7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this
Uncle Chai will take you to a movie
2024-07-10 20:53Published in Fujian
Author|Little Raindrop
Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
The famous writer Chen Zhongzhong's "White Deer Plain" wrote:
Every year from June 3rd to 6th is the day of the club, not during the day but at night, reaching its peak in the middle of the night.
The sexual cognition of women in Bailuyuan has sunk - they have problems, "they are so ashamed that they don't dare to cry".
The sexual cognition of men in Bailuyuan is sinking - the problem of infertility is definitely in women.
Women seem to be a container, and Bai Xiaoyi also scolded her wife: "You are a colander and not cowardly." ”
This is the past tense of borrowing sperm to give birth to children, a mess, all kinds of covering up and stealing bells.
One of the most surprising things was that at that time, for this kind of sexual cognition or reproductive cognition, everyone's concept was that only women had problems!
What is modern society like?
Is it only women who have problems?
Single women who want to have a child are either said to have no father, or they are said to be "illegitimate children" who are adopted and mistressed.
A mouthful of spit can drown you.
The demographic dividend has disappeared, but it is accompanied by the high incidence of singleness, dink, late marriage and late childbearing, and infertility, all of which have become social-level phenomena.
Assisted reproductive technology is considered one of the most effective methods of treating infertility.
However, the high cost discourages some families, and it is still forbidden to use assisted human reproductive technology for single women in China.
"I want a child but not a father", and there is gradually a tendency to spark the prairie fire.
Ye Haiyang, I just want a child!
In this era, most people are still alive in the old routine of getting married and having children step by step.
And Ye Haiyang, the founder of DC Pharmacy, doesn't play cards according to the routine at all!
A girl born in an ordinary family in Northeast China after the 80s, she drifted to an animation company in Beijing for an internship in 2012, and slept in the basement like many Beipiao people.
At the age of twenty-three, she rejected her parents' advice to go to graduate school and gave up the idea of finding a job in her major.
After some research and analysis, she chose an import and export trading company that she thought had a good future.
After being exposed to the knowledge of cosmetic ingredients, she discovered a business opportunity for cosmetics.
Later, he put his first choice for entrepreneurship in Guangzhou, and the cosmetics industry in the Pearl River Delta region occupied half of the cosmetics industry in China and even the world.
She is less than 30 years old,
It has its own cosmetics company.
At the same time, it also has its own cosmetics production line.
In 2017, Ye Haiyang, a 29-year-old "older leftover girl",
shook the whole network with a video,
She wants to cross the ocean to borrow sperm to have children.
At that time, the Internet set off monstrous gossip,
made her criticized,
But also became a million Internet celebrities,
Not because of her business and products,
Nor is it her production line.
Ye Haiyang's saying is that love is sought but not wanted,
I don't want to be a dingke, I'm 30 years old,
She just wants a baby,
or the influence of a single mother friend,
It brought her an unprecedented revelation - having a child out of wedlock.
So she listened to the voice of her heart,
Start browsing the websites of artificial insemination agencies abroad,
It's a process similar to Taobao shopping.
Women can be based on information such as ethnicity, education, appearance, height, etc.,
"Tailor-made" matched sperm donors,
You can even see the grade point results of an Ivy League student.
All this, no father, no marriage, just her and the children.
Borrowing sperm to have children is a complex process.
Sperm selection, stimulation, egg retrieval, embryo, transfer, prenatal check-up, etc.,
A tube of sperm costs more than $1,000.
plus other expenses, it costs 500,000 yuan to get pregnant,
Wait until everything is completed smoothly before she can truly conceive.
The cost of surgery is also as high as more than 200,000 yuan.
The whole process is completed, and it takes seven or eight hundred thousand or even more.
Ye Haiyang also asked not to have general anesthesia,
During the operation, she passed through the ultrasound screen,
Clearly watch the process of implantation of the fertilized egg in the body,
At that moment, Ye Haiyang cried.
When the embryo is transferred into her uterus,
She felt that new life was being conceived day by day,
She cried tears of joy and suffered from depression.
Typical people are red,
Some netizens speculated that she didn't ask for it, it was Lala,
There are also some netizens according to her gender-neutral dress on weekdays,
It is speculated that she is not only Lala, but also an iron T.
The so-called T refers to the Lala group,
The one who is in the driver's seat.
At the same time, she also has to face the great changes brought about by pregnancy.
The body is bloated, and his weight once reached 186 pounds.
In the dead of night, when I saw that other mothers were accompanied by their families,
She also longed for companionship.
In 2018, 30-year-old Ye Haiyang successfully gave birth to her eldest daughter Doris,
Coupled with the mother's Chinese ancestry, the daughter is equal to the mixed blood of the five countries,
He has big eyes and tan hair.
The meaning of the name: a gift from the sea.
How's the rest of Ye Haiyang?
In 2013, American "The Silence of the Lambs" actress Jodie Foster,
Golden Globe Lifetime Achievement Award winner, who generously admitted that he was gay on the spot,
and explained that the two children were obtained by themselves by "borrowing sperm to have children".
In the summer of 2018, Li Xueke, a 29-year-old Shandong model Internet celebrity who grew up in a single-parent family.
I also decided to fulfill my wish to be a mother before the age of 30, went to Thailand to select a British sperm, implanted three embryos at one time, and all of them were successfully implanted.
In July 2019, two boys and one girl were successfully delivered by caesarean section in a hospital in Zhuzhou City.
More leaves of the ocean said,
"I'm short-sighted, and I can't see the look people give me.
Everyone's life is a piece of chicken feathers,
I can't take care of it myself, give you a look? ”
Behind closed doors, I live my own life, who is to provoke whom?
