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Preface
In the past, there was an old man in the subway who "pulled" a girl to grab a seat, and the current uncle slapped the racket net into the face of an innocent boy in order to grab the sports venue.
What everyone didn't expect was that as the identity and background of the old man were picked up and the details of the scene were exposed, the boy chose to be tolerant.
So, what is the identity of the old man, and what is the unspeakable secret of the boy?
The uncle slapped the boy angrily
On July 1, a video of an old man slapping the boy's face with a ball rushed to the hot search.
On that day, four young people met to come to the sacred place in their hearts - the sports field of the community, and just as they were immersed in the warm atmosphere of the game, a 65-year-old man quietly walked into their playing field at the moment when they picked up the ball.
Because this venue can only be entered by paying for it, many people also grab the position, after all, no one wants to pay for the venue to enter, and it is not over yet, so let's go, but this kind of "forcible occupation" is not very good.
At the beginning, the young men were still reasoning with the uncle in a good voice, saying that this was their venue, but the uncle was not only unreasonable, but the uncle directly used the racket in his hand to pump it in the young man's face.
And the sound is crisp, everyone knows that the badminton racket is very hard, but the uncle directly hit the badminton string into the guy's face during the operation, and the racket was broken, which shows how strong the uncle is.
At this time, the young man's delicate face was already beaten with a blue nose and swollen face, clearly leaving a red and swollen mark, judging from the video, the guy should still be a teenager, this is still a child, how did the uncle do it.
In the face of such behavior, the boy couldn't bear it anymore and scolded the uncle: "Are you cheap or not, you go too far every time"!
When the uncle heard such a child insulting himself, he was not to be outdone: "You know that I have spent 1,800 bags on this venue for a year."
Uncle, even if we have a year, we can't beat people, besides, it's your fault in the first place, seizing other people's bottom territory, and beating people, and even a child on the other side!
And the boy didn't fight back, because he clearly knew that his strength and the difference in body shape, and after doing it himself, he was completely unreasonable, and the people around him saw such a scene and immediately went to dissuade the police.
The results were unexpected
After receiving the report, the police immediately attacked, took the old man back to the police station for investigation, and sent the boy to the hospital, after examination, there was nothing serious, but because the badminton racket had wires and fibers and other materials, it entered the skin tissue, and several tetanus injections were given.
After a detailed investigation, the old man admitted that he had had three encounters with the teenager before, and each dispute stemmed from a dispute over the right to use the public activity area.
2024-07-0411:20 Upstream News: The uncle in a badminton hall in Jiangsu took a racket and slapped the boy's face
In the end, the result of the compensation was only that the boy got 500 yuan in compensation, and an apology, which was hastily settled, and the boy also chose to accept the uncle's apology and continued to return to the court to play.
The identity of the old man was questioned
In the face of such a result, many people are puzzled by this, why is the result of dealing with the elderly so easy, can it be solved with only 500 yuan, and why did the man choose to be tolerant and did not continue to pursue it? Is there something unspeakable behind it?
With the deep digging of netizens, I learned that the uncle is suspected to be retired from the local court, and the people who work hard to play badminton are all retired cadres!
However, regardless of the true situation of this uncle, we should maintain a rational attitude and avoid unfounded speculation or dissemination of unverified information.
In the current era of rapid information dissemination, every citizen has the responsibility to maintain a clean online environment and promote the positive development of public opinion.
The dispute between the aunt and the guy over the shop
In September 2023, on a speeding train, a dispute over seat change quietly staged, an aunt and a young man disagreed over seat adjustment, and the words gradually escalated into a fierce verbal dispute, and even the aunt pointed the finger at the guy's mother.
2023-09-07 15:27·The guy on the strait network train refused to change seats with his aunt and was scolded Man: Is it wrong to be young?
The trigger for the incident was that although both passengers had purchased sleeper tickets, the seats were different, the aunt was placed in the upper berth, while the young man had the place in the lower berth, and on the grounds of poor physical condition, the aunt asked the young man to change the bed, but the young man did not agree to this proposal.
After being rejected, the aunt did not stop there, and directly scolded: "Your mother raised you for nothing", and the guy did not let it, and replied: "I am wrong when I am young?" Can I be like you at 70 years old, and besides, did my mom spend your money? ”
When the aunt heard this, she was directly furious, and blurted out a series of swear words.
And the aunt's behavior has also been strongly sanctioned by everyone, originally this matter was obviously taken advantage of by the aunt, but when I saw the aunt, I was full of anger when I opened my mouth, and I really couldn't see that my health was not good.
If the other party is reluctant to exchange, there is really no need to take a tough attitude, and during the journey, especially in a relatively closed space such as a train, everyone will inevitably feel a little anxious, and at this time, it is necessary to show a spirit of mutual understanding and tolerance.
The old man slapped the guy 4 times angrily and made himself angry
When going out to meet the elderly fall and provide assistance, there are indeed cases where they may be misunderstood or injured by mistake out of good intentions, and how to prove their innocence has become the focus of public attention.
There was such an incident in 2014, when on a bus, the uncle got on the bus, and it happened that there was no seat at that time, and no one gave up the seat to the uncle, and the uncle was also very dissatisfied with this.
walked to the young man's side to give up his seat, at that time the young man also took the test for a day, he was very tired and was sleeping, and he didn't see the uncle, so the uncle directly slapped 4 times angrily, and the guy woke up the guy, but the guy didn't want to cause trouble, so he didn't move, and he didn't fight back, which made the uncle even more angry, and muttered all the way.
In the end, he directly committed a heart attack and died of anger on the bus, in the face of such behavior, how could the uncle's family let it go and sue the guy in court, and the result was also sad - the guy paid 500,000 yuan.
The uncle fanned the guy and didn't give up his seat and died suddenly after 4 slaps, and the family claimed 500,000 yuan, and the court sentenced 2023-06-28 08:15 Nanyang Politics and Law
For the old alone
Although "respect for the elderly", as one of the core values of traditional Chinese culture, is deeply rooted in social ethics and daily behavioral norms, advocating respect and care for the elderly, in the rapidly changing modern society, this traditional concept may also derive some negative effects.
First, when this notion is over-interpreted or misused, it can lead older people to dominate social interactions without considering the feelings and rights of others, especially the voices and needs of young people.
This one-dimensional power structure not only inhibits young people's initiative and creativity, but also stimulates intergenerational contradictions and conflicts, and harms family and social harmony.
And the practice of overemphasizing age as a source of authority sometimes makes some elderly people have a sense of superiority and ignore their own behavioral norms and sense of social responsibility.
For example, rude behavior in public places and disregard for public rules, if attributed to the status of "elders", is undoubtedly a misunderstanding and abuse of the virtue of "respect for the elderly", and it also hurts the feelings of young people who truly respect and care for the elderly.
In addition, this perception may also exacerbate the unequal distribution of social resources, in areas such as employment, health care, education, etc., if priorities are judged only by age, rather than on individual ability and contribution, then this will seriously dampen young people's motivation and sense of fairness, and in the long run, it will not be conducive to the overall progress and innovation of society.
Although respect for the elderly is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, in the process of practice, it should be avoided to distort it into an extreme form of "respecting the elderly", but to advocate a new type of intergenerational relationship based on mutual respect, understanding and equal dialogue, so that people of all ages can find their place in society, play their due role, and jointly build a more just and harmonious social environment.
However, while promoting the tradition of respecting the elderly, we should strive to create a social environment where everyone can feel respected and understood by others, and can live in harmony in society and create a better future together, regardless of age.