"If it weren't for the heart as wide as the sea, where would the wind and waves be calm. In this life, there are as many cares as there are heart diseases, and there is as much tolerance as there is happiness. A lot of things, let go and be fine. The simpler the mind, the healthier the body, and nourishing the heart is the best health. The heart is wide and the disease retreats, and the heart is at ease. ”
——Mr. Yang Jiang
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When is the spring flower and autumn moon? How much do you know about the past?
Spring flowers bloom every year, and autumn moons are bright every year. However, in the past years, when will we be able to truly understand our sad past?
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "If it weren't for the heart as wide as the sea, where would the wind and waves be calm." ”
Oh, yes! No one can escape the sorrow of life. Time flies like flowing water, in these days of chickens and dogs, ordinary us, everyone is living repeatedly, but the road under our feet is endless ups and downs; In life, it is always in the form of "the wall falls down and everyone pushes it", giving people a lesson after lesson unsuspectingly. What was left behind was regret and tears.
But, mediocre us, only with a wide heart, can we be happy!
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Location determines right or wrong
There is a saying that once said: "In front of adults, of course, it is the children who are wrong, in front of the village chief, of course the villagers are wrong, and in front of the referee, of course, the players are wrong." ”
Don't dwell on "right or wrong", and don't hysterically find someone to tell and prove that you are right. In the real society, the disadvantaged groups are carrying too many grievances!
A colleague has a family relationship. After getting married, she worked hard to manage the relationship between her in-laws, always thinking of exchanging hearts for hearts and becoming a real part of the family. However, when I encounter internal conflicts in the family, I am always kicked out first!
Once, she and her eldest sister quarreled a few words over some trivial matters, and her father-in-law heard them. As a result, my father-in-law smiled and said a heart-piercing sentence: "Didn't you slap me in the face when you talked to her like this?" ”
For this sentence, my colleague lost sleep for several nights!
Later, she finally realized that only blood and family affection can't be managed, isn't this how human nature is?
Therefore, many things are not really solved, but they are understood and seen through, and there is nothing to do. Because if you have a heart knot, you will have a heart disease. If you carry too much, you will waste a lot of colorful life, and even lose your precious health!
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The troublesome thing is to force people to grow
There is a saying that says, "When there is no light, even the shadow will betray you." ”
A colleague once encountered something like this. In the workplace, the working hours are too long and the wages are too low. As soon as several colleagues summed up, they went to the leader to reflect the problem, thinking about asking the boss to raise their salaries!
As a result, my colleague opened his mouth first, and the boss also drank some wine at the time, and immediately turned his face when he mentioned the money. Other colleagues, seeing that the situation was not good, all slipped away, and he didn't even come up to play the round with his best friend!
He was also troubled for days. Later, he woke up to the fact that people are originally seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, not to mention that colleagues can't be friends, and they are weak, no matter how good a friend is, they will turn their backs on you in order to protect themselves!
Therefore, in this life, people are to eat a trench and grow a wisdom. And some things just make you grow and force you to mature!
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epilogue
The saddest thing in the world is, "I treat you differently than others, and you treat me worse than others." ”
In this life, many people go in the opposite direction. Hard work does not necessarily get results, hard work, may not get what you want!
However, don't be demanding perfection in life, let alone be inferior to your own shortcomings, reconcile with yourself, and strengthen your own core in order to live in happiness!
The best health care is to nourish the heart, the heart is wide and the disease retreats, and the heart is at ease!
So what is a meaningful life? In fact, life is a self-taught practice, which requires us to experience and summarize at the same time, let go of the past while releasing the past, and indifferent to the present!
May we all be content and happy, and continue happily no matter what life gives!