The TV series "Who Says I Can't Get Married" is an urban emotional drama directed by He Nian, starring Pan Yueming, Tong Yao, Chen Shu, and starring Yuan Wenkang, Xu Fang iridium, Wang Yang, etc. It tells the story of Cheng Lu, Tian Lei and Ding Shiya, three women, who are confused and entangled in the face of emotional life and workplace pressure.
Cheng Lu, a 35-year-old gold-medal screenwriter played by "nursery rhymes", has both talents and a successful career. But because I am not married, I am always talked about by people around me. She insisted on the idea that "it's not that I can't get married, but I chose not to get married" and never lowered the standard of love.
The support of "Pan Yueming" played by psychology professor Wei Shu made her have a different understanding of the pursuit of others and realized the importance of marriage!
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Cheng Lu's mother harvested her own happiness and wanted to live abroad. She did not trust Cheng Lu to be alone in Shanghai, telling her that the meaning of marriage was "companionship" and hoped that her daughter could find the person who accompanied her as soon as possible and was no longer single.
Cheng Lu went down to the climbing hall under the guidance of Wei Shu and met Li Wenjie, who made her feel incredible.
In daily life, Li Wenjie should be a type of person who appears very frequently in the blind date. A woman who is not married after 30 years old goes on a blind date and should easily meet such a man.
When Cheng Lu did not know how to reject Li Wenjie more appropriately, Li Wenjie fantasized about the "happy life" after the marriage of the two.
Cheng Lu rejected Li Wenjie's marriage proposal, but Li Wenjie said: "You look good and the conditions are good, but the comprehensive score is also a pass." No one but him dared to chase her. He said of himself: "On looks, academic qualifications, and income, it is at least seventy or eighty points in the marriage and love market." Marry him without a loss, otherwise you will not be able to marry in two years. ”
Li Wenjie's inexplicable sense of superiority is puzzling, but this is just his one-man show!
But in real life, how rare are such things? A lot of men are full of confidence and superiority in the face of single women over 30. In their eyes, women who have not been married after 30 years old, no matter how good they are, as long as they are not married, they are failures!
Cheng Lu had to theorize with him: "You are willing to treat marriage as a business, please accept the market law of equal exchange first, if you are willing to put your own price in the marriage market, please know how many pounds you have, if there is no capital premium, why expect others to buy at a high price." It's not that I can't get married, I don't want to marry you! Li Wenjie was overwhelmed by the words!
The appearance of Li Wenjie made Cheng Lu realize: "Marriage is not unimportant, but very important, so you can't settle down, let alone go with the flow." ”
Cheng Lu will reflect, but Li Wenjie will not reflect, always with their own prejudices to see those single women in their 30s!
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"Li Wenjie" never thought that they were also single, always thought that women are over 30 years old, no matter how good you are, you can't marry out. Then they will lower their requirements to actively look for these unmarried "quality men" of theirs, but the reality is to punch them in the face!
The reality is this: more and more women of the right age would rather be single and wait until someone they like than get married! Because high-quality singles are always better than low-quality marriages!
Today's women are becoming more and more independent and have their own right to choose about marriage! They will not be wronged for the so-called life capital, because they have the ability to independently earn life resources! They want more of a spiritual fit and earn a better life together!
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Many women who are over 30 years old know the importance and responsibility of love and marriage, and they know that they can't get married casually!
Love is not a conditional exchange, if you really love someone, you should learn to put away your arrogance, be honest with each other, respect and understand each other.
Single men and women, since they are single, should not have an inexplicable sense of superiority to criticize others. When you meet someone you really like, let go of your prejudices, hold a sincere and ordinary heart, and grasp this hard-won fate, which is the common sentiment of people!
The reason why many people are single is really not so complicated. The reason is simple: either demanding and haven't found the right person; or really don't want to be in love, which at first glance sounds like some truth.
But marriage is a major event in each of our lives, sloppy, like Cheng Lu will not be desirable.
It is said that it is not to meet love to believe in love, but to believe in love, to meet love!
So whatever the reason for being single, we should understand.
But if it is the person you like, don't care too much about your so-called superiority. Instead of waiting for others to take the initiative to chase, it is better to take the initiative yourself, because there is a story on the initiative. Love is not chased by one person, but attracted to each other!
If you bloom, the butterflies will come, and if you are wonderful, heaven will arrange it!
I wish that single people will meet their own happiness as soon as possible and marry the people they want to marry! #Who said I can't get married##Emotion#Nursery rhymes##情感 #
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