First, Zhang Di is also a beautiful and promising medical worker. Her life should have been peaceful and beautiful, until she met Feng Xiaogang. At that time, Feng Xiaogang's family was poor, he had not read any books, and his appearance had no advantages, but he had a unique charm.
On their first date, Feng Xiaogang didn't say anything fanny, but sat there quietly and drew a sketch for Zhang Di. This little romantic act instantly captured Zhang Di's heart.
Although Zhang Di's parents strongly objected, thinking that it was stupid for their daughter to give up a high-quality man who was in the right place to post a poor boy, Zhang Di still chose Feng Xiaogang without hesitation.
On September 28, 1990, the crystallization of their love, Feng Siyu, was born. However, fate seems to have played a joke on the family, and Xiao Siyu suffers from congenital cleft lip and palate.
In the face of this blow, Zhang Di blamed herself, while Feng Xiaogang secretly determined: no matter how much money is spent or how many doctors are found, he must cure his daughter, and if she can't be cured, he will raise her for a lifetime.
After a year and a half of hard work, they finally saved up enough money for the operation. The operation was very successful, and the couple's hanging hearts were finally relieved. To celebrate their daughter's rebirth, they changed their daughter's name to Feng Siyu, hoping that she could fly freely like a feather.
Although the life is poor, the family of three is happy. Zhang Di's heart was full of sweetness, and she felt that a better day was just around the corner. However, she never expected that this hard-won happiness would soon be broken.
With the improvement of his daughter's condition, Feng Xiaogang's career began to flourish. However, as his wallet swelled, he went home less and less. used to be a considerate good husband and father, but gradually became a "prodigal son" who did not return for a whole year and a whole month.
Zhang Di silently took on all the family burdens. Pick up and drop off children from school every day, buy groceries and cook, go to my mother-in-law's house to clean up, help my mother-in-law wipe her body, wash her hair, and change clothes.
She seemed to have forgotten that she was once a sought-after girl, and she gave up her good future for Feng Xiaogang. In 1993, Feng Xiaogang's life ushered in a turning point.
At a movie premiere, he met Xu Fan. At that time, Feng Xiaogang blurted out the sentence "The movie is very good, but the heroine is almost meaningful", which became a foreshadowing of emotional entanglements in the future.
No one expected that this seemingly unintentional evaluation would cause such a huge change. Only a year later, in 1994, the photo of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan holding hands was exposed, which shattered Zhang Di's beautiful fantasy like a thunderbolt from the sky.
This news not only shocked the outside world, but also completely destroyed Zhang Di's trust in marriage. Faced with her husband's betrayal, Zhang Di couldn't accept it. She couldn't believe that her years of hard work and grudge had been exchanged for her husband's cheating.
She begged hard to save this marriage, and even pretended not to hear or see her husband's request for divorce, stubbornly maintaining this precarious relationship. However, Feng Xiaogang's heart is no longer in this home.
He and Xu Fan are one as directors and the other as queen heroines, not only are they famous, but their feelings are getting stronger and stronger. They didn't shy away from going in and out, as if they had completely forgotten that there was still a family waiting for him to return.
Second, watching his mother cry secretly late at night, the young Feng Siyu was ignorantly aware of the changes in the family. She began to develop a hostility towards the word "father", and every time Feng Xiaogang came home, she would hide in her room and not want to come out.
The little girl who used to shout "Daddy" sweetly when she saw her father and threw herself into her arms has now become as cold as ice. Feng Xiaogang's heart was very uncomfortable, but he seemed to be unable to recover this father-daughter relationship.
The success of the career and the failure of the family are in stark contrast at this moment. After eight years of emotional tug-of-war, in 2001, Zhang Di finally let go and agreed to the divorce.
Perhaps out of guilt, Feng Xiaogang left most of his savings and a suite for his ex-wife and daughter, and also covered his daughter's living expenses and tuition and miscellaneous expenses. However, these material compensation cannot compensate for the trauma in the heart of 9-year-old Feng Siyu.
For the young Feng Siyu, the fact that her father abandoned her and her mother for a woman named Xu Fan was difficult for her to accept. She didn't know what love was and what not loved, only that her father's decision was painful for both her and her mother.
Every time Feng Xiaogang came to the door with a big bag, Feng Siyu would hide in the room, unwilling to come out. Xu Fan tries to repair this broken father-daughter relationship. She wanted to save something for her husband, but in Feng Siyu's eyes, she would always be just a stepmother.
Every time she was taken to her father's house, Feng Siyu would become a rude little princess: she was picky about meals, disdainful of the beautiful clothes, toys, and snacks that her stepmother chose for her, and even often turned on Xu Fan.
In the face of these difficulties, Xu Fan could only blindly endure it, and even gave up the opportunity to be a mother. With the passage of time, although Feng Siyu forgave his father, the wounds in his heart were difficult to heal.
She treats her father with the same courtesy as she treats her guests, lukewarm, thoughtful but detached. At this age when she should be carefree, she was forced to learn to be "sensible". At the same time, Feng Siyu also realized his luck.
