On May 18, 1992, Chen Baiqiang took sleeping pills with alcohol.
Subsequently, he was taken to the hospital for emergency treatment.
Life, temporarily snatched back from the hands of Hades, but fell into a coma.
Seventeen months later, he died of brain failure.
His funeral was held in the fall of that year, and countless fans were heartbroken and spontaneously sent out.
He Chaoqiong also came.
She disregarded her status as a wife and walked in support of the spirit.
Even if the gambling king's father is angry and Hong Kong and Macao are a sensation, she will send him on his last journey.
Since then, they have gone from being separated from each other to being separated by yin and yang.
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That year, He Chaoqiong was 19 years old.
Like an ordinary girl, she also has an idol to worship.
That person is Chen Baiqiang, a hot actor in the music world.
He is as gentle as jade, personable, and has a good voice, and is the dream lover of countless girls.
It is normal for He Chaoqiong to like him.
Ordinary girls chasing stars basically pay attention to the dynamics of idols and invest money or time to support the idol's career.
The daughter of a wealthy family chases stars, but she sends herself into the showbiz and becomes a person who stands side by side with idols.
So, He Chaoqiong signed up for the TVB training class and stepped into the showbiz with half a foot.
went around and around, and finally met Chen Baiqiang in Lan Kwai Fong.
She also auditioned for the TV series "Breakthrough" starring Chen Baiqiang, and finally got the role.
In the play, she made a cameo appearance as Chen Baiqiang's girlfriend.
Since then, their relationship has been one step closer.
As they got to know each other, they unexpectedly found that they were a good match for each other.
Pansy Ho once said:
"We are very similar, we never know how to deal with strangers, we seem to be very sociable, but we are actually stupid, but outsiders always say that we are cold to people and unattainable."
Similar people are more likely to read what they really want to express through the other person's behavior.
Therefore, they can understand each other's difficulties, and then cherish each other.
Since then, they have often appeared in the public eye together, attending banquets, watching performances, attending award ceremonies, and so on.
Gradually, everyone saw tenderness and affection in their eyes.
In 1984, he invited her to star in his MV.
That song, it's called "Love You Deeply".
In the MV, the two are extremely close.
In the interview for the MV, Chen Baiqiang publicly introduced He Chaoqiong:
"This is my confidante."
Is this a cryptic confession?
Possible calculations.
Because they are not ordinary people, marriage is destined to be not as simple as you and me.
Especially He Chaoqiong, her marriage, and even her relationship, can't make her own decisions.
Some things, once they are said, mean the end.
However, men and women who are deeply in love, no matter how rational they are, will have a little impulse.
Therefore, Chen Baiqiang would blush and ask her:
"What is most impressive in your heart?"
She said:
He has always been kind to me, and once when I was really unhappy, he called me many times throughout the day to greet me, and finally, he was much happier.
Although their love is unspoken, every word contains love.
Tell your own love, but also express the love of the other party.
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Of course, their love is not only reflected in words, but also in actions.
Once, Chen Baiqiang woke up and found that the watch in his hand was missing, and he was a little depressed.
When He Chaoqiong learned about it, she immediately spent more than 100,000 yuan to secretly buy a piece for him.
He couldn't be more moved.
Because, that means that he has someone who cares about him and someone who cares about him.
In 1988, Chen Baiqiang was 30 years old.
He held a birthday party for himself and invited many relatives and friends to attend.
He Chaoqiong was naturally also invited.
Moreover, she sat next to him.
That location is exclusive to the hostess.
The affection in this is self-evident.
That day, Chen Baiqiang was very happy and drank some wine and was slightly drunk.
He closed his eyes and leaned quietly on her shoulder, and she looked back at him with a smile on her face.
At this moment, they are enjoying the most wonderful moments of their lives.
What they don't know, however, is that all good experiences come at a price.
The more beautiful, the greater the cost.
Such a happy scene, the media naturally did not miss it, and the overwhelming reports said:
He pillowed her fragrant shoulders, and the blessings were boundless.
The charming picture and the reverie text finally made the gambling king angry.
He forced them to cut off their dealings.
This is not a father's desperation for his daughter, but the helm of a family, based on the consideration of the future development of the family.
At this time, the successor carefully cultivated by the gambling king died due to a change.
He Chaoqiong is the best successor.
Compared with the future of the family, it is natural to see which is more important.
He Chaoqiong is also very clear about this.
She can only swing her sword and slash her love, and put all her thoughts on her career.
The only thing that can prove that she has loved is the pair of pearl earrings that Chen Baiqiang gave her.
For many years after that, she always wore it on important occasions.
Does this count, is he accompanying her?
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In 1991, He Chaoqiong got married.
The groom is Heo Jinheng, the son of the king of ships.
When the gambling king marries a daughter, he naturally makes a generous move.
It is reported that the wedding dress is worth 600,000.
The wedding was held for three days and three nights, costing as much as 20 million.
What's even more striking is that the gambling king gave his beloved daughter a dowry of 1 billion.
During that time, He Chaoqiong became the envy of countless people.
It's just that at the wedding, she held the groom's hand and pushed the cup with him to change the lamp, but there was little smile on her face.
No one knows whether she was happy or sad at that time.
Chen Baiqiang naturally did not miss that wedding.
He looked at her quietly, holding the hands of others, and forced a smile.
After the wedding, he became silent and rarely smiled.
Even, suffering from depression.
Subsequently, he released an album called "Just Because I Love You".
"If you want to fall in love with others, you feel that you have no love."
It is hard for others to imagine how much pain they have gone through to write such words.
Later, he announced his retirement from the music scene.
Take alcohol as a companion and take medicine to sleep.
In his world, the joy is only in the past, and the future is all pain.
After holding on for a while, he chose to give up completely and say goodbye to this world.
After swallowing sleeping pills, he fell into a coma, and she often came to see him.
Seventeen months later, he said goodbye to this world.
She stubbornly supported his soul and sent him off on his last journey.
Not long after, she divorced.
For the rest of her life, she dedicated herself to her family and business, and never talked about love again.
Everywhere you go, you can always find a pair of ordinary pearl earrings.
There have been too many ups and downs along the way in life.
We long to have such a person, accompanied by witnessing the wind and rain, and sharing the prosperity.
It's a pity that it is precisely because of the ups and downs in life that there are so many things that are more important than love.
Walking and walking, we will find;
Love, in fact, is only a part of the wind and rain or glory.
You can love, you can sink.
But it must also be able to afford to put it down.
Author丨Mo Xiaowent
Editor丨Mo Xiaowent