spirit monkey that shuttles through the forest, witty and agile, and has an active mind.
However, if such shrewdness is overdeveloped, it may become a source of loneliness in old age, like the leaves of late autumn, drifting and falling, leaving desolation in vain.
Middle-aged and elderly people know that being honest and sincere is the fundamental way to behave in the world.
Only by treating others with sincerity can we win the sincerity and respect of others.
However, the zodiac monkey is too calculating and thoughtful in his life, weighing the pros and cons of everything, and calculating the gains and losses.
When it comes to their children's education, they are too strict, focusing only on grades and utilitarianism, while ignoring their children's inner needs and emotional cultivation.
The lack of love and understanding makes children fear and alienate their parents in the process of growing up, and the parent-child relationship is tense and depressed.
Treating partners, the zodiac monkey is also too calculating, lacking tolerance and understanding.
Every little thing in life can become the fuse of quarrels, and feelings are gradually damaged in disputes again and again, and feelings gradually disappear.
The zodiac monkey in his later years, although he has a rich material life and no worries about food and clothing, feels extremely lonely in the depths of his soul.
No one confides in the troubles and sorrows in the heart, no one shares the little happiness in life, and the loneliness and helplessness follow you like a shadow.
If you want to break out of this predicament, the zodiac monkey must change its overly shrewd personality, rein in its edge, and treat others with a generous and kind heart.
Pay more attention to your children's inner world, encourage them to pursue their dreams bravely, and give them enough warmth and support.
Be considerate of your partner's hard work, be grateful for each other's companionship and tolerance, care for each other, and support each other.
With a sincere attitude, rebuild the bridge of family affection and repair the cracks of feelings, so that you can harvest the companionship and warmth of family affection in your later years, say goodbye to loneliness, and enjoy the tranquility and happiness of life.
In short, the lonely situation of these three zodiac signs in their later years is not predestined and cannot be changed.
It is their own behavior and attitude that have gradually created such an outcome in the long river of years.
With their rich life experience, the middle-aged and elderly people sincerely exhort and remind, hoping that they can deeply reflect and reform themselves.
May they be able to re-examine their own lives, attach importance to the cultivation and maintenance of family affection, repair broken relationships, and rebuild warm families.
In this way, in order to rediscover the warmth and companionship of family affection in the old age, enjoy a quiet and happy life in old age, and let the soul no longer wander and be lonely.