She was admitted to Nortel and had the opportunity to study abroad. After returning to China, she did not hesitate to follow the path that her father had taken and entered the film industry. Feng Xiaogang also saw his daughter's talent, and began to hand over the editing and post-production of his movie to Feng Siyu.
However, even if there is an intersection at work, the emotional rift between father and daughter is still difficult to bridge. Feng Siyu has always maintained a polite and detached attitude towards his father, as if he is protecting his fragile heart in this way.
In 2007, a surprising news came: Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan adopted a 2-year-old girl named Xu Duo. This decision shocked the outside world, and also made Feng Siyu feel confused and hurt.
The father who used to protect himself from having a second child now gives all the favor to a girl who is not related by blood. In contrast, Feng Siyu seems to be more like that "adopted daughter".
In addition to basic living expenses, there is very little interaction between her and her father, and even the group photo seems polite and detached. This kind of disparity in treatment can't help but make people guess Xu Duo's true identity.
Some people began to discuss: Could this adopted daughter be the child of Feng Xiaogang and a certain female star? Or is this Feng Xiaogang's guilt towards Feng Siyu, so he pours all his preference into his adopted daughter? Some people even noticed that Xu Duo's mouth was exactly the same as Feng Xiaogang's, and then thought of Feng Xiaogang's never-ending scandal, this mystery seemed to have an answer.
However, no matter how the outside world speculated, Feng Xiaogang and his wife never made a positive response. This silence deepened the doubts and loss in Feng Siyu's heart. She began to wonder: Is blood really that important? Why is his biological daughter not as good as an adopted daughter? Recently, Feng Siyu and Xu Duo appeared in the same frame for the first time at the premiere of the movie.
However, the treatment of the two was completely different: Feng Siyu sat in the back position, while Xu Duo occupied the C position next to Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan. Just from the intimacy of the photo, you can see which daughter is more favored.
Third, this stark contrast not only surprised the outside world, but also made Feng Siyu suffer in his heart. She had to face the harsh reality that she would always seem to be an outsider in her father's new family.
This feeling made her miss the small family that she used to enjoy with her parents even more, and it also made her deeply worried about her future family life. In the face of family changes, Feng Siyu chose the path of independence and self-improvement.
She put all her energy into her studies, was successfully admitted to Nortel, and had the opportunity to study abroad. After returning to China, she resolutely embarked on the path of film that her father had walked, as if she was proving her worth in her own way.
Feng Xiaogang also saw his daughter's talent. He began to hand over the editing and post-production of his films to Feng Siyu, giving her the opportunity to display her talents in the film industry.
Feng Siyu's performance did not disappoint her father, and she proved her ability in this industry with her strength. However, even if there is an intersection at work, the emotional rift between father and daughter is still difficult to bridge.
Feng Siyu has always maintained a polite and detached attitude towards his father, as if he is protecting his fragile heart in this way. Every time she took a photo with her father, she seemed polite, like treating an ordinary elder.
However, the shadow of his parents' divorce has always hung over Feng Siyu. Now 33 years old, she seems to be extremely hesitant emotionally. She fears repeating her mother's mistakes and fearing that she will experience the same betrayal and abandonment.
This fear made it difficult for her to move on the emotional path. Feng Siyu longs for love and starts her own family, but at the same time she instinctively has a fear of intimacy.
She didn't want her mother's tragedy to happen to her, and this ambivalence made her always hesitate emotionally. Despite this, Feng Siyu did not give up hope of finding happiness.
She works hard in pursuit of career success, trying to fill the void in her heart through her own efforts. She believes that only by loving yourself first can you truly achieve happiness.
On this road of self-redemption, Feng Siyu is slowly healing himself step by step, and he is also looking for his own happiness. Her story has become a mirror for many people who have experienced family changes, reflecting their inner struggles and hopes.
Recently, Feng Siyu and Xu Duo appeared in the same frame for the first time at the movie premiere, and this scene seems to be the epitome of the entire family relationship. Feng Siyu sat in the back position, while Xu Duo was next to Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan, occupying the C position.
Fifth, this stark contrast not only surprised the outside world, but also once again sparked people's discussion about this family. In the face of speculation from the outside world, Feng Xiaogang and his wife have always remained silent.
And Feng Siyu is also looking for his place in this complicated family relationship. She does not want to repeat her mother's tragedy, but she also longs for her father's love. This contradiction has become a major problem in her life.
However, there is always an unpredictable side to life. As the old saying goes, "Children are raised like whom." Although some people have doubted Xu Duo's identity, it is undeniable that it is also a blessing for her to meet good parents like Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan.
For Feng Siyu, blood relationship is not the only factor that determines family affection. Her real challenge is how to find her own happiness in this complex family relationship and not be bound by the shadows of the past.
Although the 33-year-old is still emotionally hesitant, her life has only just begun. In this dramatic family story, everyone is looking for their own belonging and happiness.
Feng Xiaogang, Zhang Di, Xu Fan, Feng Siyu, Xu Duo, each of their choices has shaped the current situation of this family. This story may resonate with many people who have experienced similar experiences, thinking about what true family affection is, and how to find oneself in complex family relationships.