At the recent premiere of the movie "Stop-and-Go", Gao Yuanyuan said:
"I'm not a person with a lot of energy, I'm not a person who can run and walk all the time, so maybe I just let myself lie down and stop a lot.
Because I have saved energy and been nourished in my life, when I return to work, I am in a state full of energy. ”
As he grew older, Gao Yuanyuan became more and more aware and calm. She has her own way of life and no longer cares about what others think. From her, you can see a kind of freedom that is indisputable with the world.
Her life is relaxed, she does not lie flat and rotten, nor does she demand too much of herself, but a stop-and-go attitude to life, admitting her ordinariness, combining work and rest, and working hard according to her ability.
Live seriously, be yourself, and you will not run too fast, but you will also feel the process of life with your heart and enjoy the scenery along the way. It's really a great attitude to life.
You might say that she is free of wealth, so she can stop and go, and everyone wants to stop and go.
What the editor wants to say is that it is not necessarily, many people will have greater ambitions when they are free, work harder, and go to the next level, and it is impossible for these people's lives to stop.
Wealth freedom, what is the so-called wealth freedom? How much wealth does it take to be free? It has to do with a person's desires or pursuits. It also has something to do with a person's energy.
Money has always been a means, not an end, and if you just blindly pursue a lot of wealth and become a master, it will never end and you will never be free.
We must distinguish between ideals and desires, and simply pursue wealth and victory, which is a kind of desire, and desire is difficult to satisfy, and after reaching it, it will not make people have a sense of happiness and happiness, but will give rise to greater desires and greed.
This is not normal.
Of course, it is normal to have ideals, which is a person's self-requirement and a pursuit of life that is exclusive to oneself. There is no limit to this.
Because the ideal has a specific goal, it is the end point of accomplishing the goal and realizing personal value. The process of realization makes people energetic and energetic, and when the goal is achieved, it will make people full of happiness.
This is normal.
The second thing about energy is that the strength of a person's energy is sometimes determined by genes.
Many people are naturally energetic, and he can work hard all the time, which is admirable. Such people are born to be strong.
But some people are naturally weak and unfit for forced work. It's good to find a lifestyle that works for you.
Like Gao Yuanyuan, she doesn't have too many ideals, nor does she have too many desires, she quietly feels her own life, she lives in her own world, and doesn't interfere with others, that's good.
I am not a person with a lot of energy, I can't run all the time, I keep moving forward, so I often stop, take a break, and then store energy in my life before continuing to run.
It's not that I'm lazy when I stop to rest, it's because people like me get tired easily, and although I stop and take a break at the right time, I don't give up on myself.
In fact, everyone will be tired, and going to work with excessive fatigue, or perseverance may not always have a good effect. Stopping and resting before hitting the road will turn out better.
Therefore, I often do not recommend that you challenge the limits of your body or energy too much to work, or to pursue.
Of course, you can also have a different opinion, Xiaobian is not engaged in competitive work.
Competitive work may be different, but in addition to diligence and hard work, many competitive jobs have more talent components, and maybe all jobs are like this.
As the saying goes, it is in people to make things happen, and it is in heaven to make things happen.
In this life, there are really not a few important things that matter to life and death, so you don't have to be too anxious and nervous. You don't have to give up easily, but you can stop and take a break when you're tired.
For Looks:
Gao Yuanyuan said: "She knows her face better than everyone else, and as an actress, she chooses to age gracefully, rather than plastic surgery affecting facial expressions." ”
Xiaobian thinks that people will be old, and being able to accept aging calmly and refuse appearance anxiety is also a manifestation of inner strength.
This is also a lifestyle choice for Gao Yuanyuan, and her attitude to life is a good interpretation of going with the flow. And she thinks the same way herself, not living in other people's evaluations.
This kind of life is simple and casual, and the old age increases, and the editor thinks it is a kind of happiness, because everyone has been young, but not everyone has the luck to get old.
The face of youth has the taste of youth, the face of old age has the elegance of old age, no one can remain the same, even if you try your best to keep your youth forever, it is not the same as when you were young.
Of course, everyone's preferences are also different, whether you like to stay young forever or age gracefully, as long as you like it, there is no problem.
What people are most afraid of is living in other people's mouths, because others say that you are old, so you will find a way to do medical beauty to change other people's opinions. Because others say that you are very unnatural, you continue to improve your appearance.
It's terrible to live forever in other people's mouths, never find yourself. When you finally understand, you'll regret it.
We live in this world, as an independent individual, what we live must be based on our own ideas, so that no matter whether we succeed or fail, we will have no regrets.
That's your life, isn't it?
After all, there are a few people in this world who are extremely smart, talented, and amazing, and many times they are only temporary. Most people are more or less the same, and they are all ordinary.
Like Gao Yuanyuan, who was amazingly beautiful when she was young, as she grew older, at the age of 41, she no longer had the advantage of her appearance and chose to age gracefully.
I also deeply understand that I don't have particularly outstanding talents, accept my ordinary, admit my ordinary, and live a calm life, isn't it a kind of life wisdom?
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