It has been said that the most important thing in a woman's life is to marry a good man. When a woman chooses a good husband, it is equivalent to choosing happiness.
Some people say that the biggest misfortune after marriage is not meeting the right person.
For women, marriage is not just as simple as a certificate, it is more reflected in the bits and pieces of life.
Marriage not only requires mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual trust between husband and wife, but also requires continuous run-in between two people.
- Reluctant to communicate with you, unwilling to share his life
If a man is not willing to communicate with you and share his life, then he has no feelings for you.
Because when a man is with a woman, he needs to share his desires, and if he is not willing to share his life with you, then it is obvious that he does not like you.
And a woman, if she has feelings for a man, she will pay attention to the man's every move in her life, and she will also give the man encouragement at the appropriate time.
In life, if a man is busy all the time, you ask him what he is busy with and he always says "no time".
Then I think you should let it go. Because such a man doesn't really love you.
- In front of you, always play with your phone and don't look at it
In "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng has always been cynical in front of Luo Zijun.
Every time Luo Zijun asked him to help get something, he looked impatient and said that he was busy.
But when the child was sick, after Luo Zijun took a few days off, Chen Junsheng was very anxious to hand over the work and let her rest assured.
Many times, whether a person loves you or not is shown in the details. Someone who doesn't love you, even if he is busy, will squeeze time to spend with you.
Someone who truly loves you will always find a way to spend time with you. Even when he's busy, he puts the most important things first.
He won't leave you feeling bored, lonely, and helpless.
On the contrary, if a man always has a good time holding his phone in front of you and never takes the initiative to talk to you.
Even if he is busy, he will find an opportunity to call or message you to chat with you or share interesting things in life.
Such men are often the ones who are most attractive to women.
- I don't know how to respect your opinions, and I don't care about your feelings
Someone who truly loves you will definitely respect your opinion and care about your feelings.
He will take into account your feelings, make you happy, make you happy; He will take into account your opinion, respect your choice, and give you peace of mind; He will take into account the relationship between the two of you and will not be embarrassed by something.
If a man doesn't know how to respect your opinions, doesn't care about your feelings, always goes his own way, and doesn't take into account women's feelings and thoughts at all, then he has never loved such a man at all.
- He will find all kinds of reasons not to accompany you
When you are entangled and troubled about something, he will find all kinds of reasons and excuses, and he is unwilling to accompany you because he has someone else in his heart.
When you are busy and tired at work, he will say that he has important things to do and has no time to spend with you.
He can't be there for you when you need him.
In fact, when a man really loves you, he will have a lot of time with you.
And when a man no longer loves you, he will find all kinds of reasons and excuses to prevaricate and perfunctory you.
When a man doesn't love you anymore, it doesn't matter if he treats you well or not.
Therefore, women must stop losses in time, and don't keep paying and sacrificing themselves stupidly. Only by letting go in time can you meet better people.