The best relationship between husband and wife is to taste the ups and downs together, taste the coarse tea and light rice together, one less is difficult to use, and one is not good to lose, and the husband and wife are the people who get along day and night.
Don't hold grudges when you quarrel, don't turn your face when you're angry, join hands to grow old together, share joys and sorrows together, and go through this life together.
Even if life is very hard, sleeping on the streets, there are hardships to carry together, go through hardships together, tide over difficulties, and live a happy and stable life together.
But in fact, the relationship between husband and wife is not so simple. Especially now, many couples are here to be partners, seemingly husband and wife, but in fact they are neighbors, even stranger than strangers.
Husband and wife, the affection on the outside, is for others to see, but in private they are actually very repulsive.
In other words, there are two kinds of husband and wife relationships today, one is called partnering, and the other is called the rest of life.
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Couples have selfish intentions for each other
Husbands and wives who live together are nothing more than living their own lives, each other has selfish intentions, and they have no feelings for each other.
Like two parallel lines, although they are intertwined on the plane of life, their hearts are as independent as islands.
They may have chosen each other because of the needs of life, or some expedient measure, but under this seemingly harmonious appearance, they each have hidden deep selfishness.
Their marriage is like a war without gunpowder, each battalion and does not invade each other, but they are always vigilant against each other's actions.
They may smile at each other at the dinner table, but behind that smile is a mutual alienation.
This kind of married life is like enemies, not violating each other, and once violated, they will be inseparable from each other.
Marriage is to know each other with one person until old age, but the originally happy married life has become such an indifferent enemy life, which is really tiring.
You have your ideas, I have my plans, you don't go home at night outside, and I don't keep women's ways, to find interesting souls.
Couples who are too heavy-minded have long since lost trust, because they are nominally husband and wife, but in fact they are strangers, and they have no blood relationship, so where can they have feelings and trust.
This home, without a little affection and warmth, will be broken up sooner or later.
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A husband and wife who have been together for a lifetime are the rest of their lives
In the vast river of human growth, husband and wife who have been together for a lifetime are like two bright stars, shining on each other in the endless night sky and becoming an indispensable existence in each other's lives.
They have experienced the baptism of wind and rain together, and also enjoyed the warmth of the sunshine together, and created a warm and precious memory together.
These couples, they support each other in the trivialities of life, and face the ups and downs of life together.
They may not have flowery words, no thrilling adventures, but they have walked through every stage of life together with ordinary but determined steps. Their love is like that old wine, the more you taste it, the more fragrant it becomes, and the more you taste it, the stronger it becomes.
They know how to cherish and be grateful. They know how difficult it is to meet someone in this world who is willing to spend their lives hand in hand.
Therefore, they always treat each other and life with gratitude. They respect each other, understand each other, and together create a loving and warm family.
Over the years, they have witnessed each other's growth and changes.
They have experienced the blood and impulsiveness of youth together, and they have also experienced the calmness and wisdom of middle age together. Now, they may have entered their old age, but their love is like the weathered ancient tree, still tall and tenacious.
Husbands and wives who have been together throughout their lives are the most valuable treasures in each other's lives.
With their own actions, they interpret what is true love and what is real family.
Their existence makes us believe that in this world, there is always a force that can make us no longer alone on the road of life.
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The Bible says, "Love is long-suffering and kind." Be inclusive of everything. Believe in all things. Hope in all things. Love never ends. ”
A really good marriage, two people don't need to say much, they know what they are thinking with one look, and after living for a long time, they naturally have a tacit understanding.
Even if it is a quarrel, it is not because of personal feelings, but because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, even if it is angry, it will not sleep in separate beds. Because husband and wife are husband and wife, there will be no deep hatred, and it is absolutely impossible to separate.
We often sigh, at sunset, on the side of the road, the old couple who want to move home are the most enviable fairy couple in the world.
Young couples are old companions, and the best outcome of marriage is to accompany you to old age.