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In 1997, a new star emerged in the music scene, he was only 27-year-old Geng Weihua, with popular songs such as "Mice Love Rice" and "Love Malatang", Geng Weihua quickly became popular and became a high-profile music talent, after a performance, a 16-year-old girl, Zheng Jia, plucked up the courage to approach Geng Weihua
At that time, Zheng Jia was full of youth, her eyes flashed with idol worship and admiration, she didn't just want an autograph or a group photo, but was deeply attracted by Geng Weihua's talent and charm, and her heart sprouted a longing for love
Geng Weihua didn't particularly care about this girl who was still a little immature for him at first, but Zheng Jia's persistence and courage gradually moved him, Zheng Jia wrote an 11-page letter to Geng Weihua, revealing the innocence of the girl and the desire for love
The two began to talk on the phone frequently, sharing each other's life bits and pieces, Zheng Jia's liveliness and cheerfulness infected Geng Weihua, so that he gradually let go of his age concerns, and Zheng Jia also gradually matured in the relationship with Geng Weihua, she understood the pressure of Geng Weihua as a musician, and silently paid her love and support
This relationship is not all smooth sailing, doubts and pressure from the outside world followed, but Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia chose to be firm with each other, they believe that love can cross the age gap, in 2000, the relationship between the two went further, Zheng Jia was admitted to the medical school of his choice, and Geng Weihua's career is also thriving
Three years later, 34-year-old Geng Weihua and 23-year-old Zheng Jia entered the palace of marriage, and at the wedding, they made a vow to stay together for a lifetime, with a happy smile on their faces
After marriage, Zheng Jia gave up her career and devoted herself to the family, in 2004, their daughter was born, the arrival of a new life added more joy to the family, as time went by, the pressure of life and the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt gradually consumed the sweetness of love
Geng Weihua's career is developing smoothly, but it also means that he needs to pay more time and energy, he often goes out early and returns late, and even works all night, spending less and less time with his family, Zheng Jia gave up his dream for the family and poured all his love into her husband and daughter
She longs for more attention and understanding from her husband, and the financial pressure has become the straw that crushes the marriage
Zheng Jia hopes to improve the quality of life of the family, while Geng Weihua believes that more investment should be made for the future, the two have a deepening disagreement on the concept of money, more and more quarrels, and the age gap is also highlighted at this time, and their different life experiences and values make it difficult for them to reach a consensus on many issues
Zheng Jia longs for romance and companionship, while Geng Weihua pays more attention to career and future, once a lover who talked about everything, but now he is relatively speechless, in order to save this marriage, Geng Weihua began to try to spend more time with his family, but long-term neglect has made Zheng Jia disheartened
In the end, in 2015, this marriage that had lasted for 12 years came to an end, and 45-year-old Geng Weihua and 34-year-old Zheng Jia chose to divorce and end this once vigorous love
At the time of the divorce, Zheng Jia only made one request: the custody of his daughter, Geng Weihua agreed, he promised to fulfill the responsibilities of a father, after the divorce, Geng Weihua put more time and energy into work, and he began to reflect on his shortcomings in this marriage
And Zheng Jia took on the responsibility of taking care of her daughter alone, trying to adapt to the role of a single mother, time is the best medicine, it soothes the pain, but also brings new hope, after the divorce Geng Weihua chose to remain single, he left more time for his daughter, and tried to make up for the lack of fatherly love in the past
And Zheng Jia chose to remarry a few years later, opening a new chapter in his life, now, 51-year-old Geng Weihua is still single, he gave all his love to his daughter, and admitted that he has no expectations for marriage, and 37-year-old Zheng Jia found his own happiness in his new marriage
Looking back on this relationship spanning 24 years, Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia have grown from it, they understand that love needs to be managed, marriage needs to be tolerated, and the age gap cannot be a reason to hinder love, but it requires both parties to pay more understanding and tolerance
The story of Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia may be a microcosm of many love stories in the entertainment industry, which allows us to see the sweetness of love and the cruelty of marriage, and also makes us understand that on the road of life, everyone is constantly growing and transforming
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