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Recently, the news of Chen Yanxi and Chen Xiao's marriage change has been frequently reported, and many viewers have lamented Chen Yanxi's bumpy feelings as Taiwan's "national first love". Before Chen Yanxi, when it comes to the name of Taiwan's "first love of the whole people", it must be Gui Lun magnesium in "The Secret That Can't Be Said". However, Gui Lunmei's emotional history is much more bumpy than Chen Yanxi's!
The debut is the peak, recognized by the audience as the "first love of the nation", and has created countless classic roles on the screen so far, and has the title of "Golden Horse Actress" in hand, Gui Lunmei's career achievements are obvious to everyone.
However, this actress, who is regarded as a "goddess" by thousands of audiences, wasted 14 years of her youth and feelings on a man who is 18 years older than him, what kind of unforgettable relationship is this? What kind of man can make her resolutely choose to be with him despite her family's opposition? And after 14 years of emotional entanglement, what happened to Gui Lunmei after breaking up?
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Speaking of Gui Lunmei's most well-known role for mainland audiences, it is none other than Lu Xiaoyu, the heroine in Jay Chou's film debut "The Secret That Can't Be Said". However, what many people don't know is that Gui Lun magnesium debuted at the peak, and her debut work film "Blue Gate" once directly created the highest box office record for Taiwan's youth films, and some people still remember her as the heroine Meng Kerou.
In this movie "Blue Gate", which premiered 22 years ago, Gui Lunmei and the actor Chen Bolin showed everyone their youthful and real and touching acting skills, as if they were the male and female protagonists themselves in the movie, and it was their pure presentation that moved many audiences and set a box office record.
In the film, Meng Kerou played by Gui Lunmei is as clean as a blank piece of paper, whether it is the stubborn appearance of being bullied and healed alone, or the bright and beautiful youth under the sun, it is the most real and vivid appearance of Gui Lunmei.
is different from the impression left by Lu Xiaoyu on everyone, the stubborn girl Meng Kerou who is plain and dressed neutrally is already the real first love in the minds of many people.
In fact, Meng Kerou in the film is almost the real appearance of the 19-year-old Gui Lunmei, and the reason why Meng Kerou in "Blue Gate" is so impressive is that to a large extent, it can be said that Gui Lunmei plays this role in his true colors.
As soon as he debuted, he had such good results, and Gui Lunmei can really be said to be "the peak of his debut". Many people have seen Gui Lunmei's real and moving interpretation in the movie, and they have speculated whether Gui Lunmei has been cultivated by her parents since she was a child and is determined to eat the bowl of rice as an actor, but this is not the case!
Gui Lunmei was born in Taipei in 1982, her family is good, she has learned many skills arranged by her parents since she was a child, such as piano, ballet and so on.
Like many parents, Gui Lunmei's parents have had high expectations for her since she was a child, hoping to train her to be a host or diplomat in the future.
However, Gui Lunmei has had her own ideas since she was a child, and although she has learned a lot of skills according to her parents' expectations, she is not very satisfied with her parents' arrangement.
For her, she hopes that the career she will engage in in the future is the one she really likes, instead of blindly living her life according to her parents' arrangement, which is meaningless to herself.
Gui Lunmei's entry into the showbiz was not planned, and her acquisition of the role of Meng Kerou originated from a chance encounter at the station. At that time, Yi Zhiyan, the director of "Blue Gate", was looking for a heroine for his film, and by chance, Yi Zhiyan met Gui Lunmei who was waiting for the train at the station.
Yi Zhiyan, who saw Gui Lunmei, was shocked to realize that the girl in front of him was not too much in line with the image of "Meng Kerou", so he immediately stepped forward to greet Gui Lunmei, and even immediately decided that Gui Lunmei would be the heroine of the movie "Blue Gate", even though Gui Lunmei was still an amateur with no acting experience at that time.
Facts have proved that director Yi Zhiyan's vision is really not too accurate, Gui Lunmei really interprets the heroine Meng Kerou in his movie very well, and even becomes a classic image and youth memory in the minds of many audiences. At the same time, it can also be said that the film "Blue Gate" opened and laid the development path of the "goddess of literary films" after Gui Lunmei.
After "Blue Gate", Gui Lunmei can be said to be an instant hit, it is precisely because of the role of Meng Kerou that Jay Chou later came to her with the movie "The Secret That Can't Be Said", and then she had the corner of Lu Xiaoyu, the "first love" in the hearts of many mainland audiences.
Jay Chou's influence needless to say, the movie "The Secret That Can't Be Said" suddenly opened up the popularity of Gui Lun magnesium in the mainland market, and Taiwan's "national first love" was officially upgraded to China's "national first love".
To this day, many people still remember the beautiful and innocent mysterious girl Lu Xiaoyu who played against Jay Chou in the movie. Even the actor and director Jay Chou, who played against Gui Lunmei, was full of praise for her, praising Gui Lunmei for really having a "first love face"!
