When Lin Jiawen was 18 years old, he was able to publish two 300,000-word historical monographs, and these honors are unattainable for many people in their lifetime!
With the "halo of the protagonist", he not only added all kinds of honors, but also made him a little celebrity in the school for a time, as if life was as smooth sailing as it was opened!
But Lin Jiawen chose a completely different path and ended his life by jumping off the building, is this kind of life favored by God also a kind of life pain for him?
Children in other people's mouths
As a student who is about to take the college entrance examination, Lin Jiawen is very loved by teachers and family members, whether at home or at school.
He is very filial at home, and when he rests on weekends, he will also take the initiative to help his parents solve some trivial matters in life.
At school, he was diligent and inquisitive, and in the eyes of the teacher, he was a proper scholar, and even his classmates affectionately called him "Teacher Lin"!
It is because Lin Jiawen has his own plans for his study and life, and his parents are usually very lenient in his discipline.
Although this kind of education method does not put a lot of pressure on children, the only drawback is that there will be a lack of care for children, and sometimes it cannot take into account children's feelings in time.
In fact, for children's education, we, as parents, should occasionally chat with our children about some interesting things in life, and slowly turn to life, so as to understand the thoughts and opinions of children in each period.
But it seems that Lin Jiawen's parents did not do this, they are more buried in their own work, thus lacking care and love for their children's lives.
Because there are pros and cons to everything, parents will only let their children bury some things in their hearts, and over time there will always be an outbreak!
Jumping from a tall building
This happened in February 2016, when Lin Jiawen, like his parents, returned to his house to study after dinner.
At first, his parents didn't notice anything unusual, and they were busy with their own work, because Lin Jiawen's father was a lawyer, so he also had a job to deal with after eating.
The mother was cleaning up the tableware that had eaten, and suddenly a strong sense of uneasiness reached Lin Jiawen's mother, who at first only heard someone screaming outside.
She trembled in her heart, first ran to the house and called out her husband, and then the two came to Lin Jiawen's room together, and when they opened the door, they saw the open window.
The heart suddenly rose to their throats, and then they looked down from the open window, and what they saw made their eyes go black.
The couple hurried downstairs and saw their son's body curled up together, lying in a pool of blood, which hit their hearts like a thunderbolt from the sky.
Upstairs, Lin Jiawen's mother learned of such a thing, tears began to roll in her eyes, and when she saw this scene downstairs, she couldn't bear it anymore and cried loudly.
After Lin Jiawen's father saw such a scene, his heart seemed to be empty, and he didn't know what to do at this time.
Instead, they silently accompanied their wives in the back, and in the face of their son's sudden departure, they couldn't accept it no matter what.
Then the police car and ambulance quickly arrived at the scene, and at this time, Lin Jiawen's parents were still holding on to hope, hoping to learn the news from the doctor that their son was still alive.
But when the doctor came to Lin Jiawen's side for rescue, the doctor's expression was very serious and told the couple that Lin Jiawen had completely lost his precious life because the injury was too serious.
It seems that the only life-saving straw in their hearts has been completely broken, and the matter of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person is playing out around us again.
Looking at how fragile human life is in this way, and what ordinary person can accept the sad scene of the sudden departure of a loved one in an instant?
What was the reason for Lin Jiawen to completely give up hope of life? Why do you choose such an extreme way to live a good life?
The real reason behind it
When Lin Jiawen decided to give up his life, he must have thought it through, because before jumping off the building, he also cleaned up his study desk very clean and tidy.
The books I have read are neatly placed on the shelves, and it doesn't seem like an impulse to end my life at all.
Even before leaving, he sent an email to his best friend, saying that he had lived a life of fear for many years.
How many times the stress constantly prompted him to want to end his life, but he always restrained his behavior.
Because he himself knows that if he loses his life, it will be a great blow to this family, because he suffers from depression and can't sleep well for many nights.
The future is not attractive to him, and he has completely given up hope in life, so he finally has this decision!
