#头条首发大赛#我这更年期撞上儿子的青春期, this is a war without gunpowder every day, and you are so angry every day.
My name is Melly, I am 46 years old, I have a son and a daughter, my son is 18 years old, and my daughter is 13 years old.
I once remembered that there was a TV series called "Adolescence Meets Menopause", but I haven't watched the TV series, it seems that every day in the TV series is a life of chickens and dogs.
But I never thought that one day I would live a life of chickens and dogs, just like in the TV series, every day is a war without gunpowder.
I have just entered menopause, and every day I am hot-tempered, a little bit, a little thing is like a fire, nothing is pleasing to the eye, and it is uncomfortable to look at anyone.
I wasn't that kind of person before, I used to lose my temper easily, but since I was 45 years old, my temper has been growing up.
The son is not easy to discipline, he can't listen to anything, he didn't get into high school, he went to a technical school, he went to school to study hard, he didn't go to school after three days.
Haven't asked him how he did on the exam? He said that he had done everything he could do, but the implication was that he didn't know how to do it, and he didn't know how many questions he did?
I was furious: "What are you doing at school?" Why not study? Look at you with dyed yellow hair, with earrings, that boy like you? ”
The son was also furious: "Do you care about me? Why didn't you care about me when I was a child? Don't you just wait to see my sister, you are partial! ”
At that time, in order to live, my father and I went to work in other places, leaving him to take care of my grandparents, but he was only one year old at that time, and I took him out to work.
I feel sad from the bottom of my heart, who am I working so hard for? Don't you want to give him a good life? I was so dizzy for a moment that I was in tears.
My son was so angry that he slammed the door out and left, and I was so angry that I just wanted to drop things.
I don't know what to do now, I can't control my temper at all, I don't like my son, I don't like my husband, I am annoyed to death, why should I marry such a man?
Last year, menstruation was normal, after the Spring Festival this year, menstruation began to be abnormal, in February, menstruation stopped for a month and did not come, and in March it came again, in April and May did not come for two months, and in June menstruation came again, who knows if menstruation will come in July?
The more menstrual disorders become, the hotter my temper becomes, and during that period of time, my hands are stiff in the morning, and I can't take care of it, I have to go to work in a panic every day, and I have to take care of these two children, this son is still very rebellious, and he still doesn't obey discipline.
Some time ago, my daughter was uncomfortable again, she didn't even take the final exam, she went to the infusion every day, and the patients she saw in the township hospital were infused with fluids for a week, and she didn't see light.
The girl is always picky when she eats, she doesn't eat this or that, she is as thin as soybean sprouts, her throat is inflamed, but she is so dizzy that she can't stand steadily, like sliding down.
My husband and I were scared half to death, so we hurried to the city hospital, where we stayed in the hospital for a week, and the doctor said that she was malnourished, her throat was inflamed and swollen, but she couldn't keep up with her nutrition, which led to a decrease in immunity.
In the first few days of hospitalization, my husband and I took leave to take care of our daughter in the hospital, and then the condition stabilized, and my son was idle at home after the exam, so he asked him to go to the hospital to take care of his sister, and he was furious: "Is there a boy in the hospital?" Are you going to get a babysitter? ”
My husband and I are both workers, and we have to deduct our wages if we take a long leave of absence, and our son is eighteen years old this year, and I will have to buy a house for him when I get married in the future, how dare we take leave to rest?
I coaxed him to the hospital to take care of his sister for a day, and he asked for 100 yuan for the nurse, and only took care of him for one day, and then let him stay in the hospital for one more day, he turned around and left, and shouted to find a nanny.
How much does my dad and I earn a month? Looking for a babysitter? Seeing that he is eighteen years old, he hasn't bought a house yet?
I was angry and pressed down, there were so many people in the hospital watching, if I was at home, my son and I would have fought again.
My daughter should be promoted to the sixth grade, because she is not feeling well, she did not take the final promotion exam this time, and her son came back after the exam, and he was not at home every day.
This chaotic life every day, I have to be sneaky in this menopause, and I don't be justified at all, just this eldest son can make you vomit blood.
Alas, this menopause collides with puberty, and every day is like a war, chickens and dogs jump, and rabbit fur flies.