1. Judge the situation and be wise and foolish
The more shrewd a girl is, the more she will pretend to be confused when she is fledgling and her strength is not rising.
Because she wants to accumulate strength while avoiding the shadow of the sword and sword, and cover the light with a low profile, in exchange for a safe life.
Even if she is very smart, she doesn't want to be seen through, and often shows people as ignorant and ignorant.
She doesn't want to be blue-eyed because she is excellent, she doesn't want to be jealous because she is liked, and she doesn't want to be excluded because she is top-notch.
This reminds me of Minglan in "Do You Know", she has been hiding her wisdom and guarding her clumsiness.
When the pedant asked her about the temple, she pushed it several times but did not say it, saying that she did not understand the government and politics, but in fact, she had a big idea in her heart.
When the little grandfather favored her and gave her a good brush, she felt very embarrassed and didn't want to accept it, but it was difficult to accept it, so the little grandfather directly stuffed the gift into her hand and left, and there was no room for her to regret it.
Then the two sisters found out, Minglan took the initiative to offer a gift, and said: "The little grandfather took pity on me for not writing well and was punished by the pedant for copying, so he gave me this money." ”
The implication is that her little grandfather thinks she is stupid, so he kindly sends a pen, not that he has any other thoughts about her.
Minglan had already seen through the thoughts of the two sisters, and knew that they would not give up and would intensify their efforts to squeeze her in the future, so she quickly found an excuse to transfer and calm down the situation.
How deep Minglan is scheming, a small thing can be glimpsed.
She didn't show off because she got expensive gifts, but found excuses to cover up, and was very good at taking care of her sisters' emotions, for fear of misunderstanding, for fear that her sister would be jealous and hateful, which would make her situation even more embarrassing in the future.
Therefore, she has been pretending to be weak, pitiful, and stupid to avoid some unnecessary disputes.
A scheming girl, she is more cautious in doing things, she thinks about a lot of things, and seeks to be safe and thoughtful in case of trouble, rather than being willful, striving not to be realistic, not to startle the snake, not to play with fire and self-immolation, but to plan step by step, step by step, until the plan is achieved.
2. Speak one by one
Scheming girls, in terms of speaking, do not say that there is no leakage, but they are also tight.
Not only that, the more she wants something, the more she doesn't show it in words, but slowly guides it, and finally gets it naturally.
You may not understand why her methods are not clever, but she has been successful repeatedly.
Because in addition to means, she is also proficient in the art of manipulating people's hearts.
After anchoring the target, she will prepare a set of rhetoric, see the right time, and attack unprepared when the opponent is lax, until she gets what she wants.
No boy can resist the coquettishness and cuteness of girls, and tea talk may be more useful than outspokenness.
Lin Xiaoniang in "Do You Know" can be described as a master of "tea art".
She knows how to pretend to be weak and innocent, and every time she hurts someone, she cries that she can't help herself, and uses her tears to deceive pity, so as to escape from responsibility.
She is very good at concocting lies, making up statements that sound reasonable, directing the fault to the other party, becoming a victim, and doing enough tricks that people have to forgive.
You feel that something is wrong, and you are so embarrassed by the facts, but she whitewashes it well.
You know that this is not the case, but you can't catch the loophole to refute it, and you can only quietly collect evidence and make plans in the future.
Although, you hate her coy posture very much, but you have to admit that her scheming and means, as a concubine, are wronged, if they are used in the right way, they must be no worse than others.
Scheming girls speak one set at a time, making it impossible to refute, even if you know that it is not the truth, you will unconsciously fall into the trap and lose your way.
Such a girl, she can be said to be fantastic, can please and behave, can be low-pitched, can seem to follow your heart, but in fact to achieve her own goals, without a certain social experience, I am afraid it is difficult to see through its tricks.
3. Hide your heart in the bottom of your heart
The more scheming a girl is, the more she will not confide her heart to others at will.
Whether it's an unspeakable secret, or a privacy she's ashamed to talk about, or a long-brewing scheme, she won't tell it. Even if it is a pillow person who accompanies you day and night, and a close girlfriend, you will have reservations.
She knew better than anyone that if she confessed that she had been hurt, then someone else would have another handle to pinch her; If she innocently exposes her shortcomings, then others have grasped her weaknesses; If she tells about her misfortune, then others have another reason to despise her.
Only people who have no heart will expose the gloomy past to the sun without scruples, but anyone who has a little scheming knows how to hide it, and the deeper the scheming, the deeper the hiding.
When you show others all your ideas, it is tantamount to giving them a handle and exposing their own shortcomings, and they may be used by those who have a heart.
If what is said is irrelevant, then it is fine, in case it involves secrecy and danger, it will not be a sheep in the mouth of the tiger, and give people the opportunity to cause harm in vain.
Perhaps, there are some things hidden in the bottom of your heart, which will make you uncomfortable, and you always want to find someone to solve it. However, you must understand that the risks and importance of this matter are closely related to your vital interests, and you must not say it lightly, so as not to cause endless troubles.
How can a scheming girl not understand this truth?
She would rather crush and bury her heart than reveal half of it to others. The more you understand the stakes, the more you can stand the secret.
She knows very well that bad and fragile do not bring sympathy and help, but rather scorn and blows.
Even if your heart is in a mess, you have to pretend to be light on the surface, if you are accidentally recognized, it will be a war full of smoke.