There is a classic sentence in "How Steel is Made":
"The most precious thing for a person is life, and each person has only one life. A man's life should be spent in such a way that when he looks back, he will not regret that he wasted his time, nor be ashamed of his inaction."
People can be busy, but they can't be busy, and they must spend their precious time and energy on important things.
Find the right position
The most difficult thing for a person is to know himself.
Some people don't know what they want for the rest of their lives.
Many times, even though they work hard, they still achieve nothing, in fact, it is not that they do not struggle, but that they do not find their right position.
Life is like making a movie, everyone has their own role, and there are boundaries between each role.
Finding your own position can save you a lot of unnecessary trouble.
People must not be restrained, what others think and think, that is someone else's business.
As for you, you have to figure out what you are suitable for, after all, what suits you is the best.
When you are able to look at yourself at level, you can see the real world.
Stay healthy
No disease and light body. Having a healthy body is the greatest wealth of a person's life.
Take care of your body, not only for yourself, but also for the sake of not affecting the people around you and worrying your parents less.
In addition to maintaining a good body, it is also necessary to have a good mentality.
As the saying goes: "Laugh a little, ten years less; I was sad and turned white. ”
Maintaining a positive and optimistic attitude, having a cheerful smile, and living every day happily and happily is the way to maintain health.
If you are healthy, you will have a head in life; With a sunny attitude, life can be lived tastefully.
Keep reading
A person's way of doing things, way of thinking, and vision all stem from his book knowledge and experience knowledge.
I've heard a saying:
"A person has to take nine points to live, and one point has to be kept for himself. In this way, in the wind and rain of the external world, we can always retain the strength to insist on ourselves. ”
Reading is to nourish this strength, and it is the best way to fight the passage of time.
Those words that are integrated into the blood will not only improve your cultivation, but also enhance the courage to be yourself.
The more impetuous a person is, the more he needs the precipitation of books;
The more successful a person is, the more he needs the blessings of culture.
Only by insisting on reading can we constantly improve ourselves and take the direction of life into our own hands.
Make the right friends
"The success or failure of a life is all about the merit of friends, and you must not be careless."
When you go out, you can't do without friends, and it is easy to walk when you have more friends, but it is difficult to know people and distinguish people.
Society is a big dye vat, and who you make friends with will determine your life.
True friends, like two trees leaning together, can support each other and grow each other in the wind and rain, and bring you positive energy at all times.
As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
Socializing with good friends is like living in an indoor room surrounded by fragrant grass and the fragrance of Lanze, and unconsciously, you are also contaminated with fragrant grass and bathed in the rich fragrance.
Friends can affect you for the rest of your life. A good friend, in line with the three views, in danger, and in character.
Run a family
Family is the harbor of life and the destination of the soul.
The ship is broken and wants to return to the port, and the people are tired and want to return to their hometown. Home, can be tolerant of everything.
Tired birds know how to return, and fallen leaves return to their roots. Home can be a place of peace of mind.
Wang Zengqi said: "A warm home is more important than everything. ”
In this life, people spend most of their time at home, and a warm and harmonious family can stimulate people's potential and give people a sense of gain and happiness.
A good family is managed, and a person who is good at running a family must be a wise and intelligent person.
Cut through the complex and keep it simple
Life is a transformation between complex and simple.
At the beginning, I didn't know anything about the world, my mind was clear, and I saw what was what.
When you go through the world, you will see life and death, parting, love, hate, and obsession, and everything is complicated.
In the end, I unloaded my body and became my simple self again.
To enter the mortal world, to see and hear for a long time, to increase experience, is to be a man;
Out of the red dust, giving up material desires, and breaking obsessions, it is the cultivation of the mind.
Throughout our lives, we see heaven and earth and all living beings, but in the end we want to see ourselves.
In the first half of life, we must explore, experience, and have.
In the second half, you have to give up, you have to break, you have to leave. (Source: People's Daily Online Forum)