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Text: Buchanan Balls
Edited by Buchanan Balls
In this era of entertainment to death, who would have thought that a grandmother in her sixties would become a hot search queen? That's right, I'm talking about Zhang Lan. This strong businesswoman is not only successful in her career, but now she has also shown amazing courage in bringing her grandchildren.
When we all thought that Da S could fully control the custody of the children after the divorce, Zhang Lan's series of operations surprised us. Not only did she manage to meet her grandchildren, but she also had the impudence to share their photos and videos on social media. This move is undoubtedly a resounding slap in the face to Big S.
So the question is: how did Zhang Lan turn the situation around in this seemingly unequal game? Why did Big S suddenly become so "docile"? Let's take a look at the doorway together.
Wang Xiaofei: The road of counterattack from the second generation of down-and-out rich to successful entrepreneurs
Do you still remember Wang Xiaofei, who was "eaten to death" by Big S? Once upon a time, his image in the eyes of the public can be said to have fallen to the bottom.
After the divorce, Wang Xiaofei seems to have changed from a high-spirited rich second generation to a down-and-out homeless man overnight. His unkempt and unshaven appearance makes people wonder if this is still the second generation of stars who used to be infinitely beautiful?
However, the world is unpredictable, and the gears of fate always turn quietly and inadvertently.
Just when everyone thought that Wang Xiaofei would collapse, he completed a gorgeous turn. Today's Wang Xiaofei looks like a successful entrepreneur, which is impressive.
His Ma Liu Kee restaurant brand is thriving and its business territory is constantly expanding. From a single hot pot restaurant at the beginning to a diversified restaurant group today, Wang Xiaofei has proved her business talent with practical actions.
It is reported that Ma Liuji has opened more than 50 branches across the country, with an annual turnover of more than 1 billion yuan.
Such a result has to be said to be quite impressive.
What's even more surprising is that Wang Xiaofei's transformation is not only reflected in his career, but also his personal image has undergone earth-shaking changes. Dressed in leather shoes and full of energy, he exudes the charm of a mature man in his gestures.
Such a change can't help but make people sigh: Tiger father has no dog, with a mother like Zhang Lan, how can Wang Xiaofei be an idle person?
Zhang Lan: A domineering grandmother who is not afraid of power
Speaking of Zhang Lan, she is really a character that people love and fear. This strong woman in the business world has also shown amazing courage in bringing her grandchildren.
In the face of all kinds of obstacles from Big S, Zhang Lan not only did not retreat, but intensified her happiness.
You must know that Zhang Lan complained in the video before that Da S didn't let her see the child in Beijing, and she didn't even want her to see the child. Such an accusation undoubtedly labeled Big S as a "vicious ex-mother-in-law".
However, Zhang Lan did not admit defeat. Not only did she successfully reunite with her children, but she also shared her happy moments on social media.
"Today, I went to the zoo with Xiao Yue'er and Xiao Jiujiu, the children are happy!"
"Xiao Jiujiu learned new words today, what a smart thing!"
Dynamics like this appear on Zhang Lan's social account almost every day.
What's even more surprising is that Zhang Lan actually released a photo of Xiao Yue'er's face! You must know that in the entertainment industry, the face of a celebrity child is more precious than a national treasure.
But Zhang Lan obviously didn't think so. Not only did she post a photo of Xiao Yue'er, but even when she was shooting a video of Xiao Jiujiu, she took it directly with her face, and she didn't even hit a mosaic.
According to statistics, Zhang Lan has posted at least 20 stories related to her grandchildren in the past month, including 5 frontal photos and 10 uncensored videos.
This kind of approach is simply a public call for big S!
Big S: The transformation from a strong queen to a "confession".
In the face of Zhang Lan's high-profile show of grandson, Big S's reaction was surprisingly calm.
You must know that during the divorce from Wang Xiaofei, Big S showed full strength. From snatching custody to restricting visits, Da S's various behaviors all show her "queen" temperament.
However, in the face of Zhang Lan's "provocation", Big S uncharacteristically chose to remain silent. There was no angry statement, no lawyer's letter warning, not even a look of dissatisfaction.
Such a contrast can't help but make people think: Could it be that Big S is also afraid of Zhang Lan?
recalled Da S's previous attitude towards Wang Xiaofei, it was like two people. As long as Wang Xiaofei is a little careless, Big S will immediately jump out and accuse. But in the face of Zhang Lan, Big S seemed to be dumb.
This abnormal silence seems to confirm a cruel reality: in this game, Big S has already lost.
Perhaps, Big S finally realized that Zhang Lan is not so easy to deal with. After all, Zhang Lan not only has rich experience in shopping malls, but also has strong social resources. What's more, she has the irreplaceable love of a mother for her child.
Netizens are hotly discussed: There are different opinions
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens believe that Zhang Lan's behavior is legitimate:
"It's a matter of course for children to get along with their grandmothers, and Big S shouldn't obstruct them."
"Zhang Lan is completely right to do this, children need the love of their families."
Some netizens also expressed concern about Zhang Lan's approach:
Although I can understand Zhang Lan's feelings, is it appropriate to publish photos and videos of the child? After all, children's privacy needs to be protected. "
"Zhang Lan shows off her grandson in such a high-profile manner, will it bring unnecessary trouble to the child?"
Some netizens analyzed this issue from a legal point of view:
"If Da S obtains full custody of the child in the divorce agreement, is Zhang Lan's behavior suspected of infringing on Da S's rights and interests?"
"Even grandparents do not have the right to disclose a minor's private information against the will of their guardian."
Interestingly, some netizens focused on Wang Xiaofei:
"I feel that Wang Xiaofei has no sense of existence at all in this matter, doesn't he care about the child?"
"Wang Xiaofei has a successful career now, why don't you come out and fight for the custody of the child?"
According to incomplete statistics, among the 100,000 comments on related topics, 60% are in favor of Zhang Lan, 25% are against, and 15% are neutral.
It can be seen that although there are different views, most netizens are still on Zhang Lan's side.
Conclusion: The tip of the iceberg of family conflicts
The "grandson war" between Zhang Lan and Da S seems to be just an ordinary family conflict, but it actually reflects the complex family relationship problems in modern society.
The conflict over custody after divorce, the conflict between grandparents and parents, and how to balance the privacy of children with the emotional needs of family members are all issues worth pondering.
In this era of information explosion, everyone has the potential to become an "influencer", but should we also push minors into the spotlight? As elders, how can we meet our own emotional needs while respecting the rights and interests of our children?
I hope that Zhang Lan and Da S can put aside their prejudices and work hard for the healthy growth of their children. After all, no amount of grievances and hatreds can be worth a smile from a child.
Finally, I would like to throw out a question: in your opinion, in the face of similar family conflicts, how should we balance the interests of all parties in order to truly be responsible for our children? Feel free to leave your thoughts in the comment area.