Dear sisters, the world of love is full of wonderful mysteries. When two people meet and fall in love, they need fate and care to manage it, and some appropriate skills to operate love, which will often produce unexpected results. For example, sometimes, being smart about "playing dumb" can make a man fall in love with you more.
1. For his small shortcomings, women must learn to be stupid and learn to turn a blind eye
Men, there will inevitably be some small shortcomings of this kind and that, such as the occasional sloppiness, clothes and socks thrown around;
Or they may be a little clumsy in expressing their emotions and don't know how to say those sweet words to make you happy.
For these, sisters, don't always hold on tightly, learn to turn a blind eye, and don't let these small flaws become stumbling blocks in your relationship.
For example, when he throws his clothes on the couch again, don't rush to get angry and angry immediately.
You might as well change the way, with a gentle smile on your face, and whisper, "Honey, remember to put it away next time." ”
This gentle reminder expresses your expectations without making him feel overly stressed.
You give him some room for improvement and allow him to slowly adjust his behavior in a relatively relaxed atmosphere.
And he will definitely feel your tolerance and thoughtfulness, and his heart is full of gratitude to you.
Because of your tolerance, he feels that he can be himself freely by your side, and at the same time can feel your care and expectations, so that he is more willing to make changes for you and make each other more harmonious and happy.
Second, for his past love history, women should learn to be stupid and don't get to the bottom of it
In the emotional world, for the vast majority of people, they all have their own past emotional experiences, and the man you fall in love with is naturally not an exception.
On this issue, sisters must not always have a strong curiosity and ask all kinds of details. You know, doing so will only create a feeling in his heart that you don't trust him.
When he occasionally takes the initiative to mention past feelings, you don't need to be overly nervous and concerned, just take it lightly.
Then, gently but firmly, she said to him, "My dear, I care more about our present and future. ”
Through this expression, it is clear to him that in your heart, what is most important is the companionship, understanding and support between you at the moment, and every new moment that you are experiencing together and will create together.
This attitude of yours will make him feel your maturity and atmosphere, and understand that you are a partner who can focus on the present and face the future positively.
This will make him cherish the time with you more, and be more determined to build a better future with you, instead of being haunted by the memories of the past.
3. In his bragging moments, women should learn to be stupid and cooperate with a smile
Men, at some point, can't help but want to brag, and this may be a way for them to show their strength deep down.
They may exaggerate their accomplishments or make up heroic stories in an attempt to project a tall image in front of you.
When that happens, you should not expose him mercilessly. Instead, choose to go along with him with a smile on your face.
In a tone full of surprise and adoration, he said, "Really, then you are amazing!" Your response is like a special gift to him, satisfying his little vanity.
As a result, he will feel understood and supported by you, and will feel able to fully display his manhood in front of you.
He will think that you are the one who understands him very well, and understands the deep needs of his heart to be recognized and praised.
This tacit understanding and understanding will make him closer and more dependent on you, and make the relationship between you deeper and more stable.
So, don't be stingy with your accomplishment and praise, use this way to care for his self-esteem, so that he can be confident in front of you, so that your love flowers bloom more brilliantly.
Sisters, master the art of "pretending to be stupid" and make love sweeter. I hope everyone can have the charm that fascinates men and reaps a happy love.