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This man, Shen Xiaoyong, was born in a poor mountain village in Xishui County, Hubei. He was raised as a girl by his family since he was a child, and he has never been as vigorous as an ordinary boy.
Shen Xiaoyong was born with a very feminine face, and his behavior also revealed a feminine temperament. Whenever neighbors and friends visited, they would always be fascinated by his outstanding appearance and praise the child for being so beautiful.
Although Shin Xiaoyong was not born a girl, his body was male, and this physical contradiction made him more and more intolerable. As we get older, this contradiction becomes more serious.
Shen Xiaoyong hates his masculine features, the stubble and Adam's apple that grow on his chin, he wishes he could have the petite and delicate figure of a female surname, and he is confused and distressed about his gender identity.
After entering Qinghai University for Nationalities, Shen Xiaoyong suffered discrimination and ridicule. His classmates regarded him as a freak, and no one wanted to be with him. In this way, he lived alone on campus, feeling unprecedented confusion and fear about the future.
Just when Shen Xiaoyong felt hopeless, a glimmer of life appeared in his heart, rekindling the spark of hope......
In 1983, Shen Xiaoyong came to this world with a new life. His parents could see at a glance what set the baby apart from other boys – the small face was delicate and beautiful, and it was also a sight to behold in a poor rural environment.
Because of his poor family, when Shen Xiaoyong was born, his parents were originally a little disappointed because they wanted a daughter. However, it didn't take long for them to discover an innate femininity in Shen Xiaoyong, so they decided to raise him as if he were someone else's daughter.
Since childhood, Shen Xiaoyong has been dressed like a little girl by his relatives. His aunts would dress him in beautiful floral dresses and comb his hair into delicate braids.
Whenever Shen Xiaoyong's neighbors came to the house as guests, they were deeply attracted by her delicate and lovely appearance, and praised her for being so beautiful, like a little princess.
In the face of praise from others, Shen Xiaoyong was a little shy, but he was very happy in his heart. He does not resent being treated like a girl, on the contrary, he hopes that he can always maintain the unique temperament of a woman.
As he grew up, Shen Xiaoyong entered the school. However, his feminine appearance and behavior made his classmates very repulsive and even ridiculed him. Some of them directly called him "Peacock Princess", while others jokingly called him "Little Beauty".
Although Shin Xiaoyong is angry on the surface, deep down he actually likes these nicknames, which makes him feel closer to the image of a woman in his heart.
Growing up, Shin was confused and disgusted by his biological sex. He had always longed for a slender and petite body like other girls, but for him, it was like crawling on the edge of the sky.
During his studies, Shen was often seen as a "freak" by his peers. After entering Qinghai University for Nationalities, this discrimination and ridicule became even more rampant.
On campus, Shen Xiaoyong always walks alone. His classmates avoided him as if he had a terrible illness on him. Some people call him a "shemale" behind his back, and some people bluntly ridicule him as a "pervert" to his face.
Shen Xiaoyong once fantasized that as long as he became well-behaved and sensible, he might be able to win the acceptance and love of others. However, this is not the case. He put in a lot of effort, but he still couldn't get the sincere understanding of others.
Shen Xiaoyong deeply felt that those harsh words were like invisible shackles, firmly binding his body and mind, making him breathless. Once upon a time, he wanted to escape from all this and find a place full of warm sunshine, but unfortunately it was all just a dream in the end.
Day after day, year after year, the unbearable campus life accumulated more and more in Shen Xiaoyong's heart, and finally in 2006, he made up his mind to leave here.
On that day, Shen Xiaoyong left the campus without looking back with his luggage, as if he had never left a trace here. After learning about this, although the family had already expected this result, they fell into a long silence when they looked at the once innocent child in front of them.
There is nothing more painful in this life than to be yourself. But in the face of their son's resolute determination, they may have begun to waver and compromise.
In this way, Shen Xiaoyong left Qinghai, where Longzhong was located, and came to a more open metropolis alone. Here, he found an unspeakable job – performing eye-catching pole dancing at night shows.
