In the eyes of most people, if he is admitted to a university, especially a famous university, then he will have many possibilities in the future and will have better development.
However, there is one person, she was admitted to the National People's Congress in the 90s with a proud score of 712 points. After graduation, instead of living a life that changed her fate, she married a rural bachelor with only primary school education, gave birth to 6 children, and lived on subsistence allowance.
This person is Wu Jihong.
When the reporter interviewed Wu Jihong's village, the locals revealed that they had never known that Wu Jihong was a famous college student, nor had they heard her mention the past, and it was rare for her to deal with people, nor had they seen her mother's family. only knows that Wu Jihong "escaped" back then.
A dignified graduate of the National People's Congress, a former scholar, how can he say "escape"? What happened to her? Why is there such a dramatic contrast in her life?
In the village, the reporter saw a dilapidated house that seemed to be ready to collapse at any moment, and some children's old clothes and shoes were piled up at the door.
The reporter was surprised to find that the only dilapidated mud house in the village was Wu Jihong's home.
How can a high-achieving student who graduated from college fall to this?
Wu Jihong's husband Deng Gaohua was very enthusiastic when he saw reporters, but in contrast, Wu Jihong was more shy, didn't talk much, and his mental state was normal.
Facing reporters' questions, Wu Jihong generously explained that he had indeed been admitted to the National People's Congress with a score of 712, especially the best level of composition writing. She also took out the certificates she had obtained during her college years, and said that she had lost many of them.
The reporter pointed to a very weighty certificate and asked: "How many people voted for this award at that time?" Wu Jihong replied, there were 2 reviews, and she was one of them.
The reporter suddenly exclaimed: "Then you were so good in college!" ”
Especially when the reporter saw a "Beijing Civil Servant Qualification Certificate", he admired it even more, how could he be displaced to this remote mountain village when he had the opportunity to stay in Beijing for development?
Asked about Wu Jihong's situation, her husband recalled that the two were introduced to each other by a matchmaker, and when they met, Wu Jihong had divorced her ex-husband and had a big belly, and she gave birth to her first child less than 20 days after coming to the house.
At that time, Wu Jihong's mental and physical condition was not good, and she also beat people, so everyone rumored that she had mental problems.
When asked about her mother's family, Wu Jihong was very cold, saying that she had made several phone calls to her family in the past ten years. She hasn't been in touch, she hasn't been back, and her family has never been here.
Why not go back?
Wu Jihong admitted frankly that there is no money.
Then why didn't the mother's family come?
They weren't invited.
With the efforts of many people, the mother's family finally came. I haven't seen each other for more than ten years, and Wu Jihong's sister immediately cried. Wu Jihong, on the other hand, was not too excited, as if he was just a neighbor from the next village.
Uncle Wu Jihong even told reporters that even if they wanted to come, they didn't know the address, they didn't know where Wu Jihong was, and she never said it. It was only after this media attention that they knew how to come.
Could it be that Wu Jihong is dissatisfied with her mother's family? Why else should you hide your whereabouts?
However, my sister's words quickly dispelled the reporter's doubts.
My sister said that there are 4 children in the family, and Wu Jihong is the second. She was the only one in her family who had gone to college, and she was also the first famous college student in the village.
However, after graduating from university, she failed the graduate school entrance examination, failed the public entrance examination twice, and failed to find a job. Especially when he graduated, his father, who loved Wu Jihong the most, also died of a serious illness.
During the critical period of graduation, in order not to affect Wu Jihong's state, his father let the family hide the news of his death. Wu Jihong didn't even see his father for the last time, and it wasn't until a month later that he learned that his closest relatives had passed away.
She went south to work with a heavy heart, met a young man, and the two fell in love and got married. But 5 years later, her husband insisted on divorce despite the fact that she was still pregnant, on the grounds that he liked someone else. Not only that, but the husband also took away his eldest daughter.
A series of blows and frustrations became the straw that broke the camel's back.
Grief is greater than heart death, in the face of this series of blows, Wu Jihong did not shed a single tear, and since then he has fallen into a strange circle of silence and self-closure.
She cut off contact with her mother's family, took her pregnant belly, and wandered alone, until she met Deng Gaohua, who was poor and not highly educated.
Since then, she has trapped herself in a small mountain village, hardly dealing with outsiders, only revolving around fried rice, oil and salt, living children, and even the nearby county town, she rarely goes.
The outside world is already too far away from her.
"It's this character, the character hurt her." My sister cried silently, if my sister wasn't this kind of introverted and unexpressive character, maybe her life would be completely different.
When she saw her mother's photo, Wu Jihong was a little surprised: This is a bit old-fashioned.
My sister interjected on the side: "After all, people in their 70s must be old."
Wu Jihong raised his head in surprise: "It's over 70 years old?" ”
She forgot that she hadn't been home for more than ten years, and her mother hadn't seen her for more than ten years. More than ten years, there are too many things that can change.
At the mention of her mother's concern for Wu Jihong, my sister choked up and said, "My mother brought you 1,000 yuan, the pension money that the old man had worked so hard to save.
The obvious contrast is that Wu Jihong behaved very blandly, and even joked that my sister was crying speechless.
Obviously, she doesn't have any dissatisfaction with her mother's family, why is she so indifferent?
With the help of everyone, Wu Jihong went to the hospital for examination. After diagnosis, the doctor explained that Wu Jihong did not have any mental problems, and the reason why she looked abnormal with outsiders was that on the one hand, it was a social barrier caused by long-term isolation, and on the other hand, the lack of long-term family affection made him emotionally weak.
However, these can be slowly changed and gradually restored.
Now, with the help of everyone, she has moved out of the precarious mud house and lived in a relatively spacious house. She was also introduced by a well-wisher and found a job in archives management.
The children have also received assistance, at least the cost of schooling is not a big worry for them.
Seeing his wife, who has lived for 11 years and has a withdrawn personality, talking English and literature with her teachers and classmates during college, her husband Deng Gaohua was stunned, and even admired her.
Wu Jihong's matter is embarrassing, the proud son of heaven who was once excellent in all aspects, but because of personality problems, he fell into the quagmire, and since then he has closed himself off, unwilling to take another step.
In fact, as parents, we also have to reflect on whether our children read dead books, blindly taking high scores and entering prestigious schools while ignoring character education?
Are their resilience and interpersonal relationship handling skills also keeping up?
Temporary glory does not mean that the future will be once and for all; Temporary setbacks do not mean that there is no way forward in the future.
Only by relaxing our mindset will the road ahead be smoother and smoother.
712 points were admitted to the National People's Congress, married a rural bachelor after graduation, gave birth to 6 children and received a subsistence household, what do you want to say about Wu Jihong?
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