Life in the world, it seems that the task of passing on the generations must be completed, especially in China, where the concept of family is strong. There is a Chinese saying: There are three filial pieties, and no queen is greater, which profoundly reveals the family outlook and fertility outlook of the Chinese.
Indeed, in ancient societies where productivity was extremely low, in order to achieve the continuation of the human race, human beings had to do their best to reproduce, and the task of reproducing offspring seemed to have been written into human genes.
But in modern society, people's sense of autonomy has gradually awakened, and more and more people have realized one point: human life is only once, so it is necessary to live easily and happily. Stopping raising the next generation is the most effective means of making yourself easier and happier.
Under the influence of this idea, more and more people choose not to have offspring, and more and more Dink families have emerged. The entertainment industry, which pursues fashion, is the first place where this trend of thought is first popular.
In the entertainment industry, there is an actor who has been popular all over the country, putting his personal life in the spotlight, and he and his wife have not given birth to a man and a half woman in 21 years, which has aroused people's discussion. He is the actor Sun Song, who was popular because of "Longing".
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With the gradual popularization of television in China in the 1980s and 1990s, more and more people watched TV as their daily entertainment activities, and television sets became one of the important furniture in Chinese's homes without suspense, and even when newlyweds got married, television has become a necessity for starting a new family.
A large number of births of TV dramas have also spawned a group of popularity, that is, TV actors, at that time, TV actors were absolute celebrities, no matter where they went, they could become the focus of attention.
In 1990, a TV series "Longing" produced by the Beijing Television Arts Center quickly became popular after it was broadcast on CCTV, becoming a household television series.
Based on the marriage and love stories of young people at that time, this TV series tells the complex love experiences of several young people, revealing people's desire for love, family affection, friendship and a better life. One of the male protagonists is named Wang Husheng, and his actor is Sun Song.
There is also a small episode here: at that time, the TV director originally intended to let Pu Cunxin play Wang Husheng, in order to reject Sun Song, the director deliberately made a bad decision, about Sun Song to meet at five o'clock in the afternoon, because the director knew that there would be thunderstorms that afternoon.
He guessed that Sun Song would definitely not be able to come because of bad weather, but he did not expect that Sun Song attached great importance to this role, and braved the rain to come, and the director had to let him participate in this TV series.
In the end, once this TV series was broadcast, it quickly triggered a climax, becoming the most popular TV series at that time, triggering a national boom, Sun Song's outstanding performance, adding a lot of points to this TV series, and even setting off a boom of "the whole country mourns Liu Huifang, the whole country scolds Wang Husheng, and everyone sighs Song Dacheng", which became a unique scenery of that year.
With the increasing popularity of the TV series, the actors in the drama are also popular all over the country, and Sun Song, who almost lost his qualifications, has also become a popular star in China because of "Longing".
Sun Song's father is also a TV actor, Sun Song was born in Beijing, graduated from the Beijing Film Academy, is an actor with absolute strength, although he does not have a handsome appearance, but he is thick and straightforward, grounded, so he is loved by the majority of audiences.
After completing the filming of "Longing", Sun Song participated in a number of TV series, such as "Young Liu Bocheng" to "Daughter-in-law", "Jedi Gun King", etc., but compared with "Longing", the response to these TV series is not very large, resulting in Sun Song has been obscure in the show business circle.
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Sun Song's career, except for his outstanding performance in "Longing", has always been very flat, just like his life.
Modern actors, whether red or not, like to use their feelings to hype, regard feelings as children's plays, break up today, divorce tomorrow, people have not yet reacted to have announced that they have a new love.
The entertainment industry has also won the sigh of "your circle is really chaotic" because of the existence of such a person. But the older generation of actors are like mortals, valuing love and family, and Sun Song is the same. By chance, Sun Song and Hou Jilin met and fell in love at first sight, and soon entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, the two have always been in love, and they are the envy of everyone in the show business circle. Today, the couple has gone through twenty-one years together, and for twenty-one years, the two have lived together, attended events together, always had a good relationship, and had a happy and stable marriage.
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To outsiders, the loving couple has a bit of a fly in the ointment, that is, they have not considered having children for twenty-one years since they were married.
Although this practice is now very common, but decades ago, this practice seemed avant-garde and incompatible with the personalities around them, for this reason, Sun Song and his wife have not been less questioned by others.
In the matter of having children, the husband and wife have a high degree of consistency, they believe that the work and life of two people are relatively busy, usually there is little time to take care of the family, after having children, not only can not give children a good education and care, but also to bring problems to the common life of both sides, it is better to simply be a Dink family!
Sun Song and his wife, who have no children, have a really elegant life, do not need to consider the parenting and education of their children, do not have the quarrels caused by the raising of children like other families, and do not have the hard work of planning for their children everywhere.
Now, both husband and wife are more than half a hundred years old, and the couple is still as loving as ever, living happily in the world of the two.
In contemporary society, the development of productive forces has brought infinite possibilities to the survival and life of human beings, and people's lives are no longer limited to survival and reproduction, and people have a more suitable pursuit for themselves, and they can also choose the most suitable way for themselves!
Sun Song and his wife's approach is beyond reproach, under the high pressure of today's society, choosing to have children will inevitably bring joy and hope to family life, but at the same time, there are many problems caused by children, raising a small child, the energy spent by parents can be described as incalculable.
At the same time, it is also a huge expense in the economy, for example, school district housing is a major factor in driving up housing prices. Overall, raising children has benefits, but it can cause great trouble for family life and even lead to a plummeting decline in the quality of life.
We don't respect or criticize the Dink family, after all, everyone has their own ideas, and modern society allows individuals to choose the way that suits them best.
Text/Li Qingyu