Every time he walks on stage, Shen Xiaoyong only wears erotic underwear, and he is always coaxed and abused by the drunks in the audience, who call him a "freak" and a "shemale". However, in order to earn enough money for the operation, he gritted his teeth and insisted on this job, interpreting his desire for the ideal of transgender with practical actions.
Shen Xiaoyong felt that the physical and mental torment almost crushed him. In order to vent this heavy pressure, he decided to find a confiding on the Internet. To this end, Shen Xiaoyong registered an online account and showed people with the name "Phoenix Gege", which has obvious feminine connotations.
In the near future, he published a long essay entitled "Who Made Me a Woman", in which he candidly expressed his desire for transgender and his life experience. This article is full of contagiousness and has touched countless netizens.
Netizens in the comment area left messages of encouragement and support, and soon this person named "Phoenix Gege" became a high-profile Internet celebrity.
This post is like a firework set off in the dark night, completely exposing the story of Shin Xiaoyong. Although it is difficult to understand 100% of the journey of a boy who aspires to become a girl, his courage and determination are truly impressive.
Just as the online discussion continued to escalate, a well-known plastic surgery hospital in Shenzhen also learned about Shen Xiaoyong's touching story.
After hearing this exciting good news, Shen Xiaoyong couldn't help but prepare for the procedures of going to Shenzhen, and was extremely excited about the future where he could get his wish.
In August 2007, Shen Xiaoyong went to Shenzhen and began the most important stage of his life. After a meticulous evaluation by the doctors, he was included in a 6-month sex reassignment surgery plan.
The process of surgery was extremely difficult and long, and Shen Xiaoyong had to endure great physical and mental pain. However, whenever he thinks that he will be able to obtain the coveted female identity, he can always muster up the courage and fighting spirit again and persevere.
After months of hard work, Shen Xiaoyong's surgery was finally successful, and when he saw his new self in the mirror, his heart was so excited that he almost exploded!
His childhood fantasies about women are recreated by a woman with long black hair, a petite figure, and a delicate face.
The most important milestone in Shin's life was undoubtedly the successful completion of the operation. Subsequently, he changed the name of his ID card to "Shin So-yeon", officially getting rid of his past male identity and starting a new female life.
Shin So-yeon's story spread online, causing a sensation, and her long article "Finally Understanding the Undefeated East" published on the Tianya forum described her process of transgender change in detail, and sparked a heated discussion about the "plight of transgender people in society".
Countless netizens were amazed and applauded for her courage.
Soon, Shin So-yeon was hailed as "China's No. 1 transgender beauty", and she became an "Internet celebrity" in everyone's attention. In the past, she was regarded as a "freak" and "pervert" by people because she was transgender, but this time, she finally showed her unique light in the limelight.
Although Shin So-yeon has a female identity from a legal point of view, she still encounters many obstacles and discrimination when looking for an understanding person and a partner.
At first, there were many people who approached Shin So-yeon and were very warm and friendly to her on the surface, but in fact they had other plans. Some just want to try and challenge the peculiarities of having an intimate relationship with Shin So-yeon, while others approach her with some immoral thoughts.
These people will soon lose interest in the relationship and unabashedly leave Shin So-yeon behind.
Shin So-yeon thought she had found her close friends, but when they learned that she had been a man, they immediately turned away without hesitation, leaving her alone ever since.
The word "transgender" is like an insurmountable chasm, which has caused many people to have great fear and disgust towards Shin So-yeon.
As you can imagine, the level of discrimination and incomprehension that transgender people experience in real life is far deeper and more pervasive than we can imagine. Even in today's relatively open society, it is difficult for them to gain the respect of the public, let alone the opportunity to get a decent job in the workplace.
Shin So-yeon has not yet found a TA who can be with her for the rest of her life, and she has a deep desire to meet a kind, tolerant, sincere and considerate lover in the coming days, and to melt the estrangement and prejudice between each other with the purest love, instead of treating her as a monster and excluding her.
Shin So-yeon's story reveals the challenges faced by the transgender community in modern society, and we should be more inclusive and caring for this special group.
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