Supporting a home with love is not a piece of paper
In 2018, after Ye Haiyang gave birth to her eldest daughter Doris,
She doesn't understand anything,
I bought a lot of parenting books and read them every day.
In order to make my daughter happy to play at home,
She wrapped up the edges and corners of all the furniture.
In the middle of the night, when the child cries,
She will also get up immediately to put the baby to sleep,
From breastfeeding, making complementary food, changing diapers to early education,
Everything related to my daughter is done by myself.
After Doris entered kindergarten,
Ye Haiyang, but he felt lonely,
I don't want Doris to grow up alone again,
Going to give a "special gift",
After getting Doris's consent, he wanted a sister,
Ye Haiyang, made another amazing move in 2021,
spent 160,000 yuan to do IVF,
The second child, Ye Haiyang, named her youngest daughter "Hatti",
And, he is the same father as his eldest daughter.
叶海洋假期带着Doris，回东北老家安心养二胎，
Doris will stroke his mother's belly,
One will say that this is my sister's foot,
One will say that it is my sister's hand.
The attentive Doris saw for the first time,
When stretch marks on mom's belly,
I was startled and exclaimed that it was my sister who kicked it!
After giving birth to Hatti,
Ye Haiyang affectionately said on social platforms,
"My friend said that when you have a second child, you will understand,
Your love will be shared. But I have a second child,
I realized that love is superimposed".
The life of this gentle woman,
Because of his two daughters, he became more resilient,
As soon as he recovered, he took his daughters and continued to walk the rivers and lakes.
Go swimming, horseback riding, go to fashion week,
Holding each other's hands, running freely by the sea,
She also took a yacht driver's license,
Just to fulfill her daughter's desire to go to sea.
He even designed his own sailing ship to go to sea,
He hung the first picture of his daughter on the boat.
And named after the eldest daughter, Doris.
Who doesn't envy this unique favor?
She supports her daughter unconditionally,
In 2023, the eldest daughter Doris will be admitted to the best primary school in Hong Kong.
Ye Haiyang resolutely moved his family to Hong Kong,
The practice of "Meng's mother's three moves" is not ambiguous at all.
She wrote 7 letters to her daughter,
Talk about what it means to live a dignified life for women.
This is the best resource to raise a daughter,
Give your daughter the most practical action.
Unlike many Chinese parents,
is raising "other people's daughters-in-law".
Practicing that he is both a woman and a man,
It's both mom and dad.
More and more netizens support her and envy her,
Some netizens also said that she was "selfish" in a spouseless family,
irresponsibility to children, etc.,
Ye Haiyang is already very calm,
"We live our days behind closed doors,
There is no harassment to the rest of society. ”
Mom, give life a new definition
Two children of Ye Haiyang,
Every year she writes a letter to her daughter,
Once she wrote: "Daughter, I'm sorry I couldn't give you a father,
You came into this world, and I didn't ask for your permission. ”
In the seventh letter, she wrote:
"Daughter, I can be your "father" from the sky,
I can also give you the most tender time,
I can tie your hair beautifully,
You can also tutor you in mathematics, physics and chemistry;
I can tell you about "The History of Human Evolution" before I go to bed,
I can also put on an apron and cook dinner for you in the kitchen;
Daughter, in this life, has been looking for answers,
Maybe we have to go a long way,
to find your own "answer......
My friend asked, if the child grows up and asks who the father is, what are you going to say?
"Some adopted children abroad will say to the biological children of their adoptive parents,
You were made by chance, and I was chosen. ”
I'll also tell my daughter,
You were carefully chosen by your mother, the chosen one!
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The children are "both complete", and the women are glimmering forward
Ye Haiyang, who will be 35 years old in 2023,
The third time you borrow sperm to give birth to a third child,
She wondered what was the difference between raising a son and a daughter,
In June 2024, she successfully gave birth to fraternal twins.
two sons, Owen and Olsen,
She said that the four children were the same father and mother.
At this time, she is also the manager of an Internet celebrity brand with nearly 10 million fans.
has also received more and more blessings from netizens,
It's no longer just ridicule and criticism.
Ye Haiyang has always been a person who moves forward with action,
It explains that fatherly love is not only a love that men can give.
In the eyes of children, what is a father?
Dad is the one who accompanies you to play ball and sports;
is the first person to rush out to protect you when you are hurt;
It is a person who works hard to earn money and takes care of the family.
Doris and her sisters and brothers will understand,
Mom is usually like that.
As a woman, Ye Haiyang is not confined to tradition and does not complain about life.
She lived out as a whole person:
She is being herself and allowing the children to be themselves.
Ye Haiyang in her book "Fun",
Present the way of thinking of "having fun and living" with concrete images,
Answering many of the questions that plague the contemporary generation of communism.
In 2024, she will give a speech "One Step Forward" in 3.8 Women's Power,
Sharp-eyed friends can see her small belly,
But the hero who firmly shouted out the mortal body is - mother, this slogan!
Mom is a sober choice,
A happy experience, a loving responsibility,
And not just to find the meaning of life,
For example, human beings are just survival machines that carry genes.
She is also a public welfare ambassador of the Shenzhen International Tourism Industry Expo.
As a female upward entrepreneur and role model,
With great love and a sense of responsibility,
Contribute to public welfare,
Contribute to the charity sale.
Be brave to be yourself first, inspire thousands of women to show their true selves,
Live with joy and not be defined by others,
Live with dignity and independence as a woman.
It's also the most beautiful look of all the leaves and oceans!
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7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this -
7 years ago, the single mother who spent 500,000 to give birth to a mixed-race baby from 5 countries was pregnant with three children, and now she is living like this