During the Song Dynasty, Kaifeng City was prosperous and prosperous, and the people lived and worked in peace and contentment. In this city with a long history and profound cultural heritage, there is a young woman named Chen Xiaoyu, who is beautiful and moving, smart and clever, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and is the dream object of many young men in Kaifeng City.
Chen Xiaoyu has a cheerful personality and likes to socialize with people, and her circle of friends has many people from different walks of life. One day, Chen Xiaoyu got together with a few friends and talked about the topic of love. One of my friends said: "In my opinion, love is the more you love, the more you want to control the other person, and let the other person be your own." ”
When Chen Xiaoyu heard this, she couldn't help frowning, she felt that this point of view was a bit one-sided. So, she expressed her opinion: "I believe that love is based on mutual respect and trust. If you just want to control the other person, it is not real love, but a kind of possessiveness. True love should be about making the other person feel free and comfortable, not constrained. ”
Another friend joined the discussion: "You have a point, but sometimes we want to control each other before we know it. For example, we want the other person to live our lives, or we want them to meet our expectations. ”
Chen Xiaoyu nodded, agreeing with the friend's point of view. She continued: "It is true that people tend to have some expectations in love, but we have to understand that everyone has their own independent character and thoughts, and we cannot force each other to live our lives. True love should be about accepting the other person in their entirety, including their strengths and weaknesses. ”
When the friends listened to Chen Xiaoyu's words, they all fell into deep thought. In the end, they agreed that love is complex, with multiple factors such as possessiveness, expectation, and control, but true love should be one in which both partners feel free and comfortable, not tied to each other.
Since then, Chen Xiaoyu and her friends have been cautious on the road of love, respecting each other, trusting each other, and pursuing true love. They understand that love is not about control, but about acceptance and tolerance. In the process, they continue to grow and harvest a happy love and a happy life.
And Chen Xiaoyu's story has also become a good story in Kaifeng City, and has become an allusion often cited when people talk about love.