Although his parents also have a lot of concern for him after work, Lin Jiawen's father's temper can be described as very bad, which may also be related to him as a lawyer.
As for his mother, for his own studies, he took care of himself at home, he felt that his mother's heart was in addition to the school, and some extreme behaviors made her very incomprehensible, his mother was like being in a cage, losing the freedom she should have!
The reason for all this comes from Lin Jiawen himself, his existence not only made his father live in the torment caused by work for a long time, but also made his mother completely give up her original freedom for herself.
All of his hearts were very unhappy, although his parents also noticed Lin Jiawen's state and took him to the hospital for psychological treatment.
But under the doctor's treatment, his depression did not get better, but when his family asked, he lied that his illness was much better, but his parents didn't know how many days and nights of tossing and turning, so he finally broke out and chose to jump off the building to end his life!
You must know that before this, he was known as a "genius boy", not only was he able to write two history books of nearly 300,000 words by himself in his sophomore year of high school, but his understanding of history also had a realm that ordinary people could hardly achieve!
You must know that he had just turned eighteen years old at that time, and his understanding of books can be said to be a proper leader among his peers, and being able to make such achievements is just his personal hobby!
Just by using this spare time, I was able to create two books, "When Taoism Ruled China" and "Happiness for the World", and I will definitely be able to be a very useful person to society when I grow up.
We must know that Lin Jiawen was just a child at this time, but such a genius boy completely disappeared from our field of vision because of "depression"!
It's really a pity, and even for this reason, there are almost no friends who can play with Lin Jiawen, and slowly he loses the meaning of survival in life!
Before this, Lin Jiawen also left a letter to his parents, which was placed in a history book, and his parents regretted it when they saw it.
Why didn't they see the letter earlier, why didn't they find out about the plight that the child was facing earlier, didn't work it out with him.
In that letter, it was very clear that he said his true thoughts in his heart, which was not only a heavy blow to a family, but also made a healthy child completely fall into an abyss from which he could never recover!
In order not to worry his parents, he chose to cover up the truth of the matter with lies, because he felt that this family was like a burden, adding a steady stream of pressure to his parents, and making their lives into a dark sky.
In Lin Jiawen's heart, his departure may also be a spiritual relief for his parents, so he chose to let go!
In the end, it completely disappeared from our lives!
In fact, in our lives, there are people who are under the same pressure as him!
A boy in his third year of high school jumped off a building
There is only one month left before the college entrance examination, and Qin Yong, a senior high school student who came to a middle school in Shaoguan City, chose to end his life by jumping off a building on his birthday.
You must know that at that time, he had just passed his 18th birthday, and when teachers and parents got this situation, they quickly gathered together to understand the situation.
After understanding, it was found that before Qin Yong jumped off the building, he had contacted her classmate Fang Qin and handed her a notebook, and when she heard that Qin Yong had committed suicide, she also sent this notebook to her homeroom teacher.
In the notebook, we can see that he, who loves literature, wrote many literary sentences on it, and left some words that he was ashamed of his parents.
Maybe for him, he also has a lot of dissatisfaction with life in his heart, so even if he chooses a path from which he will never recover.
Here, I also hope that everyone can find their own way of life in their own lives, and parents should also have more care and love for their children!
epilogue
We must all be very sad to see these results, because there are still many children like Lin Jiawen in our lives.
I only hope that parents can pay more attention to their children in this process, so that they can find a suitable catharsis point to express their dissatisfaction!
Because no one wants to see something like this happen again!!!!
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References:
Xi'an Evening News 2016-02-25 "18-year-old "Historical Genius" Lin Jiawen Died of Depression and Published Two Monographs
The Paper2015-12-18 "High School Students Produce History Monographs, Scholars Praise "the Youngest Author with Research Ability after Liberation"
CCTV 2009-05-01 "Senior High School Boy Jumped Off the Building and Committed Suicide, Leaving a Notebook Full of Depressive Words and Sentences"