1. Reiki is a plus for popularity
Some girls, although beautiful in appearance, have dull eyes, expressionless faces, slow responses, old-fashioned personalities, stubborn tempers, insensitive to the outside world, and dull enthusiasm for life.
Such a girl, you are impressed by her appearance, but you are retreated by her dullness, beauty is beautiful, just feel what is the shortcoming.
Until you meet a girl who is not stunning in appearance, but full of aura. She is like the bright sunshine, like the bright stars, like the crystal clear dewdrops, clear and passionate.
You only then realize that the original appearance can be icing on the cake or insignificant in front of the aura.
A girl with superior skin, but lack of soul and lack of energy, will not make people feel very attractive, and a girl whose appearance is not brilliant enough, but has a lot of inner energy and a fresh personality, her attractiveness skyrockets.
Such a woman attracts not only girls who appreciate each other, but also boys who admire good character.
Then, her circle will slowly open up with her personality and charm, and her energy will also nourish those who are close to her.
No wonder some people say: A woman who looks ordinary, but has an aura, is the most worthy of love.
And where does the aura come from, from the expression of speech, the agility of body language, the sharpness flowing in the eyes, the wisdom surging in the thoughts, and the leaping consciousness in the heart.
Such a woman has strong comprehension, empathy, and social skills.
Chatting with her, you don't need to be very thorough to be able to understand, get along with her, you don't need to deliberately please to be able to go into your heart,
With such a woman, it is easier to build a long-term and healthy relationship.
2. Intelligent, reasonable, and appreciated
If a woman has a smart brain, has seen more than many people, is intelligent and sensible, is not self-righteous, does not rely on intelligence to make trouble, has the shrewdness to see through people's hearts, and has the kindness not to fool others, then she will be favored by intellectual boys and become a good match.
They are not only chess opponents in terms of ability, but also right-hand men in life.
This reminds me of the scene when I was chasing "Do You Know", when I saw the scene of Minglan getting married, everyone sighed that she was married well, and they all cast envious eyes.
The person she married was General Gu, an upstart in the imperial court, and in the context of the time, for a concubine who was not prominent, it was already a high marriage, and this family affair was not all smooth sailing.
Minglan has always called Gu Tingye as her second uncle, and she is more respectful and polite than good. And Gu Tingye had already quietly moved his heart when he saved her.
Gu Tingye did not hesitate to overcome all difficulties in order to marry Minglan , while moving out of the cousin of the Cao family to involve the son of the He family, and at the same time rushing to propose marriage in front of the little grandfather, it can be said that the organs were exhausted, and finally moved Minglan and hugged the beauty.
A smart and aura woman like Minglan is deeply appreciated and loved by high-quality men, and she doesn't have to worry about having a good marriage.
The little grandfather has admired her for a long time, and the two fell in love in the early stage, but ended up without a problem later, which has also become difficult for many audiences; And the son of the He family is also quite fond of her, repeatedly visiting the door, caring for her, sending ointment, and cooking fish soup, the two almost got married, if it weren't for the male protagonist to make a stalk, maybe they would become dependents; Gu Tingye devoted all his resources to her, and tried his best to connect the same branches, holding hands and seeing the old.
Not to mention how the TV series is, in real life, in choosing a mate, girls want to be able and responsible, and boys want to find capable and empathetic helpers.
If you are smart, capable, and humane, then you will have a much greater chance of meeting someone who appreciates you.
3. Emotional intelligence is early and emotional value is high
Girls with aura usually like to read, and the wisdom in the book gives her the aura of temperament, teaches her the principles of how to behave in the world, teaches the experience of solving problems, and guides the essentials of being able to speak.
The more you read the book, the more unique your insights are, and the more you can look at what you know.
And such girls often focus on learning and thinking, are good at analyzing problems, can chat, know how to judge the situation, can do what they like, and understand the key points of people's hearts.
The reason why a person has aura is because she does not have a very solid and sharp quality in her body, it is as warm as jade, it flows like water, and it is as gentle as a cloud.
She can give you different opinions, but she does not force you to listen, have her own opinions, and respect the other party's opinions, whether to adopt or not depends on the other party's choice, does not interfere with decision-making, does not go its own way, does not dictate and arbitrary, expresses ideas softly, puts forward opinions appropriately, retains self while accepting differentiated ideas.
A girl with aura is often very good at providing emotional value, because she is good at observation and will consider what the other person needs, rather than standing in her own perspective and giving the other person what she needs.
For example, if a person is very irritable and wants an independent and quiet space, rather than talking and comforting, then she will walk away silently and let the other person think quietly, instead of chattering and enlightening.
What she provides is what the other party needs, not what she thinks, and she really considers the problem from the other party's point of view, understands and cares at the right time, there is no annoying self-righteousness, and there is no self-defeating self-defeating cleverness that is clever, everything is just right.
If you focus on these strengths, then you will be more comfortable in business relationships. The noble person you are destined to love you will love you even more.