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Text: Science and Technology Baoding Entertainment
Science and technology Baoding Entertainment
Once upon a time, she was the "goddess of ancient costumes" in the hearts of the audience, and her TV series were highly sought after. Who would have thought that this former heartthrob would now be so fat that it is hard to recognize?
When it comes to the name Shen Aojun, many post-80s and post-90s audiences still have an impression of her more than ten years ago. Back then, she looked sweet and gentle, and her hair was dotted with bright steps, which was really a combination of "thousands of charms".
The fragrance of a fairy sister
In 1996, 22-year-old Shen Aojun became popular for starring in the costume drama "Tang Love History". In the play, she plays the role of Princess Gaoyang, although the character's personality is a little rude and willful, but her superb acting skills make people feel like they are there, and they are all amazed by her appearance.
Together with the leading actors of the play, Zhang Guoli and Li Baotian, when recalling the scene many years later, they were still full of praise for Shen Aojun's beauty: "When I saw her walking in ancient costumes, she was simply a fairy sister who came out of an ancient painting!"
In the following years, Shen Aojun can be said to have been filming costume dramas in an endless stream. Whether it is the fair lady in "The Family of Gold Powder", or the glamorous Xi Shi of Hangzhou in "Divine Doctor Xilaile", she can perfectly interpret the role and is deeply loved by the audience.
For a time, her fame not only soared in China, but even some surrounding Southeast Asian countries were also fascinated by her beauty. Industry insiders joked: "If in ancient times, if Shen Aojun came to the palace, I am afraid it would cause a battle between palace henchmen!"
An unknown sad past
However, just when his career was in full swing, Shen Aojun's private life was not very satisfactory. The actor Nie Yuan, who starred in the same drama with her back then, sparked a spark of love during the filming, and then became entangled for several years.
Nie Yuan even bluntly said to the media in an interview: "(Shen Aojun) is true love for me, if she is willing to marry me, I will definitely cherish her for the rest of my life."
Who would have thought that this seemingly sweet relationship would end in Nie Yuan's ruthless abandonment. The reason is very simple - because another young and beautiful little flower girl appeared in Nie Yuan's field of vision.
This undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Shen Aojun, a popular idol. When she was asked about her love life at an event, her eyes couldn't help but moisten, and she looked very lonely. Relatives and friends have revealed that this lovelorn made Shen Aojun want to leave the entertainment industry for a while, and completely stay away from this "poisonous place".
Make it back to the choice of ordinary people
In the end, under the guidance of his parents and teachers, Shen Aojun let go of the obsession in his heart and decided to give himself a chance to start again.
This opportunity came from a low-key but illustrious diplomat. The acquaintance of the two was purely accidental, but they met the most sincere side of each other's hearts. Shen Aojun was impressed by the gentleman's thoughtfulness and care, and Mr. Diplomat also admired her simple and pure character.
In this way, Shen Aojun married into an ordinary and happy family from the gorgeous screen world. Soon, she became pregnant, adding a new spark of life to the family.
Interestingly, since pregnancy, Shen Aojun's figure has soared. In order to give the baby enough nutrition, she ate and drank without any scruples, and directly "ate" the petite figure of the year out of a different style.
After giving birth, Shen Aojun is even more to take care of the children, and rarely has a work schedule. In this way, the "fairy beauty" that once attracted countless boys and girls to think about it has withdrawn from people's field of vision in such obscurity.
Calm and calm to start anew
Time flies, more than ten years have passed. On this day, a passer-by was at an event site, and suddenly saw a middle-aged woman with outstanding temperament who was very familiar, and wondered: "This aunt, so familiar?" Did I watch it on TV before?"
Take a closer look, it turns out to be the "costume beauty" Shen Aojun of the year! It's just that the years have left too many traces on her face, and she is so fat that it is difficult to recognize her appearance.
Facing the exclamations of his peers' old acquaintances, Shen Aojun didn't care. She smiled slightly and said calmly: "I'm doing well, it's just that I don't appear on the screen." The most important thing now is to be a good mother and live a happy family life. "
In fact, as early as a few years ago, Shen Aojun had restarted his acting career. Only this time, her goal is no longer to become an idol star on the screen, but to convey warmth and positive energy to more people through the show.
It can be said that from the little girl who was heartbroken with her feelings back then to this middle-aged woman who is 100% satisfied with her life, Shen Aojun has completely transformed. She has learned to pamper herself and care for her family, and at the same time, she has also learned to treat all kinds of life with a broad mind and a positive attitude.
"Being able to spend this life in peace is the greatest happiness in life." This sentence came from Shen Aojun's mouth. From her calm and comfortable tone, we can feel the state of mind of a woman who truly enjoys life and loves life.
After spending her prime of life, she finally found her own tranquility and contentment, and lived the best life in the most simple way. For the troubles of the past, she is no longer dwelling on the troubles, but devoting herself to the current family life.
Life is not always easy, but as long as we understand the meaning, we can live the happiest life. This is exactly what Shen Aojun, the former "beauty in ancient costumes", enlightened us.
Cherish the moment and enjoy the joy of family
That's how life is. When we let go of the obsessions of the past and devote ourselves wholeheartedly to the present life, we will find that it is actually full of happiness and warmth.
For example, whenever night falls, Shen Aojun will accompany the children to do homework and tell fairy tales. In her kind eyes, the children's young faces seemed to be the loveliest scenery in the world. The bits and pieces between her family are the greatest joy in her life now.
Sometimes, Shen Aojun also remembers the past. The "fairy sister" who was once thought of by thousands of boys and girls has now been completely "mortal". But this did not make her feel sorry, on the contrary, she was glad that she had captured the center of gravity in her life in time.
"If I hadn't encountered such an ordeal back then, I might have been living in my own small world, and I wouldn't have experienced the true meaning of life at all." "So I'm very grateful for the setbacks that made me see what is the most important thing." "
Yes, whether it is career achievements or the baptism of love, it is just a wave in the long river of life. Only the oasis of the family is a safe haven that allows us to take root and settle down forever.
Shen Aojun's words show the true understanding of life in middle-aged people. Only by letting go of the delusions of the past and sincerely yearning for simple family happiness can life always maintain the background color of joy.
Some people say that in this flashy world, she is "too fat to recognize" after all. But for Shen Aojun, she has already lived her best life. That is to have a happy family, to be with the people you love, and to enjoy the family life to the fullest.
This is the ultimate meaning that everyone should pursue in life. I hope we can all be like Shen Aojun, grasp ourselves in the torrent of life, and finally grasp the happiness and joy that belong to us.