What do you think when a man doesn't contact you as often as he did at the beginning? When many girls are faced with this situation, they will subconsciously think: "Does he dislike me anymore?" ”。 If a man doesn't take the initiative to contact, he just doesn't like it? Not necessarily.
The fact that a man doesn't take the initiative to contact can indeed indicate that the guy doesn't like you enough at the moment, but you can't ignore some of the information behind this behavior.
For example, he was in close contact with you, but your response to him was not enthusiastic. He will feel that you don't mean that to him, and his initiative will not bring you the desired result, but will bring you distress and pressure. At this time, he chose not to take the initiative, which is too normal.
For example, if you only met on the Internet, you haven't met in person, and you haven't had too in-depth chats, so how much can he like you? It's just the degree of interest and favorability, and it doesn't need to be defined by "liking it or not". The relationship between the invisible and the intangible, the enthusiasm comes and goes quickly. It's normal for a man not to take the initiative, especially when he is busy with work and his real life is full, he has his own life and socialization, and you are not his only one.
It is even said that your relationship is not so "legitimate" and can only chat secretly online. Use the private chat software disguised as a calculator to chat with good luck, you can only enter the password to enter, no password retrieval, chat information encryption, someone close to immediately flip the phone back to the calculator interface. Offline can only meet secretly behind everyone's back. Such a relationship is easily hit, and once he feels that the relationship will go wrong, then he will naturally not take the initiative to contact you again.
Girls think so, but in fact, they still care too much about the other party, his actions, thoughts, what does he mean...... Don't use the other person's thoughts and actions as a tractor for your emotions. You just need to think about "how I want to be", focus on your own needs, 10,000 times more important than care about his thoughts! If you want to contact him, send him a message, and if you want to meet him, take the initiative to invite him, this is to meet your own needs.
As for whether you have a possibility, whether he likes you or not, you just have to try, and if you don't move forward, there will be no answer. Instead of thinking about it, it is better to take the initiative and hit the south wall a few more times.