Don't look at the characters played by Gui Lunmei like a "fairy" who is indisputable with the world, she herself is a girl with clear goals and progress. Although she became famous after her debut, she has never been confused by popularity, but is down-to-earth and cherishes "feathers", so she has left a lot of masterpieces and representative roles since her debut.
After gaining a certain reputation in the mainland, in 2011, Gui Lunmei starred in the movie "Dragon Gate Flying Armor" directed by Tsui Hark, and cooperated with Jet Li, Zhou Xun, Chen Kun and other big-name powerful actors.
In the film, Gui Lunmei subverted the image and played the role of the bewitching and sexy Bu Ludu, looking at the sexy appearance of Bu Ludu with dirty braids on the screen, it is very similar to imagining that this is the pure and mysterious girl Lu Xiaoyu in "The Secret That Can't Be Said".
With her subversive performance in the movie "Dragon Gate Flying Armor", Gui Lunmei was nominated for Best Supporting Actress at the Hundred Flowers Award and Best Supporting Actress at the Academy Awards, which is not difficult to see the audience's affirmation of Gui Lunmei's acting skills and attitude.
After that, Gui Lunmei never stopped exploring on the big screen. In 2012, Gui Lunmei won the 49th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Award for Best Actress for her role as Lin Meibao in the urban romance film "Girlfriend · Boyfriend" starring her!
Gui Lunmei finally won the crown of "Golden Horse Actress" with her own efforts, and then was nominated for Best Actress at the Golden Horse Awards three times, and was later invited to be a judge of the Golden Horse Awards many times.
However, Gui Lunmei, who is thriving in his career, can be described as a twist and turn in terms of feelings, which is embarrassing!
Gui Lunmei's boyfriend Dai Liren is 18 years older than her, and the two met in 2004, when Gui Lunmei was only 22 years old.
At that time, Gui Lunmei was invited to star in the movie "Passing" directed by Dai Liren, and it was such an opportunity that made Gui Lunmei appreciate the director Dai Liren, who also loves literary films, and later the two fell in love.
Dai Liren was a full eighteen years older than Gui Lun Magnesium, and Gui Lun Magnesium at that time was Taiwan's "national first love goddess", and Dai Liren was a little-known literary film director.
This mismatched love is really not favored by the people around him, especially Gui Lunmei's family, after learning about the relationship between the two people, they are strongly opposed, but the family's opposition and advice are really useless to Gui Lunmei, who has made up his mind.
So Gui Lunmei did not hesitate to break up with her family because of her feelings, and soon she moved out of her home and rented an old house with her boyfriend Dai Liren.
Maybe at that time, she was quite moved by her behavior of fighting the world for love, but she didn't know that the person who gave the most in the relationship would be hurt more deeply, and Dai Liren, the "prodigal son", would not stay for her!
As we all know, when Cai Shaofen and Zhang Jin got married, there was a huge difference in their popularity, and later Zhang Jin won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor and thanked his wife Cai Shaofen in public, and the two were envious of others. However, it is also a pair with a huge difference in popularity, but Gui Lunmei does not have such good luck as Cai Shaofen.
When Gui Lunmei and Dai Liren were together, Dai Liren was still an unknown little director, and later in 2009, Dai Liren finally came out, this year he won 4 Golden Horse trophies alone, and turned into a well-known cutting-edge "monster" director! At the award ceremony, Gui Lunmei generously gave her boyfriend Dai Liren a hug, and congratulated her boyfriend while professing her love in a high-profile manner.
According to the development of the normal plot, there is a high probability that Dai Liren will finally obtain the consent of Gui Lunmei's family with his own achievements, and then the two will successfully enter the marriage hall, and a pair of beautiful people who have supported them for many years will finally become married.
However, this is not the case, in this relationship, Dai Liren seems to have been on the side of evasion, and even after the relationship was made public, he was ashamed to mention his girlfriend Gui Lunmei in front of the media.
Dai Liren once revealed to reporters the reason for his escape, he felt that Gui Lunmei should have a bigger stage and should not be limited to himself, "If being with her is not a plus, there is no need to mention it."
It can only be said that this kind of remarks are really proper "scumbag remarks" in today's view, if you don't want to be responsible, why waste a girl's 14 years of youth and feelings?
Perhaps it was because Gui Lunmei felt Dai Liren's attitude, and in the end, the relationship between the two people who had been obsessed with each other for 14 years finally ended in Gui Lunmei's hands.
After the breakup, Dai Liren bought a boat and moved his home directly to the ship, sure enough, the "literary man" is still suitable for lonely old age, maybe wandering is the only destination in their hearts.
Today's Gui Lunmei mentioned this 14-year-long relationship, more of a relief, accepting this unforgettable emotional experience, accepting the self that has been paid in this relationship, accepting every moment of the past, and then looking at the future life and cherishing every moment of the present.
If you see Gui Lunmei now, you will definitely feel that she is more confident, relieved and free now!
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